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who are these freaks whao have affairs with married men

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cod · 20/01/2006 12:04

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jenk1 · 20/01/2006 12:11

misdee who is this trollop that wants your peter?

morningpaper · 20/01/2006 12:11

I was one!

I know it's awful, I did lots of awful things to lots of good women's husbands. I feel very bad about it now.

At the time I was young and foolish but still.. I liked the idea of no-strings relationships (for me) - if a married man because obsessed by me I could just walk out on him. I had a lot of bad experiences beforehand. I didn't think of their wives at all.

I was wicked wicked wicked I know. I have a lot of happiness now and I don't deserve it. But people do wicked things for a lot of reasons - we are all fucked up somehow and we are all selfish in a lot of ways. Put the two things together and you get a lot of destructive behaviour.

cod · 20/01/2006 12:12

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WideWebWitch · 20/01/2006 12:12

I was an utter commitment phobe at the time, as were they in terms of any relationship with me, obv.

beansontoast · 20/01/2006 12:12

who is to say they dont already have families of their own?

Rhubarb · 20/01/2006 12:13

My bro just succumbs to temptation. He started Uni and then all these younger girls just started throwing themselves at him, literally! It made him feel new and confident, but he has left a wake of devastation behind him!

Stupid bints!

morningpaper · 20/01/2006 12:13

was it hte superiority thing?
was it he secrecy?
was it his moey?

All of those were good. Mainly I just got better sex and more loving attention though.

WideWebWitch · 20/01/2006 12:14

I didn't feel superior. There wasn't any secrecy, I lived miles from the wife. And there wasn't even any money, I was a mistress, not a kept woman!

nutcracker · 20/01/2006 12:14

Meant to add that I wasn't.

cod · 20/01/2006 12:14

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misdee · 20/01/2006 12:14

she is a trollop. and mad with it. she is now saying her and hubby are splitting up. thank god she cant drive to see him.

morningpaper · 20/01/2006 12:15

I love old men

they are the best

I love their hairy chests and bald heads

erm should we delete this thread?

Beetroot · 20/01/2006 12:16

I had an affair with a married man when I was younger

Rhubarb · 20/01/2006 12:16

I think young girls just like exercising their power over older men, and it makes them feel good to think that they are better than the men's wives, they relish the youthfulness they have that the wives do not have. It's all about power.

WideWebWitch · 20/01/2006 12:16

Well I thought mine were old men but er, they were, I think in their mid 30s and I was 23/4.

misdee · 20/01/2006 12:17

hey, peters fancy wom,an is older than me. bloomin trollop. pleaseplease can i go slap her?

cod · 20/01/2006 12:17

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Rhubarb · 20/01/2006 12:17

My bro is 45 and his bints are in their twenties.

morningpaper · 20/01/2006 12:17

I honestly never gave any thought to their wives at all.

FairyMum · 20/01/2006 12:18

Perhaps some women fall in love with married men? A man doesn't have to cheat. He is the only one to blame in my books.

VeniVidiVickiQV · 20/01/2006 12:19

Do you think the absence of some posters on this thread is telling or am i just a cynic?

Beetroot · 20/01/2006 12:20

I was young and free and single adn a marreid man came on to me. You don't think at that age., You don't know what is going on at home. (well I didn't) It is just flattery and lust.

jenk1 · 20/01/2006 12:20

yes misdee- leather her, dirty old minger

NotQuiteCockney · 20/01/2006 12:20

I knowingly got involved with a married guy when I was 18. He was a complete and utter slut, one of those men who just fancy everyone, all the time, and aren't even vaguely subtle about it. I did feel badly about his wife (who I never met), but at I was 18 and bonkers.

His wife had caught him cheating before, a few times, and stayed with him. I don't think she ever found out about us.

misdee · 20/01/2006 12:20

should say peter says no way, but she is chasing him. its very funny but also v annoying. jeez they split up when they were 16, she should get over it.

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