To think my husband is a cunt?

[dawnpreview]

After yet another row, in which I am told I do nothing round the house as all I do is stay home and look after the kids. I just heard him shouting at the dog and saying to it 'you're a dickhead just like the rest of them'. How nice that he thinks that of his wife and kids :(
Just went down and let him know I had heard him, and got told 'well it's true, none of you listen to me'
I am sat here in tears now, as I am just so fed up of everything being my fault and him never taking responsibility for any of it.
I know he works hard, and fully support him in all he does. But with 4 year old twins to look after, I don't exactly sit on my arse all day. I do absolutely everything with the kids. He never puts them to bed, gives them a bath, reads a bedtime story, cooks their meals, spends time alone with them- all apparently because he works and I don't, so it's my job.
As I said, I know he works hard and long hours etc, but surely other dads make some time to occasionally put their kids to bed/read a story etc. Or do they not? Maybe this is normal?
Sorry this is a bit long and waffly, I am just so angry and upset I needed to 'talk' to someone. Thanks for reading.

[ExhaustedDad]

dont drink, dont smoke
want to try again

[ExhaustedDad]

ED is researching
Interesting lot.

[LtEveDallas]

don't drink, don't smoke what do you do

Oh Dear God, Exhausted Dad is Adam Ant - no wonder he's not making any sense

[BoreOfWhabylon]

No LtEve, it's all for his 'research'

[TantrumsAndBalloons]

Exhusteddad, are you smoking weed or something?

Because you are talking bollocks. Maybe it sounds like a coherent post to you, inside your own head, I can assure you it is not.
Even to foul mouthed, uneducated people

[AnyFucker]

You're a funny onion aren't you, ExhaustedDad ?

[ExhaustedDad]

LtEveDallas

54 yrs if it matters.
do you think you would have became the "breadwinner" when the children were first born? Or only now 8 years ago.
My children are independent, and I have always supported my wife in her options.
Apologies, don't recall stating I had a problem with SAHD.
Bring It! (I would love it)

[BoreOfWhabylon]

What research, ED? Can we look forward to it being published somewhere?

[TantrumsAndBalloons]

Bring what?

[MatersMate]

Exhaust Do you care to answer the question as to how you happened on a year old thread?

[TantrumsAndBalloons]

He's researching maters

[MatersMate]

Researching 'cunty husbands and their pissed off wives'?

[TantrumsAndBalloons]

I think just cunty husbands.

[chipmonkey]

If my husband were trawling through my posts from a year ago, I would think he was a controlling, stalking cunt. I would probably Leave The Bastard.

[BoreOfWhabylon]

Aha! ED

[ExhaustedDad]

MatersMate
I have "happened" onto approx 20 plus threads per day. Interestingly this was 12 months old and it sprang to life. unexpected but bled it anyway
BoreOfWhabylon,
when I am outraged the internet would be my last option.
this is a six month research exercise with a monthto go - thank god.

[BoreOfWhabylon]

Oooooh serious research!

Twenty threads per day for six months. Gosh.

Have you reached any conclusions yet, ED?

[ExhaustedDad]

TantrumsAndBalloons

great comments - will certainly share with the group. Intelligent

[TantrumsAndBalloons]

Your weed smoking "group"?

Are they all as wonderfully intelligent and well written as yourself?

[BoreOfWhabylon]

What is this group of which you speak, ED?

And could their, ahem... activities have anything to do with the recent upsurge in bumping of old threads and rather odd posts from new posters, I wonder?

[CherylTrole]

ED Where you trying and failing to say Bring It ONNNN?
dawnpreview how are you? Did you LTC ?!

[BoreOfWhabylon]

Similar to my own what? I have no recorded data pertinent to Mumsnet

[BoreOfWhabylon]

So your group has stealthily infiltrated Mumsnet with a mission to examine 20 threads per day each, to be 'shared' with the group? Is that right?

[ExhaustedDad]

CherylTrole

May be "Bring it ONNNNN" in your world,
In our base jumping family - we refer to it as "Bring It!"

Failed nothing - > Trole> TRoll>(

Winning is living - everything else is just waiting.
Enjoy your life