Morning. Thanks for bumping :)
I'm back in the flat - my dad brought me & DS back yesterday. I expected it to be awful seeing the place emptied of his things, but it wasn't too bad. It didn't make much difference, really - just a few empty shelves, etc. One of my favourite touches was the used chewing gum left on the dining table (not out of spite, I don't think - he's just that sort of person) 
It was good in a way though, because that was the point where I started laughing & was glad that I didn't have to put up with that again.
One of the things that I dreaded about living alone is that H did all of the washing up (when there was absolutely no choice, but still) because it was a terrible trigger for my morning sickness & it left an almost Pavlovian response to it, making me sick whenever I try (I know I sound crazy 
). So I thought I'd have to live off paper plates, etc! But my dad had a look at my kitchen & concluded that I'll be able to have a compact dishwasher if he makes a hole in the worksurface, etc. It's a rented property, but I've decided that we'll stay here, & I'd rather lose the deposit or whatever than not have a dishwasher for the next two years. So I'm awaiting the delivery of that today
Most importantly, I passed all of my resits & am back on my uni course this year. I cannot tell you how relieved I am! I not only get to do something constructive & useful for my future career so I can support DS & myself, but I get to use my brain & have something to do to keep myself occupied which isn't singing The Wheels On The Bus, or reading Spot books.
DS is fine, really. H had him after work last night until almost his bedtime, & apparently DS was very happy to see him when H picked him up from the CM, which I'm pleased for DS about after not seeing his dad since Tuesday night, really. But he otherwise doesn't seem to care. I let H put DS to bed, because when I saw him he just seemed pathetic. I thought that I wouldn't want him in the flat because it'd hurt too much, but actually it wasn't too bad. It hurt, but not so much that I couldn't let DS have an extra bit of time with him.
Overall I'm feeling very, very positive. I still blip & go up & down a lot, but this is so the right decision. It's such a relief to be free of all that crap!