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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Carry On Past The Offy!!

977 replies

Mouseface · 09/10/2010 18:54

Well, this is our tenth thread so we are throwing a little party!

Everyone is invited! No booze of course, soft drinks and mocktails only!

I'm Mouse, hello. Smile

There are all kinds of drinkers on board the bus. Come and join the journey, whatever stage you are at, drinking, cutting down, wanting to stop or sober already.

Everyone is welcome to post here. Come say hi.

The journey so far is below.

JWN's original thread

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OP posts:
notevenamousie · 14/10/2010 20:00

Stopped. Poured rest away and going to get in bath before more. This is not good but it is better and tomorrow will be better and I will keep fighting.

TheAntiChristi · 14/10/2010 20:02

neam you STAR

What 'more' could you have?

Keep fighting.

Rightpickle · 14/10/2010 20:07

Yes, I just bastard fancied getting pissed. Why???????

Habit?

Idiocy?

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah.

Period pain. Hangover.

TWAT.

dementedma · 14/10/2010 20:08

hi bigfoot and welcome. you remind me of me and i just arrived here about a week ago when i was up to a regular bottle a night.
Have slipped tonight though - was doing spritzers but have just downed a big glass of wine no spritz.
Fortunately there is no more in the house and no money to buy any more so will watch Autumnwatch and try not to be too angry with myself......

LittleRedPumpkin · 14/10/2010 20:14

Well done noteven! Smile

bigfoot - how about trying a week off and seeing how it makes you feel? It'll be good for your body and if you're worried, you ought to see how being sober that long makes you feel.

Well ... I'm on day 8 and feeling restless now. DH was working late (usually, that tempts me to drink a bottle before he gets in, buy another and pretend I've 'just started' ... it's not good ...), but I distracted myself by cooking a tagine from scratch.

Now that's done I'm clockwatching to get to 11. Sad

RedMoomin · 14/10/2010 20:17

Hello all the lovely babes,

I have been MIA for a while... have not got the time to go through the previous thread and posts but wanted to let you all know that I am safe and well. Have been sober since Monday but previous to that was... not. Sad

I will try to make some time to read back and see what has been going on since my sudden disappearing act.

Hope that everyone is good x

MorticiaPerrier · 14/10/2010 20:23

RED Welcome back I have really missed you Smile

MsGeepers · 14/10/2010 20:24

Welcome bigfoot

neam, well done for pouring that glass away.

ma, don't beat yourself up, it won't help. You can't drink any more and tmrw is a new day.

rp, it never ceases to amaze me that we have this pull to drinking and yet whenever one of us does, they rarely come on here and post about how great it makes them feel. crazy isn't it. keep posting and then come back to the posts when you are next tempted.

I survived the big city (feeling very small town). Told friend I wasn't drinking, she was surprised but other than that it was a total non issue. Massage was lovely and no boozy toxins ooozing out of me!

Plus house exchanged today. We are finally moving. Am slightly in shock that its actually happening. And scared.

Keep strong brave babes (and blokes). I know how tough it is but it is worth it. Tmrw is 8 weeks for me. When I first posted on here I was scared and couldn't imagine how I could do one night without a drink but I did, then another and another.

RedMoomin · 14/10/2010 20:25

I love the new name! And thank you for the welcome. I am guessing I have missed loads?!

MorticiaPerrier · 14/10/2010 20:26

MsGee Well done that woman and congratulations! Smile

TheAntiChristi · 14/10/2010 20:26

red hello! hello! lovely to see you

MorticiaPerrier · 14/10/2010 20:29

RED The new name is for Halloween! I think it's fair to say Mouse is at the bottom of it. She has not been the same since the chocolate eyeball incident!!Grin How are you?

MsGeepers · 14/10/2010 20:29

RED

sorry I x posted with your return. You of course have been remembered and missed - greatly missed.

Phew. You had us worried Red. Strap that seat belt on, I am keeping an eye on you.

LittleMsGee sends a sleepy murmur to you too

xx

RedMoomin · 14/10/2010 20:33

Hello everyone! Thank you so much for the welcome back. I have missed you all! As well as being drunk on and off for 8 days I was signed off work due to depression so had no access to the computer.

HammerMouseOfHorrors · 14/10/2010 20:34

FUCKIING HELL RED!!!!!

Where have you been? Actually, I don't care. I have missed you so much. We have all been so worried.

I am actually crying. xxxx

RedDevilMoomin · 14/10/2010 20:40

It's ok, I'm here, I'm here - shuffle hugs all around and tissues too.

So pleased to be back in the bosom of the Babe family.

Is my new name OK? Trying to get in the spirit (ho ho!) of things without knowing the criteria.

I am so sorry that I worried and scared you all. Now I'm crying too x

RedDevilMoomin · 14/10/2010 20:42

It has been a tale of booze, booze and yet more booze. Although I have not had a drink since Monday it has taken me until today to recover - anyone out there considering picking up again let that be a lesson to you: it ONLY gets worse!

RedDevilMoomin · 14/10/2010 20:55

Have you all rushed off now? Probably exhausted with the worry of where the nutter Red had disappeared to?!

TheAntiChristi · 14/10/2010 20:59

We were all quite worried. What sparked off the drinking red

And I love the new name. Do you like mine?

MsGeepers · 14/10/2010 21:02

Red, your new name is fantastic.

RedDevilMoomin · 14/10/2010 21:04

I love the new name christi. I am so glad to be back. Have not been to AA either.

Impending divorce kind of sent it off - but any excuse, eh!

How are you doing?

witchetychicky · 14/10/2010 21:05

Hi silver good to have you back - You sound really happy.
x

MsGeepers · 14/10/2010 21:06

Red am so sorry that there wasn't a reconciliation with DH. Are you with your folks at the moment?

RedDevilMoomin · 14/10/2010 21:07

Love your new name too MsGee. I am still here!

RedDevilMoomin · 14/10/2010 21:08

Is silver back somewhere too? (Like I say I have not read earlier threads.)

Still with my folks but looking for somewhere else to move to ASAP. Too old to live here!

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