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' babe, even my 7 year old thinks your sexi' internet dating - part 3.

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watchoutforthatsnail · 05/10/2011 13:14

started.

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adamschic · 09/10/2011 22:53

Time, I approve of your date too Grin. When I first saw the pics I did wonder whether he was my type (not that that is of any significance it's your opinion that counts) but loved his profile. Gladdens your heart to see a nice one doesn't it.

I honestly reckon I'm in the wrong area. You don't meet nice single men in day to day life and that's reflected on the sites aswell.

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 22:56

adamschic It has taken me well over a year to decide whether he is my type or not! Grin He has sort of grown on me. like bindweed Plus, I need get on with this dating lark so he was as good as anything.

adamschic · 09/10/2011 22:58

Oh I do hope he floats your boat when you meet, he sounds lovely.

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TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 23:07

Not ugly, more scary! Took me a while to get used to 'the look' of his pics.

Zanywany · 09/10/2011 23:08

Right I'm off to bed, had half my son's football team for a sleepover last night so didn't get much sleep. Here's hoping tomorrow keeps the twats away is better on the men front Grin

ChaoticAngelofSamhain · 09/10/2011 23:09

We can live in hope Grin

I'm going myself, night :)

lubeybooby · 09/10/2011 23:17

Night Chaotic and Zany

Time I don't think he is ugly or scary. I would so date him. Very smiley for you :o

stayforappledunking · 09/10/2011 23:18

I like his last picture the best, he is not ugly or scary in my opinion :)

PoppaRob · 09/10/2011 23:29

Goodnight Chaotic and Zany

samhaircin · 10/10/2011 00:23
Zanywany · 10/10/2011 09:40

Well its a new day and I saw 8 magpies this morning so some of my wish's must be about to come true Grin

watchoutforthatsnail · 10/10/2011 09:41

Time - woohooo. A date, very exciting.
When is it?
:)

Zany - forgot to say, thats bloody awful what your friend said about you on fri/sat? they wouldnt be my friend any longer... did you not say anything? Whats the update with mr body? is it on for this weekend do you think?

Stay - no, i wont be getting attached. hes one of those ' still thinks hes 18 men' you know, just pizza a beer in the fridge. A massive tv, all the games consols, but not actual sofa. Flat that looks like it should be on ' how clean is your house' Snowboards on the walls and guitars in the corners. I would not date him, it would be a disaster! I do however, fancy him a lot, and there is a spark there for sure. he wants to be single, having only got divorced in march this year ( and clearly is still close to his ex) and feeling like women want to 'tie him down'. I am not sure a relationship is something i want either. Not really and most definatley not with him. But lots of sex is :) So, thats what it can be. i cant see a downside. Plus, it was me that instigated it, and me that offered it up again ( despite him asking earlier in the night)and its not just any sex, its awesome sex... best in at least 5 years, possibly best in my life ever, so why on earth should i miss out on that again:)

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watchoutforthatsnail · 10/10/2011 09:47

and he has a massive cock. we are talking double figures.
i know this, because i measured it.

oh yes, im a classy girl.

:)

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TimeForMeIsFree · 10/10/2011 10:13

Good morning everyone Smile

watch date is on Friday! Grin Talking of cocks, did you get to see leeds8incher before we got his profile pic deleted?? I got all excited but lubey didn't think it was anything to write home about Grin

I didn't sleep too good last night, a mixture of excitement and overthinking. I really must stop overthinking!! Anyway, general consensus seems to be that he is nice so I am going to enjoy the experience. Smile

watch feel free not to answer this but I can't help but ask, cos I'm intrigued not really that experienced but what makes 'awesome' sex? I've had nice sex, lovely sex. lovemaking. I've had horrible, mostly boring sex too but have never had sex that I would describe as awesome. Ever. And that is another thing I am overthinking, in the last 27 years I have only slept with 3 men, my ex husband, my ex partner and a relationship I had between the two. The thought of having sex with someone new is quite scary!!

