Due December 2023 part 2

[Landsmen]

New thread. Will tag people shortly. Tag anyone from the first

Hi ladies, hoping for my 3+ on my digital tomorrow morning, was trying to hold out until at least next week but we all know how addictive it is 😂feel like I need the reassurance, feeling crampy again, 5 weeks today x

@Mummy1502 i was the same as you! Needed the reassurance and I got it thankfully. Hopefully it’s the same for you. I’m still having crampy feelings and sorry TMI coming up but like a bit of pressure down there!

Is anyone waking up fine but nausea starts as soon as you eat anything then lingers all day?

Its really weird.

@99SR im glad I’m not the only one cramping, it worries me x

@OnNaturesCourse i find I feel nauseous until I eat x

@OnNaturesCourse yes...happened yesterday afternoon and again today 🤢.

@Rainbowdust557 definitely fingers crossed for everyone for their healthy babies!
@HannahLouD sorry I don’t mean to worry you! I think there are probably more people on here than the average who have had MCs or MMCs, I only found this forum after my MMC for support from a lovely group of ladies otherwise I don’t think I’d even be on here x

@PhyllisVance23 I'm in the same position, had my scan at what I thought was 6w1d and there was only a yolk sac so I've got a repeat scan on Monday morning. I have had horrendous nausea this week, weird pressure feelings in my lower stomach and my boobs hurt so much but I'm feeling so nervous about this scan on Monday. When is yours? x

@HannahLouD someone on one of the chats shared this and it's really been helping me to keep things in perspective: https://datayze.com/miscarriage-chart
Hope you're doing ok

Are anyone’s cramps continuous? They are starting to worry me now, they feel like af cramps in my bum/lower back and tummy area x

I'm 7+3 today and I'm just so tired!!! I went to bed early the other night and my 14 year old, who is completely self-absorbed as teenagers are, asked me if I was okay as I'd been sleeping a lot lately!

I'm a teacher and I'm really greatful that there is a staff toilet next to my classroom. I've had to leave lessons 3 times now to be sick. Fortunately all of my classes are lovely and most of my classes are year 10 upwards so if I have to leave for a minute or two, it's jot carnage.

@Mummy1502 I have twinges in my pelvis and hips quite frequently throughout the day. Nothing painful or not like AF. But it does make me worry every time too!

@Charlielechat thats what makes me think it’s not normal x

@Mummy1502 Dr Google and lots of threads on here seem to say it's completely normal to have cramps. Even AF-type cramps, as long as there's no bleeding and you're not in agony! So hard to relax isn't it x

@Charlielechat theres no bleeding but scared there might be x

Is anyone else finding it quite hard socialising? I don’t mind not drinking at all (actually quite enjoying the AF beers) but it’s so hard to hide not drinking as I always drink.

A few friends have asked us out this evening and I’ve just let DH go without me as I can’t be doing with the all secrecy / why are you not drinking questions. I can’t wait until it’s just out there, going to be a lonely 3 / 4 months.

@Mushroo luckily for me I don't drink anyway! Or socialise really 😂

I think I might have a water infection that’s causing cramping x

😂 that’s handy! I should have ‘quit drinking’ a year ago and laid the groundwork haha

Hiya, I just snuck onto the last page of thread 1 but am back. I’m still not sure if I actually am pregnant, would be 4weeks3 and had 2 positive tests followed by three negative. Deep down I think I’ve had a chemical, but I am still having a lot of symptoms. And a new one today of food aversion and specific smells making me feel queasy. I’m still getting dizzy, crampy, heartburn, waves of nausea. First thing today I had a tiny bit of very light pink when I wiped. I’m 2 days late but very confused. Messes with your head doesn’t it!

@RamonaBadwolf of that's very confusing! Have you done one recently? I only trust frer really, I'll test on others but won't determine anything until I take one of those

FRER are the ones I got faint positives in yeah. I got negative on clear blue and supermarket cheapies

@RamonaBadwolf it's apparently quite common for symptoms to ease and get a little bit of bleeding around when your period is due for the first few months, sometimes longer! Something to do with muscle memory and your body running a bit on autopilot. It happened with my second pregnancy for the first few months.

What PG tests are you using?

Also yes I already have 1 DC so if successful this would be my second pregnancy

@RamonaBadwolf i think the only way you’ll be able to know is to look for progression in frer tests or ask gp for blood tests
fingers crossed for you

Thankyou. I did wonder about calling GP but thought it might be too early? I’ll see what they say