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Plenty of Fish, yes, but where are the men? Dating chat thread #4

999 replies

lubeybooby · 12/10/2011 15:14

A new one (again)

Dating, internet dating, all kinds of dating.... chat about it here.

Off you go! :o

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TimeForMeIsFree · 18/10/2011 12:58
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lubeybooby · 18/10/2011 12:59

Can't invite him for a meal as I have sod all in and can't be arsed to go shopping. Unless he wants toast. I'll just text and say I've got a free night with DD away and ask if he wants to go for a drink/visit for a cup of tea (hahaaa yeah right) . Then capture him and lure him to my boudoir :o

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PoppaRob · 18/10/2011 13:06

makes note: if watch ever gets to Australia remove all signs of musical instruments, posters, memorabilia etc.

lubeybooby · 18/10/2011 13:09

He is available. Gooooood, good... I've only said that DD might be going for a sleepover and that I will confirm later. This in case I decide I want to enjoy the peace instead or the sheets don't look like they will dry in time/don't get enough housework done. This is one of those days when EVERY sodding room needs something doing Hmm

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TimeForMeIsFree · 18/10/2011 13:13

Oooh potentially exciting lubey! Do you think he will really notice that housework needs doing? He may well notice damp sheets but not a bot of dust. Grin

TimeForMeIsFree · 18/10/2011 13:14

Says me, already mentally cleaning house ready for RSPCA inspection weeks away! Grin

Zanywany · 18/10/2011 13:14

Well there was me lapping up all the compliments when I realised you must have got the wrong madmax1970 as mine doesn't have a pix of his kids. I remember now that he said he has hidden his profile as he doesn't like talking/meeting with more than one woman at a time. For those of you really nosy intrigued I can probably send a link via pm/fb.

Try not to get put off about bad/short texts as some people are crap at texting but completely different face to face.

I'm definately a mad dog woman, we have a black lab who is 2 and we all adore her. You can never feel lonely with a dog snuggling up to you watching TV although agree its a pain taling her out on lots of walks.

Zanywany · 18/10/2011 13:16

There is no way ronniek1972 on POF is 39.

Get your clean sheets at the ready Lubey

Snapespeare · 18/10/2011 13:16

Someone on POF just messaged me with 'hello...!' and when I clicked on it to open said, 'get the kettle on love'.

I am sure he is just trying to get a response as the tempation to reply, 'make your own fucking tea' was just terrible.

TimeForMeIsFree · 18/10/2011 13:20

I will have a nosey please zany if you would care to send me a PM. I like to put a face to the body we are talking about.

That's a cheeky one snape. How do you resist the temptation to give a witty reply? and then block I would have sent him that!

lubeybooby · 18/10/2011 13:21

Time yeah I'll just be doing the bare minimum, but I still haven't caught up on everything I neglected when I was ill so much more than usual needs doing. Bummer.

Have cleaned kitchen and loaded dishwasher, got the sheets on the go and put the recycling outside already so not doing too bad. Just hoovering, bathroom cleaning, floor mopping and putting my floordrobe back in the wardrobe to go :o

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TimeForMeIsFree · 18/10/2011 13:24

zany ronniek1972 must have had a really long and difficult paper round! Grin He is definitely well worn!

I just had a message "hello, you have a nice face" My reply "Thank you, I will pass on your compliment, I'm sure my face will be pleased"

TimeForMeIsFree · 18/10/2011 13:24
Grin

Well, if the shag isn't up to much at least you will have a clean house.

lubeybooby · 18/10/2011 13:27

:o

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Zanywany · 18/10/2011 13:34

I've PM'd you time

PoppaRob · 18/10/2011 13:34

Definitely a dog person here. Gypsy is my 10 year old border collie. Bailey is the ex's and is 8, pedigreed, thick as a brick and is a bugger to wash and brush so he hardly ever gets washed but has a gorgeous nature. I don't mind cats but I couldn't eat a whole one.

