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Catching up - TTC after miscarriage part 2

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BecsterG · 09/06/2020 09:47

Hi Ladies, here is our part two for pregnancy after miscarriage. X

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Zoey36 · 11/08/2020 19:32

@FireflyGirl we used a baby names app and went through 5000 with no matches! It's like Tinder where you swipe left or right. I have a lot of girls' names but this is a boy! I don't actually LIKE any boys' names but there's some I would be fine with. But none that we matched!

BS9790 · 11/08/2020 19:46

I feel so sore today 😩 had to stop my dog walk this morning as my bump was hurting and it's just got worse as days gone on!
Feels so tender!

I went in for monitoring over movements on Sunday, also had my scan yesterday and both were fine. My movements are still hardly anything though... It's like been right back at 20 weeks and just feeling for slightest tap 😕 stressing me out!!

ChampooPapi · 11/08/2020 21:46

Absolutely @scrumdiddly123 🤗

FireflyGirl · 11/08/2020 22:44

@BS9790 I go swimming to the gym 3 days a week, it's a less than 10 minute walk away. I've noticed that I set off at my usual pace and before I get to the top of the street I have to slow right down, and by the time I've walked about 5000 steps (in the day, it's only about 3.5k to the gym and back) my back and the ligaments in my sides are starting to hurt.

You can get bump supports that might help - I got mine from the physio years ago when I was pregnant with DS, but you can buy them online. There's a few different types - JoJo do one that's about £13, that seems quite lightweight support, and then there are others like this that are more heavy duty. That's the type I have, and sometimes it's a bit much. There's one section that fastens under the bump, and then two further Velcro sections that can be pulled either under the bump or around the back, depending where you need the support the most. If you think they might help, I'd recommend doing some research to see which would be better for you.

@Zoey36 at least we're not the only ones, then! DH and I went through the names the other chose, and came up with 3 that we both don't hate. That's the best we've been able to do so far...

@AlviesMam you will never stop worrying, even when she is grown up and has a family of her own Flowers

MrsB16 · 11/08/2020 22:46

My friend sent me this picture today and I thought it may cheer some of us ladies up! I don’t know about anyone else but I’m really struggling in the heat!

Catching up - TTC after miscarriage part 2
BS9790 · 12/08/2020 07:22

@FireflyGirl, thanks for that, I'll have a read into those. I never really knew what they were for!
I know that my tummy muscles have separated, quite badly I think, as if I pull myself up or cough... my tummy goes into a cone shape 🙈 That's probably my own fault for not doing any form of exercise (except walking) in the last 10 years Blush

I'll deffo have a read into those bands! I'm also going to purchase a birthing ball, as I read they help you to sit with good posture (something else I'm terrible at) 😂

AlviesMam · 12/08/2020 13:39

This heat needs to go it's too much and I'm so done with it now !!!

ChampooPapi · 12/08/2020 15:12

@AlviesMam ditto 🥵

TerribleImagination · 12/08/2020 15:12

@AlviesMam It’s the pits isn’t it? I normally LOOOVE the hot sunshine, but I’m currently hiding in my living room (coolest room in the house, and actually very bearable) trying to summon motivation to walk to the shop to get stuff in for tea. I’m scared of outside. Outside is Mordor 😂

TerribleImagination · 12/08/2020 15:13

Is anyone else feeling nauseas again (or even more so) in the heat?? I had a great ‘semi normal energy levels / no nausea’ weekend, but then the hot weather hit and the nausea is back and it’s an effort peeling myself off the sofa!

AlviesMam · 12/08/2020 15:32

@TerribleImagination yes me!! Baby is also laying on my left sciatic nerve causing me so much pain which knocks me sick too so the heat is making it even worse 🤢

I've made it to the shop and back - we're having Mexican boats for tea haha and I'm currently just munching on a quinoa salad which baby seems to be enjoying ... she's been so active the last three days, like every hour, it's like she sleeps when I sleep now?! (Hope this continues outside the womb 😂)

It's back down to 16 degrees next week ,,,our week is next week girls!! Lol give me the cold air!!!!

Whiffle77 · 12/08/2020 15:33

I love the heat normally but I am so sweaty it is unreal!! Im really struggling today, my ankles are massive! Eugh! Been in the office with air con most of the week and wishing I was there today too.

TerribleImagination · 12/08/2020 21:09

@AlviesMam Ouuccch you poor thing!! I hope they’ve wriggled into another position now, to give you a break from the pain!

16 degrees??? Oooooh that’s the talk we like to hear 😂

BS9790 · 13/08/2020 08:13

Oh yesterday was a struggle, I had the fastest elephant feet 🤣 Had my hair done for the first time since end of January... 3 hours with my head covered in foils in my kitchen, wearing a mask and plastic gown... I was not winning!!
Feels a bit cooler here this morning, thankfully!

Today I have my appointment with the midwife, I've made a list of questions lol 🙈 Can't believe in 11 weeks my baby could be here!

AlviesMam · 13/08/2020 08:27

@BS9790 omg when you say only 11 weeks that freaks me out GrinGrin

Ejb86 · 13/08/2020 12:27

@Leok83 I'll only be 11+2, but it is my first proper scan.

Ljm0101 · 13/08/2020 13:12

Hi ladies just a quick update I've had my second scan there was still no heartbeat and the baby hadn't grown. We are absolutely heartbroken again and I feel like it's even worse this time 😢 anyway I just want to thank you for all of your support. Good luck with all your beautiful babies and hopefully I'll get my chance at some point. Xxxx

TerribleImagination · 13/08/2020 14:10

@Ljm0101 Oh lovey I’m so so sorry to hear that 💔 It’s just beyond unfair. Take care of each other. Sending you lots of love ❤️

Whiffle77 · 13/08/2020 15:34

Oh ljm0101 I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love, make sure you take some time out to look after yourself xxx

SunnySideUp2020 · 13/08/2020 15:35

@Ljm0101
It is truly heartbreaking. The fear of another loss is constantly with us, and i am so so sorry that you had to go through it again. ❤
Will keep you and your DP in my thoughts 💐

AlviesMam · 13/08/2020 15:49

@Ljm0101 there are no words SadDaffodilthinking of you and sending you strength xxxxxx

Annny27 · 13/08/2020 16:21

@Ljm0101 so sorry for your loss lovely :( so cruel that it has happened twice 💗

Ljm0101 · 13/08/2020 18:26

Thanks ladies xx

ChampooPapi · 13/08/2020 18:36

@Ljm0101 I'm just so sorry this is happening again to you. It's so awfully unfair. I can't imagine what you are both going through 😞

FireflyGirl · 13/08/2020 20:27

Flowers @Ljm0101, I'm so sorry this has happened to you again. Take care of yourself xx