Can I ask about sex and wee? At the same time?

[PintandChips]

In a new relationship - he has an 'interesting' sexul request. Am not sure about it. Can anyone advise if I am being totally prudish?

Or maybe it happens by accident. ???

\Could be faitly easy re. the pee. You tickle someone, they pee from laughter, "Oooo I like that...."

You see, for me it would go ^tickle, laugh, tickle, pee from laughing^ "OMG!!!!I have 6 kids, my pelvic floor is......GO! JUST GO!!!!!" and never see them again. :o

I would punch dh round the chops before he tickled me until I peeed myself!

He doesn't respect her boundaries.

That should be a cause for concern.

:o another violent reactor!! I am not alone!

I once got into soooo much trouble as a child when I kicked my dad in the face. I still maintain it was his fault for tickling my foot!

bogeyface I think the problem is that people don't really know what is "outside the mainstream" nowadays. Porn has skewed everyone's perceptions of what is normal. Oral sex used to be considered risque, it's now considered vanilla.

That's why I htink it's important for people to trust their own instaincts and if they don't want to do something, not to be afraid of being considered a prude or boring or whatever, because they think "everyone else is doing it".

Anyway good luck with whatever you decide PintandChips. Good ngiht.

If you tickle then you should be prepared for the consequences!

Pee , kick in the balls, punch in the face.....

DOnt get me wrong Basil I agree that if instincts are saying no then go with them. I just got the feeling that the OP was curious and wanted to check.

BOnkey yep, you tickle me then you do it at your own risk!

I did this once in my adventurous youth, at his request. I didn't find it a turn on and neither did he, I don't think.
He watched a lot of porn and between the two of us we tried lots of things during the two years we were, for want of a better word, intimate.
I, personally, don't think you should op unless your getting some sort of 'it could be fun' feelings.

i honestly dont know why i like it bogey, i wouldnt say it is part of my sex life either, its something we have done, sometimes do and may do again occasionally. we are sexually very adventurous, and i like a bit of slap (but like others no tickle, tickle me and i'll rip your face off!) . I guess we went through a stage where we tried lots of stuff. Maybe porn had a part to play in it, we both watch it, or have watched it. I don't think we have ever had a conversation along the lines of "shall we try" it probably something that happened during sex , a sort of "shall i"? type question "go for it" type answer and "oooh, thats quite niace"

Have you done it yet?

It's pissing down here in London. How's it been for you, OP?

Love, you have been going out with this guy for 10 weeks.

God knows how soon you started having 'vanilla' sex with him, but he asked you FIRST time to piss in his mouth.

You said no.

He's not stopped asking.

That IS pressure. do you not see that?

You say he's great in every way, a bit emotionally distant, but so are you.

You can't and don't even have the intimacy to be able to discuss this matter properly. You are scared that IF you don't piss in to a grown man's mouth, an act you find EW, then you will lose him and so are considering doing it anyway.

IF A MAN WILL LEAVE YOU OVER THIS, THEN YOU NEED TO MOVE ON NOW!

For the love of god, can you not see that YOU DON'T KNOW THIS GUY! You've NOTHING invested in him, nor he you, this guy is a stranger. He is probably putting on an act to reel you in, but you won't know for sure for a long time to come.By which time it will be too late. He however is showing you just a little of the person he is, adn that little bit repulses you.

Think about it, if he is asking for THIS now, what will come later?

You need to listen to your instincts. They are SCREAMING at you. This guy is not right for you, he is a user, and more than a little warped. Forget that your friends know him, unless they shagged him, or lived with him, they won't know him enough to tell you anything about him. Also most people stay WELL out of advising others NOT to get involved.

Pack him in. Run like the frigging wind.

OP can I suggest you piss through your knickers in the toilet first and then sit on his face... see how you both like that, then if it's good move on to the next stage

Callie, for some reason, i have no clue why (because DP and I like watersports) that seems a bit ewww lolol

Happyhissy, im sorry but your post is a teeny bit condescending. It really matters not a fuck when she started having sex with him. "god knows how soon you started having vanilla sex with him" Really????

I shagged my DP on the first date, although he didnt suggest watersports at that stage - that was 20 years ago

well as long as you sit on him when it is still fresh doggie it's actually quite fun ;-)

blimey I cant even pee on the loo if im hassled or dh is hovering round never mind if he was led on the floor/bed/plastic sheeting with his gob open in anticipation. Id probably piss myslef from laughing so much

Wee is quite smelly too isnt it? It smells of wee. ugh.

nup still eww - i like to um, well, swallow when i do a bj, but the second and i mean the very second its spurted, tis ewwwwwww but im just weird

My DP did point out that "all those women who are squeamish about wee" ask them if they have their DHs cum on them" He has a point

I like to do that too doggie... tis not ewwww!

No, he doesn't.

Sperm is not the same as urine.

Sperm is a by product of sex. Urine is a by product of pissing. For me, those two things are separate.

That's like saying that having bogey, shit or ear-wax smeared over you is the same as having sperm on you.

Well yes, if you make no distinction.

But most people make the distinction.

Yeah semen is sex juice and wee is well, piss! I would distinguish.

Well, OP, it's fair to say you've got a range of responses here about where individuals draw thd line get their kinky kcks but what matters is where you draw the line get your kicks

personally, I'd only be comfortable exploring boundaries getting kinky- in a relationship with rock solid trust.

Good luck and and enjoy your sex life.

This has got to be the funniest thread I have ever read. Please come back and let us know op what happened in as much detail as possible