Dumpling no more? Only the strong survive and we did no. 4

[IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt]

At first I was afraid, I was petrified
Kept thinkin' I could never live without him by my side;
But then I spent so many nights
Thinkin' how you did me wrong
And I grew strong

This thread is for ex dumplings. Any dumpling that feels like she has "mostly" moved past crisis into an "almost" sorted state can post and chat here as we continue our quest for serenity with a lot of laughs along the way and support

Hi all

Been a combination of busy and ill and away from internet connection....

Waves to all, catching up........

Happy are you ok ? Been away anywhere exciting then if away from internet ?

I cant believe I found the thread on the second page

I wonder if we are all in such a place that we dont need to post in the same way...?

Certainly this Dumpling is on good form

Just got home from DS football and relaxing with Katie..shes like Marmite you love or hate

Hi Getting, glad you are on form.

Well, I was doing my monthly expenditure sheet, generally being ill for AGES (am actually feeling rubbish again today wtf). Had one night with mman hence away from internet. First night our in ages and even then I felt a bit ropy.

This weekend have BE and Bumpkin coming to stay down the road in a hotel. can't wait. Haven't seen him for a long time and that has been very pleasant.

How is everyone else today? Any news on the man Sov?

On a totally different topic, i am waiting for my epilator to arrive. I hope it is a good idea. I'm not too good with pain.

Real life is intruding at the moment and I'm not remotely managing to keep up with mumsnet. But just wanted to pop my head in and say hello!

Off to bed in a mo as the DCs are waking soooooooo early since Scotland still.

Found it too painful happy ,bit like getting waxed slowly .
Watching the great gatsby .
still enjoying my kick boxing on a Tuesday.
Had a bit of a mega productive day,I think its the sunshine,ive cleared the flat,caught up on loads of stuff including another "sol" thing ,long may it continue

Waves to tea ,hope RL stuff is good x

Long film this gatsby .all kicking off now.

hello everyone, quite drunk, oops its a school night
hope everyone ok, am very happy atm, NM is unbelieveable, he a dumpling too so taking it slow but 160 texts between us in 2 days, very shocking
he looks like a hard barsteward but he really isnt, very soft centre and surprised me with the fact he likes cuddles, seems quite keen but for obvious reason am holding back somewhat but he does make me laugh so much and i have been walking around with a stupid grin on my face for days, think it helps that we have been eyeing each other up for months now but have also told him i will not sleep with him till i'm sure he wants more than just sex (i'm quite upfront like that and just blurt these sort of things out lol) but he is happy with that so see how it goes
Seeing him again tomorrow night (tonight?) so will keep on smiling i hope

will be checking in again soon but keep on smiling ladies cause we got the best thing out of our twunts, our DC, they can be a right royal pain sometime but we love them and would do anything for them none the less!!

take care xx

Hi Sov glad NM is being a good un and too right about being upfront - everything is clear and much better for it. Also was thinking same lines re the kids -and also glad Ive got them and am not aged 38/39 with no kids, desperate to have them and just settling with the wrong person to get them!

Sorry Happy youve been ill! Youre brave getting a depilator!

Tea - hope life is being good to you tho hope kids start to sleep longer again.

Getting -glad you are really happy - and yes think that may lead to less posting - also lovely weather makes us more likely to be out and about and then catching up with chores at nights - or thats me anyway.

Romney -glad you can see through bull of ex! You are so lucky to have a horse!

Getting involved with a few new social things here - trying to expand my social life! Working at a festival end of June so looking forward to that tho will have to organise H to look after kids a good bit.Hoping maybe to do a trip with a uni friend beginning August -dependent on H again taking kids away but he said he may. Hoping some plans come together. Still no reply from interview.

Waves to mumfun,
Sov ur an inspiration!
Well dropped my phone today and shattered the screen ,so prob wont be posting so much
X texted me today looking for re directed mail.You ve got to laugh don't you.
No I don't have any mail,sort urself out,its only been a yr and a half !

Waves to Patience and ha re the mail!

Just got delivery of my argan oil -says lots of uses including putting skin to rights and balancing sebum, reduces inflammation and scars. Keeps skin soft. Sounds very good and cant wait to try!

Morning

Well done Sov you really deserve some happiness and fun after what you have been through

Waiting for removal company to collect my boxes and have a team of husbands coming sunday to do some DIY and then we are 100% sorted and organised here which feels great

Going to relax a bit for a couple of days and then its time to decide what to do with my life . As in trying to find some work of any sort and think about my long term options. On one hand is daunting and the other exciting

Hope everyone is ok

Starting is your court case this week ?

Hi everyone. Knackered here. Thinking about exbf. Annoyed that I am. Apart from that, fine here.
Hope everyone else is ok x

Hi

thinking about rubbish family and being angry at the moment. Need to lock thoughts in a box and put away. So can understand you Goo thinking about x. Have you deFBed him yet :) ?

Glad Getting your getting to that stage of everything sorted and what next?!.

Kids have been sick off and on so glad to be able to get house sorted back again! Have mice again and have been avoiding traps the little sh

Just normal life recently. Had terrible dream about H and OW last night so wondering what that means.

Waves to everyone xx

Hi all

Must be something in the air i think, seen Xsil out shopping today and she just walked on by, never said a word to DC!! so am riled up about it again and the fact that now me and X have split my DC dont exist to him and his family anymore grrr

Will not let it spoil my weekend am seeing NM again tonight (3rd time lol) and am taking it a day at a time, never make plans for more than a day or 2 ahead

Mumfun, hope the kids are all better now and you have a nice weekend

Same to all of you infact, have a nice weekend and dont let the barstewards grind you down xx

Still alive but still out of touch with mumsnet

Stripping my nasty old fashioned textured wall paper in my bedroom at last after talking for almost a year about it. Plan to put up lining paper and paint it then an "old rose" B&Q colour, going totally girly in my room. Made some money on ebay this month selling things and decided it was time to do it

Knackered at the moment. Good and bad days with ExH and the ongoing saga with OW imminent move down here. Thanks Googoo for listening on fb the other day x

anyone around for some tunes ,newbies welcome ,just play what you like back in a minute !!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Unorthodox

Paloma Faith sexy minx

airplanes like shooting stars

unorthodox my boys' fave at mo!

play a tune googs !!!!

favourite song at the moment

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