Support thread for survivors of childhood sexual abuse PART 4

[CailinDana]

The first three parts of this thread:
Part 1
Part 2
Part 3

The purpose of these threads is to allow survivors of childhood sexual abuse, their partners, friends, or parents, to talk in a safe place about what they think and feel. Nothing is off limits or taboo, just say what you want to say.

Sorry for offloading tonight

Dotty - there's going to be no judgement at the Drs if you have changed your mind about stopping meds after the changes that have happened. It's totally up to you obviously but prevention is better than cure as they say.

Coffee - ya twee bugger! < blub > you don't give yourself enough credit, really. Also don't forget the OOh GP if you need to or it get's worse.
I'm fairly sure you need to get some kind of dragon training to be a doctors receptionist, it's weird. I've met and liked all other receptionists at a fairly usual ratio but Drs surgery ones are just malicious! I remember putting a compaint in after having an argument with one about a prescription. It was ready (so dr signed and happy) but instead of opening the box and using her eyes she opened my notes and started telling me how I couldn't have one it was too early (wasn't, she couldn't count) and what was it for - listing my conditons in the reception in front of everyone. I was so angry - why would I need xyz medication for such and such condition (oh excuse me Dr Google!!) fuming I was. Terrible. Poor practice manager got both barrels which I felt bad about afterward. Come to think of it I haven't seen her around for ages.

Haha Dr rant, apologies.

Oh one of my gp receptionists went around town telling everyone, everyone else's symptoms she got sacked, well done for reporting, patient confidentiality n all that

am currently in my first bunfight on another thread, whoooah! some crazy peeps about

Oh god - it's all started today. I have so far resisted the urge to answer a snotty one with "I don't actually give a flying fuck my dear, I was being generous to try and stop OP feeling like a silly sausage but well done for making the OP feel like poo!" I would like to but then actually found I don't give a flying rubber duck!!

Stupid woman! I can believe it - my Dh's GP was fired from the practice because he was discussing patients with his dinner guests. Unfortunately for him he chose the wrong patient to gossip about this time and got reported by a disgruntled relative. Good. Twunt! I don't understand why people think it's ok.

Well I've stood up for myself, am shaking like mad and don't care what anyone else thinks, I stood up for myself, cries just a little bit I've never been able to do that, omg, I stood up for myself.

You did! I'm sorry I got there too late to see but if you got deleted it must have been pretty freaking good. Huge smile, round of applause!

:o

and for everyone, including MNHQ.

Thanks Nic, can't remember what I put though. Will try not to engage when I don't agree in the future.

Morning all how is everyone this morning? x

I'm well, dotty. Slept well, ds in a good mood, weather isn't too bad. How are you?

Not bad hunting for my get up and go seem to have lost it again.

I just had a police officer round because of my crazy family. He is going to speak to them and ask them to leave me alone.
The best bit though is he said sorry for the police not taking my abuse case to court and called my father a wanker. Ha ha ha ha ha.
I've been angry with the police in general for 6 years, so to get a sorry from one of them felt rather good :)

Dotty, it would be great if you could have a quiet day and just take it easy for now. Yesterday must have been very draining, you need to give yourself time to recover.

That's good news Amitola. I would advise you to keep contacting the police if they give you any more hassle. Well done to that policeman for saying that to you.

Not my style Cailin managed to cler rubbish out of garden but looks like I'm not going to be doing much anyway dropped part of a slab on my ankle uits skinned, black and sore.

Amitola thats really good can I suggest you keep a diary of anything, was it the police or CPS who wouldn't proceed with your case?

Ouch dotty that sounds sore!

Sorry Cailin.

I have learnt a valuable life lesson, if you don't understand someone, don't bother.

Sorry Coffee, I don't understand your post.

Don't bother :o

Coffee are you ok xx

Yes, I'm changing as a person, I'm learning new ways of being the person I want to be, I'm not perfect, I lack social skills and I have trouble expressing myself against dominate personalities.

I do feel dominate personalities come across as abusive and I will have to say, at the moment, I am not capable of sensibly disagreeing, that includes RL people

Might bugger orf for a bit to work on being self assertive for when I can't avoid people.

Coffee, do feel free to talk about whatever is on your mind here. If you'd rather not we understand of course, I just get the sense something is bugging you.

Yes, you were talking about similar the other day. When you're interacting with someone and you feel like they are abusive or belittling, how do you handle that?

Previously and currently at work, when I deal with a difficult person I just ignore insults and try to deflect them either by agreeing with them or changing the subject.

I would like, however, to be able to sensibly defend my position if I think they're wrong but can't because I get upset.

Amitola, big hugs for you and that policeman :y

That's a tough one Coffee, not one I've cracked yet.