Husband on online dating chat sites

[WherecanIhide]

Hello,

My husband has always been a bit of a night owl (been together 21 years and have 2 DC) Recently I got a strange feeling something was going on. This morning I went on his laptop and looked at 'history' and it is full of 'No strings dating' and he has been talking to 'Becky, 22 Linc' etc. I don't think he has actually done anything cos he rarely goes out in the evening, but he has plenty of opportunity during the day to leave work for an hour or 2. I'm still in shock. I've emailed him letting him know he's been rumbled and waiting for his reply. How would you handle this? Please tell me what you would do if you were me.

TIA xx

Anything I can help you with Firepile?

Thanks for asking, Where, not really. I think it is just the grief catching up with me again.

I am so sad.

Hi fire, hi where,

Sending big hugs to you both, hopefully without the germs.....

Sorry you are down fire....do talk about it. I'm sure where won't mind you hijacking the thread

I concur with fire on the Prozac. There are plenty of other ad's you can take, please please see your doctor again, these don't sound right for you at all.

Remember it is the drugs and the situation caused by twat. Not you. You can and will get over this in time.

Xxx

Hi Bin Thanks for your post. Hope your cold will ease off soon.

I have stopped taking the Prozac because the suicidal feelings are getting overwhelming (obsessional) and I kept thinking the children would be better off without me etc. Problem is I can't swallow tablets so the choice of anti depressants is limited (tried crushing tablets but still useless)

Hi FirePile How are you today? I wish you would 'hijack' this thread and tell us about how you are feeling, but I understand why you may not want to...

Had another sh*t day. DD's Eating Disorder Clinic appointment this morning. She's got an eating plan and is trying really hard this evening to eat more. Ds has got another after school detention. Feel like a really inadequate mum.

Twat is still in Selfish Land - I need to get over him, he is not worth my tears (as my neighbour said) BUT it is so hard to believe that. I'm so lonely and isolated and can't believe I'll ever get over this...

Another crap thing; the maths I'm doing isn't accepted by uni for PGCE. I'm hoping I'll be able to take equivalency test if I get accepted on the course. It just feels one bad thing after tan other atm.

Hi Where So sorry you are having a crap day today. I do see a massive improvement though - and you're offering compassionate and wise advice on other threads -that's huge that you are able to do that and says a great deal about you as a person!

Re the a/ds - back to the GP. Prozac does not have a brilliant track record for many. And - please - don't grind any of your tablets without asking first checking it's OK - it can make them much more rapidly absorbable and therefore potent.

Take care my dear. You ARE winning even if it doesn't always feel that way.

Bella
x

Hi Bella, I hope you are ok.

Your post is very kind and appreciated x

How does a thief become ethical??!
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You may find he just likes the thrill of the chase and the attention. A lot of females go on web sites for vanity reasons, seeekign validation and approval to gain reassurance that they are still attractive, but never have any intention of meeting. Having trawled these sites in the past, lookign for people, there are a lot of time wasters out there who just wanna talk with no intention of ever meeting. Is his sex drive normal at home, or have things become a bit stale? Maybe you don't find each other sexy and exciting anymore and the thought of an illicit encounter with a random stranger is titillating? Maybe go on yourself and send him a message and arrange a meet? Or, meet someone else yourself?

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