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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Due December 2026 (part 2)

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MsPussinBoots · 10/05/2026 13:57

We're at 995 on the current thread so let's carry on here and make some amazing friends for life Star

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Ncl31 · 21/05/2026 18:00

I had my final reassurance scan at EPU today at 11+2.
All was well and measuring 11+6. Got my dating scan on Wednesday. Not long to wait now and hopefully I’ll be able to relax a little

hollyhocks2 · 21/05/2026 21:38

That’s so brilliant @Ncl31 🥰

Growingaseed · 21/05/2026 22:04

Has anyone else had a stomach pain when moving from sitting to standing? It's only on the left side and feels like a sharp pain but quickly disappears. I looked it up online and it suggested it might be ligaments stretching.

I'm almost 12 weeks for reference!

Had my pre-scan blood tests today. Can't wait for next week now. Hope everyone is doing ok! X

Ncl31 · 22/05/2026 06:28

@Growingaseed yes I get it too. If I stand too quickly or roll over in bed fast. It’s round ligament pain. I’m not surprised we get it really when you know small a uterus is pre-pregnancy to what it is now.

Aprahel87 · 22/05/2026 08:36

@Growingaseed likewise intend to get it on my right side when I move suddenly or turn in bed - another joy of pregnancy!

Growingaseed · 22/05/2026 09:45

That's so reassuring thanks ladies. It's been so helpful having you all to go through this with!

wonderlust07 · 22/05/2026 11:48

I get it in my ride side if I stand up too quickly or sneeze suddenly!

PhoenixSTL · 22/05/2026 12:50

I had my scan at EPU, and unfortunately it wasn't good news.

A lot of information for me to process today.

During the scan, the sonographer found two embryos in one sac. Which I think means identical twins.

Unfortunately, no heartbeats. Babies are measuring about 7 weeks + 6 days. I am 12 weeks today and completely sure of my dates. 8-9 weeks was when my pregnancy symptoms really eased off, particularly the nausea and fatigue.

They have to bring me back in 10 days for another scan to be sure. But I am sure...

frolickinglamb · 22/05/2026 12:55

Oh @PhoenixSTL that’s a lot to take in. I’m so sorry it wasn’t good news. What are you going to do about your trip?

Growingaseed · 22/05/2026 13:14

I'm so sorry @PhoenixSTL thats devastating news 💐

Aprahel87 · 22/05/2026 13:54

@PhoenixSTL i am so sorry 🫂

hollyhocks2 · 22/05/2026 14:06

Oh my goodness @PhoenixSTL this is so upsetting, and what a shock. My heart goes out to you.

Desperatelyseekingme · 22/05/2026 14:24

I am so sorry @PhoenixSTL thinking of you x

howluckyarewe · 22/05/2026 14:31

I'm so sorry @PhoenixSTL, what devastating news. 💔

SunshineRose12 · 22/05/2026 14:44

@PhoenixSTL my heart breaks for you, I’m so sorry 💔

Thank you for the update though. Sadly i think i might be in the same position as you, but I’m at least feeling mentally prepared for the scan on Monday.

SunshineRose12 · 22/05/2026 14:46

Just wanted to say, I’m so grateful to all the ladies on this thread, honestly don’t know what I would do without this forum.

MsPussinBoots · 22/05/2026 15:42

Sending lots of love @PhoenixSTLim so sorry

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bluepurplegreen · 22/05/2026 15:59

I’m sorry @PhoenixSTL and hope you’re doing ok.

Ncl31 · 22/05/2026 18:58

@PhoenixSTL im so sorry :( I hope you being well looked after and giving yourself time to process this

PhoenixSTL · 22/05/2026 22:54

@frolickinglamb I've come on the holiday in the end. One of my friends was with me during the scan, and all of them know the result. So they're all looking out for me. My son was too excited for me to think about cancelling, and I'm hoping it will prove a good distraction while I wait for things to progress.

@SunshineRose12 I have all my fingers crossed for you

It doesn't feel real right now. It feels like it was all a faraway dream. My partner said that this time, it feels a lot more real to him. He thinks because the twins side of it has really thrown him and made it super real. Sad to chat together this evening, as I think we'd have both been terrified and so excited to be having twins.

hollyhocks2 · 22/05/2026 23:24

Oh @PhoenixSTL I really feel for you. It’s so surreal being in the limbo state between pregnant and not. Good to be surrounded by supportive friends, and hopefully your son has fun and can still put a smile on your face in spite of it all. Sending you courage for the coming days.

SunshineRose12 · 23/05/2026 09:43

@PhoenixSTL glad to hear you’ve gone on holiday. As you say, good to have the distraction, and it sounds like you’ll have lots of people around to take care of you x

frolickinglamb · 23/05/2026 13:00

@PhoenixSTL glad you’ve got support with you while you’re away. Hopefully your trip is a good distraction while you wait.

SausageRoll90 · 24/05/2026 19:31

God I'm so sorry to read your update @PhoenixSTL 💔 sending you so much love. As the others have said, glad you're surrounded by friends to look after you xx

hollyhocks2 · 24/05/2026 21:01

It’s all so fragile isn’t it.

I’m really showing and I’ve been open with people I see at kids birthday parties etc but until that dating scan I just can’t be at all confident that what I’m saying is even true. Someone today told me they had a miscarriage at 12 weeks.

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