' babe, even my 7 year old thinks your sexi' internet dating - part 3.

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How the heck does he know you have lots in common? Tell him to go get a puppy!

aye, a puppy will give him the unconditional adoration it seems he wants

Ooh plenty to grab hold of 'ear' mick62

what have we got to lose? Well given that he's 100 miles away, the cost of a tank of petrol for starters...

Any takers? lovelifelust

Errr.......no

That ad on POF for a dating site for more mature ladies is getting on my nerves It's making me feel ancient. My chronological age may be 40 but I feel about 21, if that, inside.

I know what you mean Chaotic I'm 47 (in a few weeks) but I resent being classed as a 'mature woman'. I'm a spring chicken!

I'm grumpy and I miss my ex. Why does this keep coming back? I've been fine for ages

I find I miss my ex more when I feel lonely or fed up with the dating thing

Ah, that would be both of those tonight then! Sigh.

I keep on getting contacted by idiots on POF. There must be a decent man out there somewhere. I don't need Mr Right, I do want Mr Right for me.

lubey it probably doesn't help if you're still full of a cold. I tend to feel down when I'm not feeling well and things get to me more then.

Yeah that isn't helping either. And I'm annoyed that my caremelised onion hummus is minging

Oh dear, getting annoyed with food items. Definitely PMS too!

I'm giving up on it for tonight and going to bed. Night :)

Don't blame you! Night :)

lubeybooby "I'm grumpy and I miss my ex. Why does this keep coming back? I've been fine for ages " and bookmark "I find I miss my ex more when I feel lonely or fed up with the dating thing"

Doesn't take much does it? I hadn't had any wistful thoughts about my ex for over a year and then a few weeks ago out of the blue my step-daughter tells me that there's trouble in paradise between the ex and The Dark Lord. The ex MIL has had some major health problems so I used that as an excuse to send a brief supportive message to the ex and signed off with our cheesy pet name code and got a nice message saying she liked that I remembered the code and wanted to add me to her family list on FB. Do I think there's anything in it? Not at all. Would I hook up with her in a nanosecond? You bet! Keep buying lottery tickets lubey - we can work through our ishoos together! :)

Ahhh, the wistful thoughts. I have these too despite having ended up in a refuge due to his abusive behaviour, despite not having felt loved by him for years, being treated like something the cat dragged in. Despite all that I still have the wistful thoughts. Makes me really angry with myself too because I'm yearning for something that never was. And sometimes, despite all of the above, I feel part of the reason I haven't moved on man wise is because I'm still waiting for some miracle to happen with him. Stupid!! I don't even fancy him when I look at him, he has no personality, no depth and has never shown any remorse or apologised for the things he did to me. Nothing. Can I join you in working out my ishoos

No problem time. Plenty of room out on my deck for "Mending Downunder". Sounds like an emotional episiotomy doesn't it?

Ladies,
I was out (with girlfriends- not a hot date sadly) last night - boy you were busy! I am also through with smooch, I got this message this morning (edited by me!):

Hey , well I won't start with the normal expected "do you, want to f**k" or "nice profile, take a look at mine", I'm sure you get enough of them and think that there a littttle lame and somewhat boring.
What I am looking for is someone who not only attracts me phsically but also mentally, I believe a meeting of minds leads to far more sensuality than a meeting of just attraction.
If you read this and want to know more then send me a message back, let's see if our minds can take us to a higher plane of passion!
Matt x

Um, let me think about that ...... No! He says he is 35, but looks more like 55. GO AWAY!
I'm now deleting my smooch profile, I'm bored of the revolting men.

wow. whole lot of chat going on here :)

So i thought id come back and tell what happened because my last post was short because i was on my phone.

So - i was watching 9 songs which he had recommended to me. and i got thinking that the sex was too good and it was unbelieveable that he didnt want to do it again. So i bit the bullet and text him that 9 songs was good and thanks. Bit of banter followed, it all got a bit heated ( if you have seen the film you will understand why) I made it clear i wanted sex. He said if i only wanted sex from him then to come over. So i did.
Anyway, when i got there he was quite shocked and said he couldnt believe id actually booty called him and had turned up for just sex and we had a joke about that. He offered me a beer, i turned it down, said i was just there for a fuck, grabbed him and well.. that was that :)
He was like ' so, is this going to be a regular thing?' and i said i didnt know, but after the deed was done i invited him over any time... and intend to text him later in the week.
Hes not dating anyone. Hes not on any dating site, he doesnt want to be anything but single. He was quite puzzled that a woman could want nothing more than just sex, but said that if thats all i want, then he would be happy with that.

and there we go, guaranteed sex with a serioiusly hot man :)
Because, i do fancy him. a lot. I want to rip this clothes off. with my teeth.
And hes very funny, i like him. BUT, i do not want to date him.

I still have my date for the end of the month lined up and im going to say on pof and okc for a while, but will likely hide my profile at the end of the month. What with it being xmas coming up i shall be busy and things.
And if im getting laid, then to be honest, there isnt really much more i want other than that. I know that sounds awful and perhaps i should want more. But i really dont.

Morning all. Urgh... dreamt about him too just to top it off. He wasn't abusive, he was as far from that as it's possible to get, utterly lovely and wholly responsible for raising my standards to rather impossibly high proportions. I think the thing is that now the shock and awe of that one sudden and devastating blow at the end is over, it's allowing the memories to creep in. In previous months I wouldn't allow any thought of him to remain in my head AT ALL because it was too painful. Now it's not so acutely painful... the memories are able to linger a bit and there are certain songs I can listen to again before I catch myself, mutter darkly and force him back out again.

I don't think I have issues about it though (amazingly) I did an awful lot of working through all that intensively for my own sake and sanity, and I know I'm now capable of the beginnings of feelings for others, and when that happens I don't think of him at all. It's going to take being in a new and great relationship to banish him once and for all I think.

Anyway, guess what arrived this morning? I feel much better now :o

Sounds great watch, not awful at all if that's all you both want then that's the perfect FWB set up.

I'm tempted to do that again myself but I know I need just a leeeetle bit more than that, going out etc due to my hermit tendencies. I remain hopeful!

Wriggly - yay you've joined us ditching smooch... good on you, it really is awful!

So the question is, dear watch, do you have an older sister and how would she feel about moving to South Australia for an FWB gig with a really nice Aussie bloke?