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Early Oct Babies Part 7

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Treaclepie19 · 20/07/2020 13:40

Entering the final stretch! 😁

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Treaclepie19 · 19/08/2020 13:53

We're racing through this thread so I've made us a new one ❤

NEW THREAD HERE!

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Treacle81 · 19/08/2020 14:39

Thankfully loads of us the same regarding hospital bag etc, I just cannot be bothered with that or washing everything if perfectly honest. I'm hoping I get a big want for it soon but for now, it can wait!! @NWnature I defo will be doing it but think it's not until like 36 weeks so a while yet. The perineum doesn't stretch and I would really like to avoid another episiotomy so I will be trying everything to soften it. God just been so ratty past two days, feel for my poor partner. Just cried in his arms and fell asleep for an hour. Bloody hormones xx

Zaalfruit · 19/08/2020 15:34

So I called the doctors and the response was - drink lots of water . Call back tommorw if it doesn’t improve - what a bs response, actually done with the nhs .

I’m back to feeling queasy again - dh deodorant made me vomit aggressively this morning .

I am owner being pregnant to - finish work on the 18th too, can’t wait countdown !! I kinda want the baby to be born at 37 weeks and not go a day over lol - top tips on inducing labour - I read someone drank caster oil isn’t that really gross .

babymama09 · 20/08/2020 17:42

Hi girls. Giving an update I had the baby on the 18th August she tried to breath on her own and cried when she was born via c sec. She died yesterday 12 hours after being born in my arms. I am gutted and heartbroken. Hope ur all okay and good luck in all ur pregnancies xx

booroo · 20/08/2020 17:53

@babymama09 I'm so so sorry to hear your news, you've been so brave throughout and given her the best chances! Big hugs to you and your family

mamamemmmer · 20/08/2020 18:04

@babymama09 I am so sorry for your loss x

Buzz22 · 20/08/2020 18:31

@babymama09 I'm so sorry. You have been so incredibly brave. Sending you love and hugs xxx

blankiesandunicorns · 20/08/2020 19:22

@babymama09 I am so so sorry. Your strength and courage throughout has been amazing

Quiffy · 20/08/2020 20:41

@babymama09 heartbroken for you, so sorry for you and your family ❤️

MrsK89 · 20/08/2020 20:43

@babymama09 I'm so so sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers xx

Treaclepie19 · 20/08/2020 20:55

So sorry for your loss babymama09 Flowers

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SkyBlue20 · 21/08/2020 08:08

@babymama09 I am so, so sorry for your loss. There’s nothing I can say to make it better but just know that I am thinking of you and your little girl and sending all my love. Big hug and lots of strength being sent your way - you are so brave and strong. Lots of love xxx

Zaalfruit · 21/08/2020 08:53

@babymama09 I am so sorry for your loss - lots of love and prayers are going out to you and your family . If you need anything please just message me .

No words can make it better but we are all here for you - express how you feel to us . You are strong and have amazing courage and strength xxxx

babymama09 · 21/08/2020 10:52

Thank you girls for the amazing support you have provided through out my entire pregnancy this group has been like a family as we all shared our experiences together with how we felt during pregnancy. Saoirse is now at our local funeral directors local to us and we are trying to get permission to put her with her older sisters. I am so proud to say I am her mum and how much she fought against her condition. I am at a loss at how her heart suddenly started to crash in front of me when Originally she was doing so well. She was hooked up to so many machines and I am unsure if a medication that the hospital used had an affect on her heart and it went un noticed, we are trying to get the reports to prove this as we are sure something has happened and can't accept that jer heart just gave in, just like that. She didn't want the ventilation she was trying to fight it off so they sedated her. You couldn't even see her feet moving she was so heavily sedated.
Thank you all again for ur support xx

MummyBearBoo · 21/08/2020 17:45

So sorry for your loss @babymama09 you're incredibly brave!! Xx

CouscousEvaporator · 21/08/2020 18:32

@babymama09 I’m so sorry for your loss. You have been amazingly brave for your little girl. I hope you can get some answers xx

HerondaleDucks · 21/08/2020 21:50

Oh I'm completely heartbroken for you @babymama09.
I know there is nothing I can say but you've been utterly amazing throughout our pregnancy despite all the challenges you both faced.
My thoughts and love are with you, sending you the biggest hugs. You have been so brave.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I literally just clicked on to see how everyone was doing and I couldn't leave without saying how deeply sorry I am.
Please take care of yourself and I hope all your family are taking care of you too. Xxx

babymama09 · 22/08/2020 09:07

Thank you all for your support and kind messages. Saoirse is currently with the funeral directors and we have given her a blanket and some teddy's from the children. My heart is fully broken and I don't know how I am going to get through the next couple of weeks months or years. We are told that we can still pick her up and hold her. Just wish I could bring her home and wake up to find this a nightmare. But everyrime I wake back up I am left with the same emptiness and the same knowledge that my baby is gone. Finding it hard to cope

LostinAusten2 · 22/08/2020 09:43

So sorry for your loss @babymama09 💐❤️ Sending you a lot of love, you’ve been so strong and I know it doesn’t feel like it but I promise you and your family will make it through this x

AutumnBabyWinterMummy · 22/08/2020 14:42

@babymama09 I am so so sorry for you and your family. Sending so much love. You have been so strong throughout and you really fought for her. ❤️ xxx

Aquablue1123 · 25/08/2020 08:31

@babymama09, thinking of you and your family, so sorry to hear this news xxx

MrsD1990 · 25/08/2020 21:54

@babymama09 only just seen your messages, I had moved to the other thread. I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. Sending you lots of love and support for this tough time ♥️

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