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No... he was yet another one where the one and only reason we wouldn't work as a couple was down to sexual incompatibilty/dysfunction on his part that he wasn't bothered about trying to work on at all. So nope definitely not FWB :o

I wonder if tastes/wants/needs etc vary depending on what part of our monthly cycles we are in because my tastes/wants/needs can change from one week to another. Even I have trouble keeping up!

Nice pecs! brightred2011

I'll pass on the email addy thanks. I can just see the psycho impression being confirmed if I did use it He's too far away from me for anything to happen anyway.

Definitely not a FWB then lubey

I'll pass Time, J100 that is.

lubey your friend has been looking at me, 'Talldarkguy34' that is. If he ever contacts you can you ask him if there's a 1 & 2?

J100 - I'm not petite or slim and he is too short. Meh

Brightred... HUMMANA HUMMANA :o I suspect I wouldn't reaaaaalllllly be his type though :o

brightred2011 nice pecs, yes, but I prefered his photo where he was smiling. Okay, I'm odd, I know

I also have the wistful thoughts sometimes, not about my evil Ex (DS2's dad, who put me through 7 years of misery, no I have never regretted splitting from him for a second!) but I do have them about another ex, usually referred to as The One Who Broke My Heart. He was the first and only man I've ever loved so will confess to the odd thought about him and to stalking him on facebook.

And also about the ridiculously good looking one, who isn't even an Ex as I wasn't attractive enough for him , even though he's deep as a puddle he has a great personality and we got on brilliantly. He was brave enough to banter with me (most men are too scared of me to try) which I always liked.

I wouldn't mind someone to have a bit of fun with, even a FWB, but I don't foresee it happening - the fact I can't even find someone I could bear to even go for a drink with doesn't bode well.

Multiple cat ownership, and evenings spent doing embroidery beckon I fear!

What would you think if someone who seems otherwise pretty good had this on their profile?

"My shyness means I haven't exactly slept with loads of women, but EVERY SINGLE ONE has come back for more, a fact I'm very proud of"

wtf?

Ermmm.... good for you? Why do I need to know? Congrats on being a sexual genius? Is that REALLY something potential dates need to know?

The mind boggles!

Bin! NEXT!!!!!

k e n t i s h g e n t on okc...

Oh knickers. I can't search okc, deleted profile!

It depends if they have their profile as members only, time. try it.

There doesn't seem to be a search facility for non members though lubey, the little search box isn't there.

oh ok well a profile link is just www.okcupid.com/profile/insertusernamehere try that?

Foiled again! 'This user restricts their profile to OkCupid members only. Sign in or create an account.' Not to worry, doesn't sound like I'm missing much

Hahaa nope not much at all! :o

That is weird The rest of the profile is okay, pretty straightforward but that bit, to me at least, makes it sound like the rest is what he's put to make himself seem normal but that bit is the real him coming out IYSWIM. It's as if it's a part of himself that he's trying to keep hidden. Oh, and I'd have put him slightly older than 32.

I'm going to have to rejoin aren't I?? I hate missing out on anything

At least it won't cost you anything

Well I've just gone and done it. I messaged someone on POF telling him not to call women chicks because some would find it offensive.

Brilliant!!

Right, I've decided, I am going to lower my standards take this dating lark more seriously now. I am going to start saying yes instead of running away making excuses.

But, I really would like to lose a stone first..........

"But, I really would like to lose a stone first.......... "

Snap, only mine's a bit more than a stone.

Also snap, but if I wait for that then it could be years months before I finally get myself together and where I'd ideally like to be. And I'm bored so I'm not waiting. maybe I'll meet someone nice who can make me think "Shit! Right I really am losing the weight now" Or maybe someone who doesn't give a stuff who i shag so much that it just falls off

No excuses, no waiting.... just go for it (but don't drop the standards toooooo much!)

I suppose we should really stop eating the Whole Nut then .

I'm only putting of meeting these loiterers for coffee because of that stone!

Ok, no excuses, no waiting, going for it!! standards only relaxed not dropped.

I've just rejoined Cupid fickle or what

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