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How old were you when you had your last baby?

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justthatgirl1 · 09/10/2024 22:40

Just curious to know what age people had their last baby .. and did you know that you were done with kids?

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kikisparks · 10/10/2024 19:12

farfromideal · 10/10/2024 10:13

33 and yes. I only wanted one

Same but I was 34.

WeddingShmedding · 10/10/2024 19:14

Second and last at 34. First at 32. No desire for any more and I'm fifty now, no regrets.

RhinestoneCowgirl · 10/10/2024 19:17

Second at 30, felt very different after and really didn't want to be pg again (whereas after 1st I was ready to go again fairly quickly). Had a brief wobble when youngest was 4ish but it passed. DH had the snip instead

user2848502016 · 10/10/2024 19:18

I was 33, we always said we wanted 2 or 3 but it never felt like the right time for a 3rd, and when my youngest got to around 4 I knew I was done and didn't want any more

Runnerinthenight · 10/10/2024 21:39

DifficultBloodyWoman · 10/10/2024 01:19

I haven’t spoken to my doctor about it yet and I’m not sure if it would even be advised to have a 2in1 surgery unless it is an emergency but I would just love to never, ever have a period again. They’ve been getting longer, more painful and more irregular to the point that I thought this pregnancy was actually the start of menopause.

But contraception definitely needs to be discussed after this one!!

I had a c/section, tubal ligation and apronectomy in one go! I don't think my obs would get away with that now!!

A hysterectomy is a bigger deal though and would need careful consideration!

You never know, maybe this pregnancy will help with the period side of things! I had really painful periods until I had my DC1. I had my DC3 when I was 40, and didn't have another period until he was about 19 months. They were regular for a bit then, but they just petered out!

I love your username btw!

Crushed23 · 11/10/2024 09:38

Fascinating thread, and totally at odds with the one a few days ago in which a 42 year-old woman was told she was 'extremely unlikely' to get pregnant!

Avie29 · 11/10/2024 12:37

32, thought i was done at 22 but surprise baby! Lol i am definitely done! Going to get sterilised as soon as baby will take a bottle lol xx

DalRiata · 11/10/2024 12:41

5th at 35.

37 now and still wonder if I should fit in one more, I'd love to but I'm terrified of pushing our luck. So many people I know are struggling with children with disabilities, autism etc and I just know that with 5 children already, we couldn't cope with a child with major additional needs.

Gia899 · 11/10/2024 12:49

35 if all goes well with this pregnancy. It'll absolutely be my last all going well, even though I've already been asked if I want to try for a third (to get the opposite sex I won't have 🙄). Of course I could not feel done after my birth but I'd be very surprised as I feel like I am so done after this pregnancy so strongly already. There's a nice feeling of being at peace with your decision when you know you're done I think.

Gia899 · 11/10/2024 12:50

DalRiata · 11/10/2024 12:41

5th at 35.

37 now and still wonder if I should fit in one more, I'd love to but I'm terrified of pushing our luck. So many people I know are struggling with children with disabilities, autism etc and I just know that with 5 children already, we couldn't cope with a child with major additional needs.

This is exactly how I feel - about pushing my luck.

ButterAsADip · 11/10/2024 12:52

I was 32. Done the moment she was born 😃 such a good feeling. Like, we can get on with things now :) 25 and 27 when I had the other 2. Didn’t rush anything, savored it all, happily done with it. I LOVED being pregnant and having newborns, ahh :)
Shes 2.5 now and upstairs refusing her nap. Trying to see the good in the nap days being over too 😅

Gia899 · 11/10/2024 12:56

BananaGrapeMelon · 10/10/2024 06:21

i was 35 for my third and last child. I didn't know I was done, and contemplated a fourth at times. They're all teens now and I'm very glad I stopped at three!

I'm very glad I stopped at three!

Thank you for this. So often I see the cliche "Nobody ever regrets having another child" and I always roll my eyes at how obvious that is. It's nice to have some balance with your honesty here.

BeachRide · 11/10/2024 19:52

Crushed23 · 11/10/2024 09:38

Fascinating thread, and totally at odds with the one a few days ago in which a 42 year-old woman was told she was 'extremely unlikely' to get pregnant!

Had mine at 39, 40, 43 and 47. All naturally conceived!

dreamer24 · 11/10/2024 23:41

1st at 21 (she's now 18)
2nd at 35 (she's now 3.5)

I don't feel done at all, I have a nagging sense of wanting one last one but I'm 40 next year so I just don't think it's going to happen for me ☹️

Anisty · 08/11/2024 18:00

40 baby number 5 and yes i was finally done and completely content

Anisty · 08/11/2024 18:01

dreamer24 · 11/10/2024 23:41

1st at 21 (she's now 18)
2nd at 35 (she's now 3.5)

I don't feel done at all, I have a nagging sense of wanting one last one but I'm 40 next year so I just don't think it's going to happen for me ☹️

Never say never!

FrequentlyAskedQuestion · 08/11/2024 18:06

I did toy, briefly, with the idea of another but decided to quit while ahead

Femalefootyfan · 08/11/2024 18:27

30 with my 3rd and I knew I was definitely done so I was sterilised which pissed off DH as he would’ve liked one more, no thanks.
First one born when I was 23, second born when I was 27.

Judgejudysno1fan · 29/03/2025 14:50

Had my last at 35, he's 2 now and he's number 6. Unsure if I'd like another. Couple times I have miscarried one after the other but there we are. I also think I'm beginning an early peri menopause too.

comealongdobbeh · 29/03/2025 14:56

38 and done thank god

Iloveeverycat · 29/03/2025 15:30

1st 30 4th and last 35

Faz469 · 29/03/2025 15:47
  1. First and last. More than happy with just the one.
SnakebitesandSambucas · 29/03/2025 16:43

I didn't feel finished despite having 2 always dreamed of a third. Now I'm 31 weeks with my miracle! 37yrs old now! Always wanted 3!

TooFancyNancy · 29/03/2025 17:10

3rd and last baby at 33

Gia899 · 29/03/2025 17:26

Having my second at 35.5 which feels too old for me personally - this pregnancy has kicked my arse. Feeling so, so done with this pregnancy chapter, thank God, and relieved to be saying goodbye to it as lovely as it was. Must be tough when torn about having another.