Will anyone admit to...?

[Just5minspeace]

...having an affair that no-one found out about?

Grabs popcorn and a cushion and sits down to watch.

Yep, me.

pinching your popcorn but offering a slurp of my drink whilst sitting down next to you with expectation (pssst, do you think anyone will own up if no-one knows?)

Oooooo that was the trailer, when will the film start?

Yes.

Ongoing / over? Sorry being nosey- would you do it again?

If I was honest I'd have to name change and I don't want to do that.

Hmm, mind whirring...

Yes, six years on I'm still having an affair.

No, it's over. Lasted three years, and ended when I met my now DH. I would not cheat on my DH but I'd be lying if I said I didn't think about OM occasionally.

Nearly. I remain grateful to this day that I came to my senses before too much damage was done.

Yes. I will. Not proud of it in any way shape or form. Long, long time ago

yes, and I will look back when I am an old lady and smile at the incredible highs and shudder and not wish the lows on anyone

just!

Me too

My aunty has been having an affair with a married man for 32 years!!!!
Unsure if my uncle is aware??? My aunty has always called her "friend" Margaret, they go on holidays,weekends away etc. It's complete madness...

Not with my curren partner but when I was with my ex although he never found out. It was sexy and fun bit the reality was shit even though my husband was a shit. I would never do it again. Ever. Wasn't worth the hassle.
Made my sex drive soar! Still hasn't come down my partner isn't quite keeping up but I would still never do it.

I don't think that his gf knew that he was seeing me but then I also think she must have been really stupid not to figure it out and she wasn't stupid generally speaking so maybe she was head in the sand about it?

Also not proud. I didn't know about her when I fell for him but should have been stronger and kept away once I knew they were back as an item (they were not an item when we started seeing each other).

They definitely weren't right for each other and were heading for a lifetime of being unhappily together out of misplaced duty to each other - this song sums up what they were like together somebody that I used to know by Gotye

They are not together anymore and, although he says not, I do feel I was a catalyst for them splitting up.

Yes.

Yes, donkey's years ago. No wouldn't do it again.

Yes. Me as well. Ongoing.

More than I was anticipating already.

JustTheRightAmountofWrong... tell me more

Me.

But I confessed, so not fair to say no-one found out.

And it's started up again now I'm separated.

I truly love him.

Yes. I had a few. The result was I stayed in a relationship that was really over 4 years before I eventually left.