Re LittleHouseofHorror's cleaning issues... may I use my Pommy muso mates' favourite word and say BOLLOCKS! Leave the poor bastard's house alone and do not suggest anything girly! I've had two gfs now who have asked politely if I'd be offended if they did a bit of cleaning. Next day they rock up with the pvc gloves and cleaning products and crap. They spend a couple of hours cleaning and look all pleased with themselves where I honestly could see no difference. I'm not saying my house is spotless but it's not like anyone is going to catch cholera or typhoid!

My curtains and blinds and furnishings are all in blues, greys and burgundies. My quilt cover grey and burgundy with kanji characters. My venetian blinds are burgundy and black. One of the aforementioned gfs pulled up a Target bedding catalogue and proceeded to show me the floral fucking curtains and bedding that she thought I should buy to make my place more fucking homely!

I have a lot of laminated posters of musicians, a framed and signed collage of the band World Party signed by my muso mate Johnny Turnbull (Blockheads, Geldof, World Party etc.), a couple of guitars and an electric mando hanging on walls and a guitar amp in my bedroom and loungeroom within easy reach. I like music! I have laminated mini posters I've had made of various pics of the kids and grandkids, and a mounted poster of Yoda on my kitchen wall. One of the gfs walked around the house pointing to each of those items and told me I should put them in the shed and get some nice fucking framed prints to hang on the walls!

My house is blokey but clean. I do not want to be changed. My house is not a project for renovation rescue! Tread lightly LittleHouseofHorror - do not spook the animals! :)

ScaredKittyWitchyKitty · 18/10/2011 13:36

Can I join you all please? Smile After being single for almost six (yes, six!) long years, it's time I had a few dates and hopefully...more Wink. I can't afford paid-for sites but I reactivated my profile on POF last night and have already had 10 messages, including one from someone I used to work with.

Plus, I love cats. Am I in?

PoppaRob · 18/10/2011 13:41

Hi scaredkitty. You do realise your username works very well with Big Bang's Soft Kitty song?

TimeForMeIsFree · 18/10/2011 13:41

Welcome on board ScaredKittyWitchyKitty Smile

zany thank you! I'm off for a look and will report back!

PoppaRob I agree. I wouldn't want any man coming into my home and trying to change anything. His house is his house and he can do what he likes, if I don't like it or feel comfortable in it I just wouldn't visit it. Simples! Grin

TimeForMeIsFree · 18/10/2011 13:43

Oh yes, zany I like him! And he is a Scorpio! Added bonus! Grin

wrigglytummy · 18/10/2011 13:50

Hi ScaredKittyWitchyKitty

Ladies, my inbox is depressingly barrn - one message "Hey hun hows u" .....and no replies for days to the messages I sent out to prospective new catches at the weekend. Hmmm I think I need to rethink my plan of attack!

TimeForMeIsFree · 18/10/2011 13:56

Yes wriggly, I'm rethinking mine too, starting with new photo's.

PoppaRob · 18/10/2011 13:56

Time... I had a contact request from someone yesterday whose opening line was some crap about astrology... how my profile didn't match my sign so she thought maybe I wasn't really a virgo. wtf? I sent a quick note and blocked her.

lubeybooby · 18/10/2011 14:01

Hello ScaredKittyWitchyKitty :o

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LittleHouseofHorror · 18/10/2011 14:03

Oh Poppa I quite agree with you and I have no intention of taking on his mess house and interfering. It is just that after chatting since July and meeting a month ago in person we have only ever been back to mine. He keeps saying "I must clear up so you can come round".

So I am beginning to imagine it is a truly awful Life of Grime type set up not just a normal blokey family home. His parents have moved in because they were ill and brought more clutter with them (so if I go round I have to meet them too).

Also one reason I am single is that I spent 28 years looking after a workaholic ex who thought cleaning and tidying were women's work and I finally had enough. So I want someone who can look after himself and not expect "help".

I will be mindful of your words though. And I hate florals!!