Yoga, gah, It's exhausting, isn't it. And infuriating. I was back at my solicitors this summer over my ex husbands abusive behavior. We have been separated nearly 4 years, you would think he would let it go.
Just disengage. It's hard, but what else can you do. Sorry, tis crap.
Doing, the ie experiment, was the ' intimate encounter' experiment.
Lubey Said it was a good way to meet a more casual relationship, something between a fwb and a full blown thing. So, we set our profiles to that setting, made it very very clear we weren't after casual sex, were clear about what we did....
100's upon 100's of messages a.day, you wouldn't believe it.
Lots just after sex, some crude, some nice, the majority of men with profiles saying what a genuine man, how they wanted to settle down etc.....
It was very, very interesting, I dont think any of us would have believed it if we hadn't have done it.
More interesting were the messages from men who had asked me out, then vanished, then decided what I wanted was right... Explained their reason for vanishing as thinking I wanted a relationship and that was too much... Even though their Profile said the same...