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' babe, even my 7 year old thinks your sexi' internet dating - part 3.

999 replies

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/10/2011 13:14

started.

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watchoutforthatsnail · 09/10/2011 11:45

Haha poppa, sadly I don't!

Yeah, it works for Me. I Do have a busy life really. I've got plans the next 3 weekends already and I don't want anyone encroaching on that at all. O don't want to have to.consider.anyone else. I.don't want to.share my family time, or even my own time.

It's pretty much perfect for me, and I think it was sweet he was so stunned. So, i.shall keep it on my terms :)

And, like o said. I do really fancy him. He's hot as hell.

Sorry you are missing your ex :(
I never miss my ex husband,but that's probably because he was a total cock.

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lubeybooby · 09/10/2011 11:54

Oh dear lord... I never miss my ex husband either. He was a twat of the highest order.

I'm fine again now. Period showing up and a stern self talking to has sorted that. I'm going to draw the loveheart on my hand again for a bit of focusing on the task at hand... finding a decent date! In fact I'll do that now.

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 12:01

I obviously have ishoos Smile I don't even understand myself!! He was a knob, total knob, I never felt liked never mind loved so I have no idea why he even pops into my head. I don't even like him now, there is nothing to like!! Maybe I just need a right good seeing to, maybe I should be put my standards to one side for a while and just have some fun! Grin

I'm off to do my cosmic order, can't hurt can it??

PoppaRob · 09/10/2011 12:02

My Sim is working on a girlie Sim in the Sims Social thingie on FB... does that count? Hmm

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 12:06

You not chatting to any nice 'potentials' then PoppaRob? Not even a glimmer of potential?

lubeybooby · 09/10/2011 12:09

Time, well you know sometimes I don't think it's a bad thing to let them slide just a tiny bit for something you already know isn't going to be a relationship Wink

lubeybooby · 09/10/2011 12:13

I'm going to do a new cosmic order for someone to just have a damned good time with through winter... just someone to keep me occupied and stop the daft ex related thoughts :o

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 12:15

Smile I think you might be right lubey. I'm realising a few things about myself to be honest, one of those things is that I am actually scared of becoming involved again, that as soon as a decent bloke looks my way I either look the other way or find 100 excuses why he isn't right for me. And that's without even getting to know him! I'm never going to meet anyone at this rate! Hmm

PoppaRob · 09/10/2011 12:16

No. Nothing on the radar at all unless I chase up the recovering alcoholic social worker. Standards?

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 12:17

Well, I have got two potentials just waiting for me to agree to coffee. Two that have been hanging around and waiting for me to agree for coffee for well over a year now Grin Maybe I should just say yes and see what happens??

Or maybe I should just spend this afternoon writing my cosmic order and see what happens??

lubeybooby · 09/10/2011 12:19

Involved isn't so bad, time. It doesn't have to mean his stuff in your house and slippers under the bed. I also think you're imagining all these men that are ready to settle down... I only seem to find ones that want anything but that whatever age they are.

Even if they do want a serious relationship, going on a date with them doesn't mean that will happen... and if you did really like each other and he was a good bloke then he would respect your wishes and not jump into anything too soon. You'd work it out as you went along. Chill a bit and try it :o

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 12:20

Grin Well, if you hadn't already been there PoppaRob I would be all for you giving her a call but as it didn't work out first time then no, standards do have to apply here. I liked the lady who's profile I have pinched you put on here. Is she still around?

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 12:21

Yes, lubey, I know you are right. I am guilty of writing the story before it has happened Grin

lubeybooby · 09/10/2011 12:22

Yup, you are... now go forth and have coffee woman! :o

ChaoticAngelofSamhain · 09/10/2011 12:24

Afternoon :)

Slept for over 10 hours last night so I'm ready to face the day and the dating world again.

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 12:24

Grin I'm still in my PJ's, they might get the wrong idea! Having a PJ day with DD today Grin

Do you think it would be wrong to meet them both at the same time, do a mass interview sort of thing Grin

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 12:25

Chaotic did you message Jamie?

samhaircin · 09/10/2011 12:25
stayforappledunking · 09/10/2011 12:26

Lubey - Glad it arrived. Nothing like that time of the month to make you a little barking! I wish mine would arrive, got a feeling it may turn up next weekend when S is here. The joys Hmm

Watch - if thats what you want then great! Just watch you dont end up getting attached and then getting hurt.

Poppa - I love the sims social. In fact I love the sims. I have not matured past 12. :(

lubeybooby · 09/10/2011 12:37

samhaircin... sucks doesn't it? I told myself that although I know I will never meet anyone like him, there could well be someone out there who is equally great but in different ways maybe, and I just need to put everything in place to enable meeting that person - so internet dating, improving social life... anything I can do to increase the chance. And yes you can never tell until you meet in person. I do think that as you go along though you get better at spotting ones that you will have a good date and a good chance of chemistry with.

ChaoticAngelofSamhain · 09/10/2011 12:41

I'm not in pj's but only because I had to take the dog for a walk Grin

Time yes, I did message him and it was a complete and utter disaster. Due to the fact that my shift keys weren't working I had to stop and think about how best to type it which interrupted the flow of my thoughts. It ended up coming out really stilted and he probably thinks I'm a raving pyscho HmmGrin

lubeybooby · 09/10/2011 13:02

Oh good grief. Just got a blast from the past on POF (well, someone I dated in June, four dates, it fizzled out)

I have replied just saying hello. He might be ok as a friend to help along my social life plans, not much more than that though.

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 13:09

Chaotic I have his email address if you want it? Wink

So, not a FWB then lubey? Grin

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 13:11

I spent all last night giving advice and make up tips to basque man and today he has taken the huff at me because I don't want to enter into anything with him. That's gratitude for you!! Like his tights though Grin

TimeForMeIsFree · 09/10/2011 13:13

Anyone after an older man? J100