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September 2024 - Thread 6! 🐣🧡💛❤️

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Lillers · 07/04/2024 17:24

New thread seeing as the other one is full! I’ll try to tag as many people as I can seeing as the other one is full so I can’t post a link…

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MrsC2024 · 18/04/2024 09:12

@Jojod12 @WinsandSam We used (still use) an Owlet sock with our first. Would highly recommend! We’ve never become obsessed with checking the app or anything, but I like knowing it’s on for reassurance. We’ve never had any false alarms and I definitely slept easier in the first few months knowing he was wearing it!

rupertbear91 · 18/04/2024 10:06

@Decaffe I'm with you on time going slowly. I'm 17+4 and literally feel like time has stopped now. My 20 week scan isn't till 8th May and although I am getting some movement I feel like have done all the ordering of things I can for now to pass the time and am just sitting waiting to check all is ok at 20 weeks.

Decaffe · 18/04/2024 10:53

@rupertbear91 mine is the 7th May! I’ve been thinking in my head it’s a week on Tuesday, but it isn’t, it’s two weeks on Tuesday! 😌 I have spent the morning googling what’s happening at 18 weeks, I just can’t wait to see him again. I am tempted to book a private scan, but we really need to start saving for maternity leave now so I just can’t justify it.

I am still terrible at trying to focus at work. It’s as though I simply don’t care about it any more. I don’t care about all the drama and what’s going on. I feel as though if I could just sit on the sofa and nap, snack, and watch box sets until September then that would do me just fine…

RachSmile · 18/04/2024 10:53

had our 20 week scan today! All looked good except baby got into a comfy spot and refused to budge to get all the measurements, no matter how many hip shakes and jumping jacks the midwife made me do 😂 just means we get to go back next week for another scan so I can’t complain!

MudandMoet · 18/04/2024 11:05

I've also been avoiding prosciutto and similar meats but now I know I can have them hot I'll add to to the shopping list. Have really fancied some with some 'allowed' cheese gin and olives a time or two these last few weeks.

@HRP1990 Marnie is in our top three, I just hope it's doesn't get too popular thanks to Kelvin Fletchers farm programme recently. It could now actually be top two as I've recently realised that the name I adore and have been calling little baby can be a shortened version of my DH ex girlfriends name, not sure how I feel about that so might strike it off 🤣

Xur · 18/04/2024 11:17

Had my 20W scan today morning, baby’s looking fine. As per usual very active. Has been having kung -foo sessions since 0400am tonight. At the scan was no exception. We had the opportunity to see baby drink.

Story time on the topic of foods, some insider knowledge from the procurement industry. Now obviously doctors or dieticians will never say to a pregnant woman “avoid fruit and veg”, because it makes no sense, but realistically the odds of having infection or parasites accidentally entering the body from fruit, veg and berries are much, much… MUCH higher than from meat. And when it comes to meat, processed, fully cooked meat is more likely to have stuff in there that should not be there.
The compliance on smoked,cured,pickled… meats and dairy for the largest stores is extremely scrupulous not just on the process, but also the sourcing the quality of it.
…and then you have the fruit.
any fruit, veg and berries, especially the ones that are imported from outside the EU have a risk of having an array of cultures and life forms on it. The largest culprit is salmonella or any other bacteria you can get from contamination with stool/poop/hands.
It’s so dangerous because people often do not wash their fruit, veg, berries often.
some of the biggest importers in UK are actually forging papers and making their suppliers compliant in the face of the law and the chains they supply into. When the money is rough procurement managers and heads of the company will have quarantined product pushed through into the stores therefor compromising the health risk.
Now I am not a keyboard warrior from online and I do not say this from Google or kitchen gossip. I used to work in procurement, I was a buyer. I left the industry because they wanted me to bend my moral standard and to push unsuitable fruit into the biggest chains in UK so that they wouldn’t have to loose money on it. After seeing this and quitting the industry, speaking to knowledgeable people I found out the true volume of this, most companies do this.
Obviously not all product is infected, but it’s much more common in the fruit/ veg, than it is with meats or dairy.
If you want to exercise extra caution on food, make sure you thoroughly wash all your fruit, veg and berries before having them. Some stuff people don’t wash because they don’t eat the outside like papaya, melons, passion fruit, etc…but you should. Oh, and pregnant women absolutely have to stay away from coconut, fresh coconut. Don’t even think of going on a holiday and having some fresh coconut water from the locals, like a straw in the coconut. A coconut can be deadlier than the mouldiest of cheeses.
I stay away from prepped salads, those are the worst.
any Caesar salad kits or other leafy salad kits-need to be religiously washed before eating.
Obviously at the end of the day everyone assumes their own risk, I am just sharing my knowledge.
Also…any product that is not good enough for stores, gets sold off to markets. So don’t buy from markets unless you know the grower/seller and are certain it’s local product.

Lillers · 18/04/2024 11:21

@Xur That is so interesting. I am now wondering how long it would take me to turn my garden into a self-sustaining produce farm! I’m actually only partially joking, I really want this little one to learn how to grow their own food - I just have to learn how to do it first!

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Xur · 18/04/2024 11:27

@Lillers Even stuff from our garden needs to be really washed 😭 because slugs/snails carry tapeworm eggs and there’s no way to avoid random cats not pooping in our gardens. Cat poop is dangerous to pregnant ladies 😭

YellowZ · 18/04/2024 12:01

@xur I find the quality of fruit and veg in the UK really depressing these days. Especially soft fruits. So often strawberries and raspberries are going off while still on the supermarket shelf - strawberries all seem to have those black bruises?

