Sorry to everyone feeling rubbish

I was so sick with my first I needed anti-sickness medication, was less bad with my second and this time I just mainly feel nauseous which is a definite improvement.
@Cheetocat @Kathno4 I am huge and I’ve either got my dates wrong or it’s just that I have so much weight on my tum already it’s piling up underneath IYSWIM. I already can’t lie on my back for long. DP also keeps saying twins and gets the evil eye from me. Lalalalala not listening! Waiting impatiently for 12 week scan to find out what’s going on.
Congratulations @FlowerJ ! It feels a bit lonely tbh because I don’t really know anyone irl in this position and I feel like I’ll be judged when I tell people.
Not telling my parents yet, not sure why but I feel like I need to know of everything’s ok before they get invested.
My first was a surprise, second we found out. We have one of each so it would be nice to have another surprise but might be too impatient! Mind you DD wouldn’t let us see at 16w so we have to have a private scan.
Does anyone know at what point you are offered blood tests to check for likelihood of Downs etc? I can’t remember and everything seems to have changed in the last 6 years. I’m 41 so obviously risks are higher.