OH being a wimp

[lilysmemo]

Ok long winded boring story - but I will just give you the bones. My OH left his wife- for me, we are happy and have a wee one of our own. He usually has to go to her house to see his DD but occasionally he is allowed to take her out. I have only been with him once to drop her off - as we had been to his parents house- which is the other side of her house from ours.
When we got home he got a text from her saying he was not to bring me back to her house again ( I didn't get out of the car). I asked what his reply was- but I know he just ignored it.
It is his DD's birthday this week and he is allowed to have her on Sat- the plan was to take her to his parents for the day- but means I will be in the car when he drops her off.
I said- as a joke, shall I get out and hide behind the hedge when you drop off DD- he said , yes!
I said this was not going to happen - he accused ME of being unreasonable- so now we are not speaking and I have told hiom I am sick of him tip toeing around her- am I wrong here?
I dont want to upset her, I dont know her- but its been 18 months since he left her- how long before I get the respect as his partner that I deserve?

GOD FORBID A MAN SHOULD EVER BE DEPRIVED OF SEX.

GORGEOUSX And if she was supposedly so revolted by him that she didn't want to sleep with him, I can't see her going through all that to get HIS child. Why not use a donor in that case?

Cheating husband tells mistress massive lies about ex wife shocker.

And in more breaking news, bears shit in woods....

Seriously, I've read through most of this thread and can not believe what a mug the OP is. I mean, it MUST all be true about this woman if the man who left her said so.

I wont bother stating the obvious about the respect thing (you have a bloody cheek imo) as you haven't appeared to listen to anything constructive suggested by anyone else. You do sound like you like the drama a bit though. Otherwise why would you want to sit outside your OH's old home and wind up his ex? Why has it never occured to either of you to park round the corner/down the street so you're not right outside? Are you dense?

This is another thread that should be pinned, for partners of those who have had affairs and point them here saying something like...

You think he spouts crap to you, he is doing the same to the OW, read here for your true to life example.

How he also lies to the OW, about you, all the clichés............

Portofino agreed. Personally, I couldn't be bothered to even sit in the waiting room of an IVF clinic, let alone go through the horrendous trials of it all, if all I had to do was open shop!

But presumably it was the ExW who had fertility issues as the tosser DP has managed to impregnate the OP. All the more reason not to rub her nose in it by sitting outside her house PG with a baby.

Yes, unless OP is pregnant by somebody else and is passing it off as his? And he thinks he's finally hit the jackpot?

Although I agree it'll be heartbreaking for the wife, no matter what.