No, no, no, no.
Yoga, do the course today.
But do buy some chocolate and have a little 5 min break every hour, though. :o
I think I agree with the 1st date ever thing, Sponge. Men tend to shoot in many directions and I suppose the first one tends to be experimental, with not much to compare. Or they were just lying.
Maybe make sure that it's not their first time or wait to actually go on dates until they actually have with other people.
In any case, it seems that most men do tend to be put off by successful women. That is not an advantage for a female, just for men.
Oh, and don't jump to conclusions about others being on the dating sites. Some people, particularly living alone, leave the computer on and logged on to sites. No reason to logout and it may give the impression that they are active, but they are not.
Scumbag, good luck.
And congratulations Watch.
Which leads to: do you think he is just not aware of those things, and needs to be made aware, or is he just trying to win you back and will revert soon?
Does he really want you as his gf, or does he think that's what you want? Because if he does, then it won't be fair to meet him to use for sex at weekends. If he thinks that's what you want, then he's just tricking you.
Personally, I'd prefer a clean break, or it might get too complicated.