I used to have an allotment until we moved last year. That was lovely, fresh strawberries from the allotment are the best ☺️

WinsandSam · 18/04/2024 13:24

So today has been fun. I've always been terrified of the dentist and built up the courage to go an get a crown fitted. They were 45 minutes late (bordering on a panic attack.)
Get in the chair burst out crying. They start consoling me 😅
She only puts the mirror in my mouth and I can't stop gagging. Proper dey heaving.
Mission aborted 🤣

Cat2022 · 18/04/2024 14:49

@Xur that’s a really interesting insight. We recently had a vomiting bug and I was convinced it came from the fruit and veg in our fridge and my husband thought I was being crazy. Since then I honestly am struggling to eat any fresh veg from the supermarket and have ended up using more frozen veg as in my head this won’t make me sick as easily.

I am feeling the time was passing fast for the first while but now it is going so slow feel like I have been 18 weeks forever.

TripleESept24 · 18/04/2024 15:53

Hi all

Someone recommended to me Love to sleep swaddle.

Just seen another friend out this on her story.......

Opinions?

September 2024 - Thread 6! 🐣🧡💛❤️
HRP1990 · 18/04/2024 16:21

@TripleESept24 I did buy these but my daughter didn’t like them.. however I can’t see what’s not to like from a professional point of view, surely it’s just like being swaddled? They’ve just got their arms up vs down?

TripleESept24 · 18/04/2024 16:21

HRP1990 · 18/04/2024 16:21

@TripleESept24 I did buy these but my daughter didn’t like them.. however I can’t see what’s not to like from a professional point of view, surely it’s just like being swaddled? They’ve just got their arms up vs down?

Exactly what I thought...... My friends been using hers 3 months and just ordered the next size her son loves it!

HRP1990 · 18/04/2024 16:24

TripleESept24 · 18/04/2024 16:21

Exactly what I thought...... My friends been using hers 3 months and just ordered the next size her son loves it!

If its getting the baby to sleep.. I’d go for it 😂🙈

Cat2022 · 18/04/2024 16:36

@TripleESept24 we had this and also the next step up where the arms are off (for when they can roll) and they are hip health approved so a bit different to traditional swaddling. I didn’t buy it till she was a few weeks old but never felt it was unsafe and hadn’t heard anything about them not being approved (some midwife’s are a bit rogue with their opinions too) 🤷‍♀️

Cat2022 · 18/04/2024 16:37

Also this was just last year (small age gap problems)

Martibum · 18/04/2024 17:22

@TripleESept24 i swaddled my daughter but left her arms out. I can't remember why I did that but I think it's the way it I was told to?! I wonder is it a concern when they get to rolling stage or is it hindering their moro reflex?

TripleESept24 · 18/04/2024 17:33

Martibum · 18/04/2024 17:22

@TripleESept24 i swaddled my daughter but left her arms out. I can't remember why I did that but I think it's the way it I was told to?! I wonder is it a concern when they get to rolling stage or is it hindering their moro reflex?

Yeh you get a stage two one for then where their arms are out

longingtobe23 · 18/04/2024 19:07

Oh that’s strange! My sis in Law swore by them as well! I haven’t heard or read they’re unsafe before but also not sure why they wouldn’t be?
🙈 guess I’ll ask

I haven’t feel any real kicks yet I’m starting to panic

also called chase my 20wk scan / it hadn’t even been booked so now I’ve got a shitty time 50 minute drive and I’ll have to go alone 😩

Xur · 18/04/2024 20:46

Last night I struggled to sleep because I had the rare occurrence of restless legs. Surprise surprise, what is on the craving news today afternoon? Buckwheat of course. Sudden onset of craving of one of the products with the highest values of manganese and magnesium.
I’m fairly certain my body knows what it needs and I am to be honest grateful for it.
Atleast I don’t have to think about what to have for dinner 😂

September 2024 - Thread 6! 🐣🧡💛❤️
HRP1990 · 18/04/2024 21:41

@xur I’m craving all the spice.. give me chillies, siracha, spicy mayo etc 😂 what is my body telling me!?

Xur · 18/04/2024 21:46

@HRP1990 I actually read about it today, experts believe spicy food cravings are caused by fluctuations in hormones. The sudden change of hormones makes us want to experience stronger taste.

its also believed that expecting ladies who crave chocolate are low in vitamins B.

Vinegar craving is apparently related to salt and that is related to producing blood volumes.

craving ice cream and dairy turns out is related not just to calcium, but also and maybe even more -to iodine. Which is highly consumed by a pregnant organism.

mrsbgb · 18/04/2024 21:51

@Xur this is so interesting! My main craving has been fish sauce so far. Didn’t particularly like it before pregnancy, now can’t get enough!

Xur · 18/04/2024 21:54

This is one of the articles I read and mainly ref previous comment. (So you don’t think On talking out of my ass or being a know it all) https://www.verywellfamily.com/top-pregnancy-cravings-what-experts-have-to-say-6502307

@mrsbgb fish sauce? The one made of anchovies we put in stir fries? The one that smells like ass untill it’s cooked enough??

Here's What Experts Think About Your Top Pregnancy Cravings

50-90% of people experience cravings during pregnancy. Experts help us understand why this happens, and what it means.

https://www.verywellfamily.com/top-pregnancy-cravings-what-experts-have-to-say-6502307