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Early Oct babies part 4

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Treaclepie19 · 03/05/2020 07:15

Hi all! ❤

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Treaclepie19 · 10/05/2020 07:02

Thanks @Aquablue1123, thankfully there was nothing when I went to the toilet just so hoping it will be okay 🤞🤞🤞

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Zaalfruit · 10/05/2020 07:24

@Treaclepie19 - I hope you are alright - at least you went in got seen to and heard the heart beat x hopefully it will all be okay .

Me and Dh got into a huge argument yesterday and now we aren’t speaking we even made dinner separately- he just wound me up So much I have decided I won’t talk to him till he apologies to me . He pissed me off even more as he played PS4 loud until 4am with his friends .

DollyDaph10 · 10/05/2020 07:32

@Treaclepie19 Hope you’re ok! I have experienced similar and it was due to having a posterior placenta. So pleased to hear baby is doing ok!

Glitterbug86 · 10/05/2020 07:44

@Treaclepie19 sorry this happened to you, but so glad you got seen so quickly and heard babies heart beat. You poor thing, you must've got such a shock. Hope you got decent nights rest and glad to hear there hasn't been more today. I know some blood can be very "normal" but "normal"'is the last thing it feels when it happens to you. Did they have any idea what might've caused it? Hugs to you ❤️

Quiffy · 10/05/2020 07:49

@Treaclepie19 lots of ❤️ glad you got to hear heartbeat and there's no more. Hopefully just a little random bit of blood.

@Zaalfruit staying up to 4am being noisy is really rude. Hope he apologises today.

Treaclepie19 · 10/05/2020 08:09

Thanks everyone ❤
They said most likely its just a bit of cervical irritation. Just hoping that's it now and I can relax 🤞

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blankiesandunicorns · 10/05/2020 08:26

@Treaclepie19 that must have been really scary for you bleeding is unsettling at any stage isn't it, if it hasn't carried in that's reassuring and good you got to hear baby's heartbeat

Aquablue1123 · 10/05/2020 08:54

@Treaclepie19 glad you were ok today when checking. Hopefully it was just that once.

@Zaalfruit oh no, I hate arguing! I had this last weekend with my DH and it really drained me. He is so stubborn too and never apologizes ever. I hope he apologizes to you, 4am being noisy is just not on!

So, I walked my dogs this morning with DH and ended up vomiting in various places around my area 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ so embarrassing! I have no idea where it came from as I haven't been sick for a few weeks now, hoping it was a hormone surge or something.

Buzz22 · 10/05/2020 09:21

@Treaclepie19 What a worry. I'm glad you got checked out and heard babies heartbeat. I hope you managed to get some rest. Its reassuring that it has now stopped, hopefully it was just a one off. A friend of mine had some bleeding due to cervical ectroption? Very scary at the time but her pregnancy went perfectly afterwards and all is fine now.
I also experienced similar but was likely due to placenta position.

Spark27 · 10/05/2020 09:25

@Treaclepie19, must have been very scary. And I'm guessing you had to go to hosp alone? Pleased you got to hear baby and everything seems to be ok. Hopefully it's just a one off. These babies are a nonstop drama.
Hope you have a relaxing day planned and lots of rest Flowers

I hit 20w. OMG, halfway through. Woke up with a bad back. Yay!

Treaclepie19 · 10/05/2020 09:28

Thank you everyone ❤

Yeah I had to go alone. It was okay, the triage department was empty apart from me and all the staff were lovely.
It was quite a few times last night but I'm so glad it seems to have stopped.
I've got a horrible back ache though. Might be from tensing when they took the swabs 😂

Dh is just cooking me breakfast and my parents are going to do a contactless roast dinner for us later ❤

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BooMamaBear · 10/05/2020 09:33

Gish@Treaclepie19 -scary but I'm glad it's settled and baby is ok and you got to hear the heartbeat!!
@Zaalfruit -I'd be well pissed off too! Xx

LexiM · 10/05/2020 09:38

@Treaclepie19 glad you are ok and hope that is it now for the bleeding, pregnancy sure knows how to worry you doesn’t it! Hope your back ache goes away soon. All the food sounds great for today, glad you are being looked after well and the hospital were lovely, makes all the difference.

@Zaalfruit sorry to hear about your argument, I would have gone mad if I was awake til 4am listening to that!! I hope he apologises. My husband and I have had a few small arguments, mainly over really petty things. I’m easily irritated now and he’s just had enough of being stuck inside, we discuss stupid topics like something off the news and it turns into an argument about it! I expect it is hard normally when pregnant but it’s so much harder at the moment when you can’t have your space.

Happy half way @Spark27 - can’t believe that already since we started this group! I hope your back ache goes away too, mine seems to come and go all the time.

