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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Carry On Past The Offy!!

977 replies

Mouseface · 09/10/2010 18:54

Well, this is our tenth thread so we are throwing a little party!

Everyone is invited! No booze of course, soft drinks and mocktails only!

I'm Mouse, hello. Smile

There are all kinds of drinkers on board the bus. Come and join the journey, whatever stage you are at, drinking, cutting down, wanting to stop or sober already.

Everyone is welcome to post here. Come say hi.

The journey so far is below.

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dementedma · 15/10/2010 15:08

Quiet on this here bus today - are we all in hiding from the temptations of the weekend ahead?
Waht plans do you all have?

Silver66 · 15/10/2010 15:09

Hi Witchety - ironically I don't really like coffee but the croissants melted in your mouth. I did find that having the odd expresso was a bit like main-lining caffine - my god how do the French drink so much coffee! Confused

I brought back a whole cheese shop so you can all pick whatever you like and stink Gerald out Grin xx

diabolik · 15/10/2010 15:24
  • bugger - i have the tgif bug -and the beer o'clock bell is ringing loudly --
HammerMouseOfHorrors · 15/10/2010 15:27

diabolik

Stick your fingers in your ears! It's only ringing because you have told yourself that you can't have a beer at beer o'clock!!!

So, ignore it. Keep busy. Think about something else.

desiretochange · 15/10/2010 15:29

I say hit the snooze button on the bell . .

Silver66 · 15/10/2010 15:32

and keep on hitting it x

MIFLAW · 15/10/2010 15:35

Diabolik

TGIF indeed - and, if you avoid a drink, Friday will finish, as planned, at midnight tonight, in a place you are familiar with.

Pick up a drink now and it could end literally (I use the word advisedly) anywhere and any time in the future - with no guarantee that it will be a time or place that you like.

algee · 15/10/2010 15:39

hello all...especially hello moomin, good to see you back x

TheAntiChristi · 15/10/2010 15:41

hey algee you old mucker

Where's your Hallowe'en name?

diabolik · 15/10/2010 15:51

ok washing up done - cleaned the coffee table .. I think I m gonna get the hoover out till the craving passes .. -

bollocks this is as bad as my various attempts of quiting the evil weed (tobacco) on day 3 :( over the last few months.

GF is not of much help either as it looks like she is waiting for me to give her the ok from her answers ..

TheAntiChristi · 15/10/2010 15:54

Diabolik what do you mean 'give her the OK'?

HammerMouseOfHorrors · 15/10/2010 15:57

diabolik - The ok to get you a beer?

Hey algee xx

daddywillbehomesoon · 15/10/2010 16:01

demented we have old friends from the UK arriving tomorrow lunchtime - it's sod's law - the first week i am trying to keep off the wine and some of the biggest drinkers we know are arriving... long lnch tomorrow, dinner out tomorrow, then long lunch sunday and dinner in sunday night.

On the non temptation side I've got cricket practice with the 4yr old tomorrow morning which will be fun - it's stinking hot by 10am here so I'll get to top up my tan nicely.

o'h and pizza tonight, which always goes with a nice red so it'll be an interesting evening.

TheAntiChristi · 15/10/2010 16:02

diabolik why don't you go for a walk (with gf)/ have a shower/ brush teeth/ have sex/ eat something? Instead of drinking. Take it an hour at a time and remember the cravings don't stay so intense all the time.

diabolik · 15/10/2010 16:07

hmmm with risk of saying to much about my relationship ..

We tend to feed off each other - so what I am saying is she wants a drink as well but cant justify it because of commitments tomorrow - but If I now go to the pub then she can aswell

nb - this works both ways I will do the same to her -

daddywillbehomesoon · 15/10/2010 16:18

diabolik - we're a bit like that sometimes - if DH says he's going for one quick glass of wine with a colleague before heading home then the little bell goes off in my brain that o'h he's had a glass of wine, that's nice, I think we should have some when he gets home as now he's had one he might want another and then I can have one too.

last night was the first night in a long time that he drank and I didn't.

MIFLAW · 15/10/2010 16:21

Diabolik

Simple. Say, "I'm off to the pub." She can then have a drink. You then go out and either go somewhere else (AA?) or walk twice round the block, come back after half an hour and say, "oh, there was no one there I knew," by which time she will be underway and have all the permission she needs.

desiretochange · 15/10/2010 16:24

Good advice Miflaw

Silver66 · 15/10/2010 16:37

I tried to change my name to SilverStrandsOfGhostlyEctoplasm66 three times and it wouldn't let me

Grrrr

Bumblelion · 15/10/2010 16:44

Need to go back and read this thread (and probably all the others but then I wouldn't post because it will take me too long) but having read some of the messages I think I want to join but am scared. What am I scared of? My life without alcohol basically. It is my only friend in life.

HammerMouseOfHorrors · 15/10/2010 16:47

Silver - it needs to be 30 letters/numbers or less.

Hello Bumblelion Smile

Bumblelion · 15/10/2010 16:48

Thanks for saying Hello, HammerMouseofHorrors.

diabolik · 15/10/2010 16:49

ok showered shaved - washed kitchen floor and rationality seems to be returning gonna make some food soon -

anyone else need a kitchen floor cleaned :)

desiretochange · 15/10/2010 16:52

Me me me Diabolik

HammerMouseOfHorrors · 15/10/2010 16:56

diabolik - I need a kitchen floor! Grin

You ok Bumblelion?

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