Zanywany · 10/10/2011 10:14

Shock at the double figures. As long as you don't think you'll fall for him and get hurt Watch I say go for it. I still hear from Mr Body although he did email me yesterday afternoon to say he had lost his phone so would only be able to chat online till be got it sorted, then silence Confused.

lubeybooby · 10/10/2011 10:16

Bit of a spanner in my dating works here! Just been to the orthodontist with my daughter, theres an 18 month wait for NHS treatment and she's already 15 with very wonky teeth that really upset her so I can't make her wait that long. Going to have to go private - I wouldn't be accepted for credit so that's going to be 6/7 months of manic working and saving to be able to afford it.

I know what I'm like when I'm working like mad, I go right off dating and can't be arsed with it. Might manage some kind of FWB though. Sigh.

Zanywany · 10/10/2011 10:17

Sorry to hear you didn't get much sleep Time after seeing leeds8incher and feeling excited and overthinking Grin

It is scary to sleep with someone else if you haven't slept with anyone else for a while. After I split from my XH the first person I slept with I got to know for ages beforehand so I wasn't as scared nervous

TimeForMeIsFree · 10/10/2011 10:27

Shock lubey it's going to cost you a fortune!! Why did her dentist not refer her earlier?? Is there anyway you can take out a dental insurance plan now, pay into it for a few months then have the treatment, claiming back some of the costs.

Grin Zany I went back for another look this morning but the 8 incher is sadly gone. I thought if I kept looking at it I wouldn't be so scared when faced with the real thing!

TimeForMeIsFree · 10/10/2011 10:30

By the way lubey it won't be too bad if your DD has to wait for the NHS treatment. Dentists don't usually refer for ortho treatment too early anyway because there is chance the teeth can move again as growing isn't complete so actually, there is more chance of the work lasting the older she is. Sorry if that doesn't make sense, my head feels like it's full of cotton wool today, might find myself having a kip later!!!

lubeybooby · 10/10/2011 10:36

Thanks, I don't want her to have to wait because she's already 15 and has self esteem issues as it is without the teeth causing a prob too. It's going to be £2000/2500. I can manage that in 6/7 months but it's going to be knackering!

The dentist referred her as soon as he could, before that we were seeing a different dentist who was shit and thought her teeth weren't bad enough to qualify for NHS treatment, then he dragged his heels over the referral... so we switched dentists, and with the waiting lists for initial appointments with both new dentist and then a 6 month wait to see the orthodontist, it's taken until now. We have been chasing it up since she was 12.5!!

watchoutforthatsnail · 10/10/2011 10:44

lubey - can they give you a reason they wont refer earlier? if its a valid reason, it might be worth waiting, they dont usually hold out on people for no reason ( used to be a dental nurse)

Awesome sex :)
there is a HUGE difference between ok sex and awesome sex. And ive had a whole lot of ok sex the last few years. meh, it gets a bit boring. I thikn the best way to describe it would be, if you are having sex and are able to think of other things, then its crap sex, if you are just totally caught up in the momment and can barley catch your breath, let alone think, then its probably awesome.
Awesome sex would be, or could be all kinds of things, but generally something that leaves you with legs so wobbly you cant stand up. That you literally cant cum any more, its physically impossible. That you rip sinks off walls. And quite possibly end up with some bruises. Probably a lot experimental, not with someone whos got hang ups, they need to be confident sexually and be able to laugh if it all goes wrong, or something funny happens.

yeah, something like that :) but thats just for me....

Would you even believe it, the crap date from 2 weeks ago just text me!! the policeman one.
why???

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lubeybooby · 10/10/2011 10:46

Watch it's just the waiting list, they only get funding for a certain number of NHS patients per year plus a waiting list anyway, takes it to 18 months. They are happy to go ahead with private treatment immediately long as you are accepted on the credit or can stump up the cash

watchoutforthatsnail · 10/10/2011 10:48

I think awesome sex, like the first time we did it i was physically aching ALL OVER, my whole body. for like 5 days afterwards. Like i had run a marathon or something. or had just started the shred!! lol

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