Treaclepie19 · 10/05/2020 09:41

Thank you all. They were so lovely.
The poor nurse I first saw. I cried at her 🙈
I had to walk past the suite where we lost our little boy the other year to get to triage and it just broke me thinking I was losing another baby.
She was really nice.

Having a nice restful day. Hope you're all being looked after too 💕

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Indigogirl88 · 10/05/2020 09:45

@Treaclepie19 sending lots of hugs, that must have been so scary. My friend had the irritation thing shes a few weeks behind us, she was told the same and everything is fine now Flowers

@Zaalfruit totally empathise with with ps4 thing, my dp is a gamer and plays till 3 or 4 am frequently. However I try to turn it around and have the whole bed to myself for a few hours and when he gets in and my pregnancy pillow is on his side of the bed, what's he gonna do!?

I slept for nearly 12 hours last night (with toilet breaks) and woke up with a headache I've "treated" myself to a caffeine tea
No food in for breakfast and the dogs need a walk here!

Is anyone getting bladder pressure when they have a full bladder and go to the toilet? I'm finding it pretty uncomfortable, but still trying to drink lots and go to the toilet when I need to...I googled it and it's pretty common and read the symptoms for a UTI but I dont think I've got any of them symptoms

Indigogirl88 · 10/05/2020 09:46

@Spark27 congrats on 20 weeks!! We wont be far off Grin

BooMamaBear · 10/05/2020 09:54

Wow 20w half way there!! I'm 18w today so still couple of weeks before I get there!! Xx

Treaclepie19 · 10/05/2020 10:04

Thanks @Indigogirl88 Smile
Im getting that pressure. I get it quite badly when I'm pregnant which is why I never knoe if its an infection or not.
Always worth dropping a sample off if you're unsure to check but I definitely do get the same.

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Treaclepie19 · 10/05/2020 10:05

Oh anyone who messaged about the group yesterday I've asked for you to be added so should be later today Flowers

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BooMamaBear · 10/05/2020 10:12

I replied to you in the other thread @Treaclepie19 -are you feeling ok today? Xx

Zaalfruit · 10/05/2020 10:26

@Treaclepie19 fingers crossed it’s just one off . Ahh nice roast from the parents and dh cooking you breakfast that so nice . I am an emotional wreck even reading your update made me teary. So I can’t imagine how you are feeling . Just take it easy today .

Me and dh had an argument over our sky light windows - he broke the sky light frame two years ago and doesn’t bother fixing them - he got the replacement stuff it’s been sitting on our bed room floor for weeks - we need to fix it . I told him any plans to ever fix it and give the room a lick of paint ? - his response if it bothers you so much you do it ! it weighs over 18kg I’m 5’1 I can’t even reach the handle of the window nor can I lift up And last night when he came up he made so much noise like two hammers - I think tonight if he hasn’t apologised I’m locking the bedroom he can sleep outside or on the sofa.

Treaclepie19 · 10/05/2020 10:29

@BooMamaBear I'm just really achey but okay ❤

@Zaalfruit thank you ❤ Im okay. Happy baby is okay and glad to be home with my boys.

Hope you and DH can clear the air today. Is he stressed out about anything?

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AutumnBabyWinterMummy · 10/05/2020 10:34

@Treaclepie19 I hope you're feeling ok this morning, what a worry it must have been for you. Take it easy today. Glad you got to hear the heartbeat 💓.

@Spark27 how exciting, happy 20 weeks!

BntTowers · 10/05/2020 11:20

@Treaclepie19 I'm glad you got to hear baby and things have settled down. A day of rest, including the cooked breakfast and Sunday roast sounds like it will help. Must have been so hard to go to hospital by yourself.

@Zaalfruit hopefully he apologises today. I think it sounds like he needs to do some grovelling. It might be that he is stressed with lockdown and the pregnancy, but there's no excuse to take it our on you.

I've been horribly moody recently and snapping at DH, I just keep apologising because I hear myself being so snappy. Luckily he is being understanding and isn't letting it get to him.

It's freezing here today, not sure I want to go out for our walk later now!

Treacle81 · 10/05/2020 12:07

Afternoon girls! Been working all wknd so just trying to catch up on my lunch break! With regards to DTD I last did a fortnight ago and before that was maybe a few wks too! I’m really self conscious with the increased Cm ( cervical mucus) having time wear a pantyliner and it just makes me feel v unsexy! Thankfully partner is v understanding! @Treaclepie19 you poor thing, must have got such a fright ❤️ @Spark27 congrats on halfway 🥳 My friend just had a little boy (3 wks early) so I’ll be packing hospital bag n sorting crib etc at 30 wks just to be sure, no sooner xx