January 2021 due date bus 4

[BabyG123]

Nearing the end of bus 3 so here is bus 4!

11+5 feeling rougher than ever but excited what's to come

[quote BabyG123]@IshaPoet follow your heart and mind, the twins will adapt to any situation.

My parents broke when I was little and I know no difference. My best friends mum was in a unsupportive relationship and stuck at it until she broke and her daughter was late teens who now still at 30 is having therapy! Be you![/quote]
I spoke to him this morning and gave him an ultimatum and said it's either we do this together or I'll do it alone. And his face was like I dropped a bomb on his world. I've never spoken out of turn before and I always try to not lose my temper but I think you guys have me such amazing advice and support that I flipped like a light switch and told where he can go which is clearly back to his mums and his face dropped and he apologised. Asked what he can do and I just sat there and made the longest list I possibly could for him.
Told him he needs to get his 💩 together and help more and if he doesn't or falls back into his old ways he can leave and I'll help him pack.

@IshaPoet I'm so sorry to read your posts.. do not ever apologise for being you 😘.. you are amazing and if your partner and his family don't think so then that is their loss.. I hope you have somebody as in family or friends you can turn too or even us mums on here are always on hand.
I really hope today your having a better day and you've managed some rest hun xx

@IshaPoet sorry just read about your family.. well I must say your even more of a superwoman standing up to your family too.. please just know you are not alone ya ladies are here for you. Having twins with autism does not mean you can not have more children, people should be supportive or keep their comments to themselves x

@IshaPoet go you with your list 👍

@IshaPoet go you with your list 👍

@Bubbabee yeah I called my mum and had a big talk with her and explained how her and my dad actions have affected me and how they need to be understanding more

I've literally grown some balls I didn't know I had. Just made my partner clear the whole garden and take all the trash out while I do laundry and he deals with the twins. I've had my feet up in the garden with my watermelon juice and ice while I wait for him to finish so I can give him more things to do

@IshaPoet yes love it.. women rule 😘

I have to thank you ladies without your love support and kind words of comfort I wouldn't have found the strength to tell everyone where to go unless they get it together. Thank you all so much for your support

@IshaPoet always 😘

@IshaPoet well done!

This group really is amazing - the support you get from people you don’t even know is amazing. I would love to be able to meet all of you! Xx

@MayBug2020 @Bubbabee a meet up in the new year once this coronavirus is done and dusted would be amazing. We can tell our babies about this when their grown up and hopefully they'll have amazing people like all of you beautiful women in their lives. 💙💜❤️

Hey been silent last few threads but on the Facebook group 😊. So I have my 12 week scan tomorrow and feeling bad because my partner can't come 😫. Going to book a gender scan so he can come to that and see peanut instead. How's everyone getting on xx

@IshaPoet you didn't speak out of term my lovely, you stood Up for yourself and children! Proud of you!

Love a meet up, my thread group from my
Son are all still in contact on the Facebook group but I've not joined this one yet and prob won't until baby arrives.

Is anyone based in Surrey, near the Guildford area? X

@kim160790 how exciting! Mine is on Wednesday and going to ring on Tuesday to see what the rules are at my hospital but if my dh can’t come we are going to the do the same as you and book a gender one privately at 16 or so weeks - I think that’s the earliest you can find out isn’t it? X

@MayBug2020 @IshaPoet I would love to meet all of you too. When I'm having bad days I get so much support from you all 😘 it's amazing x

@MayBug2020 I'm way up the country 😔
@kim160790 good luck for your scan tomorrow x

@MayBug2020 yes it is I had one with my 3 year old at babybond and the scan quality is so much better than window to the womb. It's a shame partners can't go I get that it is a medical appointment but still think it's unfair considering everything else is opening up.

@Bubbabee thank you hoping they put me forward with my dates 😁

OMG anyone else want to lose their shit at everything?

We have a communal garden and our neighbor keeps spreading bloody bird seed everywhere. We've asked her to stop and she did for a week. But it's back. Everywhere.

I want to scream!!!!

Hello ladies! I'm 10+1 today, and am after some reassurance from those of you further along that the nausea passes eventually! I feel nauseated all day, throw up every morning and am trying to eat little and often but it isn't going away. Please tell me it eases soon! Xx

Hello ladies! I'm 10+1 today, and am after some reassurance from those of you further along that the nausea passes eventually! I feel nauseated all day, throw up every morning and am trying to eat little and often but it isn't going away. Please tell me it eases soon! Xx

@BabyG123 yes yesterday i was like that haha

@blueskiesandapples I am 11+5 and at 11 weeks I felt I couldn’t cope with the sickness anymore and spoke to my doctor who gave me anti sickness and oh my gosh it’s the best thing - I feel myself again and can eat and do things so if you are struggling speak to your doc but if not I have been told it does get better - you are doing great - hang in there..

Anyone else about my way through and belly popped out? Today I feel my belly is sticking out and felt harder than normal - wondering if it’s baby popped or where I have eaten more now I am not being sick x

@MayBug2020 I'm 12+4 and just text me friend about my belly! My son is only just 1 so thought maybe that's why. But jeez hello I'm trying to hide it still 🤣🤣

Bird gate update. I've swept the grass and put it in a sandwich bag by her door. I've then got our bird feeder and hit it so hard into the ground with a mallet by hers that I broke the bloody mallet.

Hormones.