''I just WISH I could find someone worthy of a proper relationship instead of a long stream of fuckwits" Dating chat #6

[lubeybooby]

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oh god and if you agree i need to get back out there and do some research then how do i go about that? who on here has done the 'casual' dating thing and how does it go? and how the hell do you find men you fancy on pof?

I'm sure i am swallowed! ;)

South of England,but i'm afraid i'm rather head of heels with a young lady who happens to post on here :)

I think you should go for it personally. Your behaviour is far from slapper esque!

I guess by 'slapper' you mean someone who is promiscuous?
I dont really see anything wrong with being promiscuous (and probably would be more so myself were it not for my reclusive tenancies)

I understand the tendancy to feel emotionally attached to someone if the sex worked especially well, I guess the more sexual partners you have the more you learn to manage that.

As for casual dating, I find the NSA sites a bit better than POF for that...but you still have to go through the tedium of meeting lots of people who are just not what you're looking for

what's nsa?

oh! no strings attached. can't see it - sounds a bit meat market hideous and likely to attract every dodgy on earth.

for sure the devil casts his net wider on NSA sites..but there are some nice men on there (just ones who dont want a full on relationship) and it's pretty easy to spot the not nice ones, they show their true colours straight away

what sites?

after my big talk i've just gone through the first five pages of a local search on pof and remembered that there are no guys out there i fancy even if i'm not looking for someone relationship worthy.

god it's a dessert/desert.

you could try www.adultfishdating.co.uk
it's free to women and links in with several other sites afaik

I haven't done NSA for a few years now but didn't really find it any different to " conventional" dating. Met some great women who I was very fond of. If anything you get more honesty and less time wasters!

just ordinary dating with anatomical profile pics

Ok, what does everyone make of this message I've received?

'So , im sending you a message. Liked your profile & used an " enlarger " to see the photo ! Ha ha.'

I'm a bit about the enlarger reference, and btw, he's really unsuitable. I'm fed up of this now!

oh god it's probably fit boy louder - he puts haha in every text or message at least once.

ignore, obviously. enlarger was to look close up at your cleavage or something presumably.

Would I be shallow to cancel date tonight because of my hideous cold sores? We are just going for a quick drink tonight as we haven't seen each other all week but I feel like a freak! DD says they are not noticable but she may be being kind. I have warned him about them and he is still up for meeting but.....
What would you do?

You wouldn't be shallow you'd be foolish!

He says it's not a problem ( and would be a knob if he did) so on you go!

SAF, I don't think anyone would describe this one as 'fit'!

daisy, if DD says they're no biggie then go with her wisdom, assuming your relationship with her is functional and she doesn't have cataracts.

PoppaRob that made me laugh! My confidence is always very low but with these revolting things it is zero. I will go and try to forget they are there.

Louder - if he is unsuitable just don't bother.

Daisy - slap on the Zovirax and off you go! Hope you have a good time

Badoo is free.

POF is shit.

I didnt find one man on POF that I was removely attracted to in fact Ive not found one man on any site that Im remotely attracted to.

fabby - likewise! it's shit isn't it? what hope is there?

CarpetmunchersRus.co.uk?

They're out there ( The men not the lesbians) You just have to keep looking! :o

meh the moment (entertaining the idea of sex and relationships) will probably pass again before i spot one guy that is even shaggable let alone relationship worthy.

jesus what did we do to produce such a dearth of decent men?

(presnet company excepted)

The abundance of horrible,manipulative and money grabbing women might have something to do with it..

( I'm not bitter :o)