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Support thread for the recently ditched No.13

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Teaandcakeplease · 27/03/2011 20:51

Dearly Be-Chucked, we are gathered here today because, for whatever reason, our man has dumped us! Shock Sad Angry

This thread is for anyone who has recently been dumped ditched. A safe place to share your woes and to support, advise and give virtual ((hugs)) to fellow dumplings each other, as we walk this journey as one, to find the new us: fabulous, strong and full of serenity.

Stay a while and tell your story and when you are ready we are sure you will make the move to being a Dumpling no more!

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memorylapse · 28/04/2011 19:11

yep they all follow the same script..he started an EA with a work colleague last summer when DD was newborn..he justified it to himself and her by telling her I was vile and bad tempered..I discovered it in October after the "I dont love you" speech..he hung around for a few months..but still seeing her everyday..then left..then came baxk..now hes going again..Ive seen him change from initially appearing devastated..to almost hating me and blaming me for our relationship breakdown. Now he seems to have re written our whole marraige and has said he has been unhappy for yearsHmm

HauntedLittleLunatic · 28/04/2011 19:45

And I could have written that myself too...at least as far as sequence of events.

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Teaandcakeplease · 09/05/2011 22:30

It's very quiet on here at the moment. How is everyone?

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Mymymble · 09/05/2011 23:47

Am goodish, guys, moved to other thread. On another good note, haven't been to church since started relationship with NM (that didn't come out right). Felt angry, not with God of darling Vicar (v embarassing that) but just didn't want to go. DS2 said today: "How do I tell Jesus I love him?" I asked if he did, and he said yes, so I said all the stuff about loving him and praying and being good to people and asked if he wanted to go back to church (he goes to RC school so goes there) and what had brought this on. He said he didn't know but was really concerned, not worried, that Jesus wouldn't know how he loved him even if he spoke to him. Ahhh. Am so pleased. Any ideas old churchies on the thread.

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Teaandcakeplease · 24/05/2011 08:29

I go to church Mymymble Smile

If people aren't posting because it's quiet but need a listening ear, please do pop onto the dumpling no more thread

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Patienceobtainsallthings · 24/05/2011 16:32

Can u find a new chapel to go to together,I go to church and enjoy the peace and spirituality x

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Teaandcakeplease · 17/06/2011 19:38

A new thread has been started if anyone wants to go there: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1213775-Chin-up-and-tits-out-for-the-recently-ditched-in-here?msgid=25962454#25962454

As this one is now so quiet. Hope everyone is doing well.

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