Namechanged but been here for a long time.
Found out recently that H has been having a online affair.
He met a girl on a game chatroom, they had talked amongst alot of people for a long time at least a few years.
But from at least Christmas time it became a text affair, 30/40 texts a day!
I caught him out and he walked out.
I emailed her and she said he had told her he had been unhappy for a long time, which was total news to me, I had no idea, he had never said or appeared unhappy with our marriage.
We have had a very stressful couple of years, H left the forces, which was a big upheaval, we had some extended family problems.
He wouldnt and even now cant tell me what made him unhappy, just that slowely he stopped caring.
He moved out for 10 days then came home. In that time he came and saw me fairly often, we went out and actually had quite a good time, but was still saying that he didnt know if it could work.
He says that it is nothing to do with this girl, which is bollocks. whatever the problems we had having a Emotional Affair with another woman was going to affect us.
We went to relate two nights ago, which although didnt do much, did make us talk when we got home.
I told him that I knew from fairly early in january he was texting her (the usual phone on silent in pocket, when he never did things like that)
Think he was quite shocked how much I knew to be honest.
Anyway told him if he wouldnt talk to me, he needed to talk to someone, so tonight he has gone out with his best mate, (who was as shocked as I was about it all)
He has today been fairly talkative in a small talk sort of way, and seems happier, but when do I know he is.
I have suspisions he might be back in contact with her, but no proof.
anyway, I am sat here now, knowing how much I love him, but thinking, that maybe I should just walk away.