Well it's Friday so a sex question TMI

[changingmynameagain]

I am a regular who has name changed for this as I am so embarrassed.

I am divorced. XH was crap in bed - never made any effort to make me orgasm, just used my body for what he needed.

In 20 years of being together I could count the number of times he made me cum on the fingers of one hand, literally.

I now have a lovely DP and everything in that department is much better

But there's always a but

I can let DP bring me "off" with fingers, but he wants to go down on me and I can't let him because the one and only time XH did it he said I tasted disgusting and he wouldn't go near that area again.

and I can't believe I just typed that.

Anyway, the thing is, how do I get over this in my head is there anything I can do?

I knew he would like it. Happy for you.

I was out for the day at the beach with MrFab and FabKids and found myself hoping you had a nice evening[bublush].

So glad it worked out okay.

Not 100% that the fib might be a mistake but tbh it is for the right reasons and you will be fine if you never tell.

IME Men don't like to know others have been before so it is probably okay .

Glad you had a nice evening.

NG - we do!! [bugrin]

Fab - LOL @ you and NG

Well, on a technicality, exH never did anything when he got there - just stuck his tongue out, went "yuk that's disgusting" and never went back.

I am drinking something called a mojito. I am slightly squiffy

Mmmmmm Mojito! My favourite.

I don't usually drink but DP got some mojito ready mixed up and some other thing on his way over the other one has tequila in it and tastes like it would blow your head off.

I don't usually drink

Keep going with the blowing and you'll have a fab night,

I think I might love you .

OP your dp sounds really cool- he likes giving oral sex and he buys mojitos!? bless him, sounds like a keeper.

Be careful with the cocktails OP or you'll end up blowing your namechange too

the other one is called a margarita

he's gone for indian food

I think he's lovely but don't tell him

have followed this thread and am really pleased for you OP! :)

(sorry to sidetrack but just wanted to add to FAB and any others whose OHS are really not into certain acts that there may be deeper psychological stuff going on - often men who had a bad experience in childhood etc don't like BJs. Sorry If I'm overstepping the mark just thought may be worth pondering - psychotherapy/hypnotherapy can be really useful if that's the reasons....)

Love a happy ending [bugrin]

He is so sexy. I can even forgive him watching top gear.

I still don't get why he wants a fat frumpy 40 something he's gorgeous he could have anyone he wanted he's just lush

Good to hear! Enjoy yourself mate

I intend to

He is so younger than me and I feel ancient sometimes though