@peachypetite hope you're feeling better! Sometimes it just gets too much for sure, I'd be upset too if I got a lot of comments and judgement. I think @EithneBlue you're right as well, I think it's a mixture between people feeling like they have this additional right to tell you what they think of your body or your choices during pregnancy and then we get made to feel like our reactions about it are down to hormones rather than justfied because are people just being dicks!
I've had a few people piss me off today, the doctor started it off as I've had a bit of what I think is sciatica for months now but it got much worse this week to the point I could barely walk. Finally managed to speak to the doctor and he was like ohhh I'll prescribe you cocodomol I was like uhhh no I'd like to see a physio. He also pissed me off by passing comment on whether or not people should find out the sex of their baby. He took me by surprise and asked if I'd found out and I was like no...and he responded REALLY enthusiastically like oh great!!! that's great that's the right choice!! like um ok dickhead didn't do it for you and I don't think you should be judging women's choices either way??
THEN my mum has gone and announced in my sister's hen do whataspp that I'm pregnant. Which is totally weird as I don't know most of them. The ones I do know a bit but haven't told I was going to tell in person. People basically just ignored it thank god. And she DOES NOT GET IT why I would be bothered by this. I just get told I need to not get worked up and they'd be able to tell in person anyway like WTF...I'm sure I'll piss the baby off as much one day but jesus christ she's so frustrating!!!