I have never felt the need to post on this thread, my views on infidelity are pretty clear so why would I ?
This is a space for women who are struggling to extricate themselves from a shitty situation to get support from each other. The ways in which they gain that support are not for others to judge, particularly someone who has such a loaded agenda, being the victim of her husband cheating on her.
On the thread in which WWIFN was personally attacked, she was initially vilified and her words twisted for "daring to suggest that is was tasteless for OW's to ask for support"
and yet here is one of those vocal posters against WWIFN, who is doing just that
there is a sublime irony in that, is there not ?
I am sure you will accuse me of stirring the pot here, Aislingorla, but the fact is you are acting like a toxic individual who seems to want other women feel shit for the mistakes they make. Making them feel shit won't make what your husband did any better, I am afraid.
You only had to say it once, but you cannot stop, it seems.
You accuse others of personal attacks, yet here you are, sounding increasingly nasty and snide.
My sympathies, as my posts will always demonstrate, lie firmly with a wronged wife. However, I would not continue to offer it blindly in the face of such bitter vitriol as you are displaying here. Respect must be earned, and you are pissing it all up the wall here.
So, I didn't want to post here and lurked for ages. I will probably regret doing so, but this thread has been so spectacularly bollocksed up, I thought why not ? It certainly couldn't get worse.
You are in the wrong, Aislingorla, and the more people that draw attention to that, the better.
Now, the floor is yours for the playground insult you seem increasingly to be utilising.