Pregnant after loss and dreaming of rainbows....

[Avocuddles]

Hi,

Starting a thread for ladies in early pregnancy after one or more miscarriages or stillbirths. A safe place to let off steam and hopefully grow healthy rainbows together......

@Hagster 6wks (due 19/10/20)⁣
@tmc14 6wks (due 15/10/2020
@Aria2015 6wks
@Littlegoth 8 weeks (due 1/10/20)
@TunnocksTcake 8wks (due 01/10/20)
@HighHopes20 8wks (due 3/10/20)⁣
@Treaclepie19 8wks (due 4/10/2020)⁣
@Sunflower1608 8wks with twins⁣
@SunStruck 9wks (due 29/09/2020)
@avocuddles 9wks (due 28/09/2020)⁣
@Scout20 9wks (due 29/09/2020)
@Nooodles 8wks (due 23/09/2020)
@Hoping2020 10weeks (due 18/09/2020)
@SammiLou2312 10wks⁣ (due 20/09/2020)
@Knotemma 10 wks⁣
(due 21-09-2020)
@Seahawk80 12wks⁣
@Pugmum19 13wks (due 31/08/2020)
@Rachael321 14 wks (due 20/08/20)

Just updating myself! Lots of due dates end of Sept 😃

@Hagster 6wks (due 19/10/20)⁣
@tmc14 6wks (due 15/10/2020
@Aria2015 6wks
@Littlegoth 8 weeks (due 1/10/20)
@TunnocksTcake 8wks (due 01/10/20)
@HighHopes20 8wks (due 3/10/20)⁣
@Treaclepie19 8wks (due 4/10/2020)⁣
@Sunflower1608 8wks with twins⁣
@SunStruck 9wks (due 29/09/2020)
@avocuddles 9wks (due 28/09/2020)⁣
@Scout20 9wks (due 29/09/2020)
@Nooodles 8wks (due 23/09/2020)
@Hoping2020 10weeks (due 18/09/2020)
@SammiLou2312 10wks⁣ (due 20/09/2020)
@Knotemma 10 wks⁣
(due 21-09-2020)
@Seahawk80 12wks⁣
@Pugmum19 13wks (due 31/08/2020)
@Rachael321 14 wks (due 20/08/20)
@LilMrsS 9+4 wks (due 24 SEP)

Anyone over 9wks whos found symptoms calming/stopping but it's all been normal?

@Hagster 6wks (due 19/10/20)⁣
@seaduck 6wks (due 18/10/20)
@tmc14 6wks (due 15/10/2020
@Aria2015 6wks
@Littlegoth 8 weeks (due 1/10/20)
@TunnocksTcake 8wks (due 01/10/20)
@HighHopes20 8wks (due 3/10/20)⁣
@Treaclepie19 8wks (due 4/10/2020)⁣
@Sunflower1608 8wks with twins⁣
@SunStruck 9wks (due 29/09/2020)
@avocuddles 9wks (due 28/09/2020)⁣
@Scout20 9wks (due 29/09/2020)
@Nooodles 8wks (due 23/09/2020)
@Hoping2020 10weeks (due 18/09/2020)
@SammiLou2312 10wks⁣ (due 20/09/2020)
@Knotemma 10 wks⁣
(due 21-09-2020)
@Seahawk80 12wks⁣
@Pugmum19 13wks (due 31/08/2020)
@Rachael321 14 wks (due 20/08/20)
@LilMrsS 9+4 wks (due 24 SEP)

@LilMrsS mine seemed to calm down a bit for a few days, but are now back with a vengeance. Apparently it's normal as your hormones fluctuate, easier said than coped with in our situation x

@knotemma oh good , just weird the past two days I've actually been able to get up and put effort into getting ready for work etc then come home and take the dog for big walks.. first time in few weeks

Too scared to add myself to the list but good luck to those having scans this week.
Hope it went well today @Seahawk80

@Scout20 the food thing is really getting to me today and reminding me of my anxieties big time. I'm on holiday in France surrounded by gin, wine, soft cheese, cured meats etc etc 😭 I look up if I can have baked camembert and the fact that it even says there's a risk of listeria causing what we're all trying to avoid here, makes me have to avoid it even though it says baked is OK if hot through.
I've given up and gone to bed. Can't tell if pregnancy or anxiety or something else is causing the fatigue that's hit me this week. 😕

@Avocuddles just regular scans. Daily aspirin. I have my appointment and scan with the consultant next Monday at 6+3. They said they will discuss my treatment plan, course of injections from there, they are just waiting for my notes from the private hospital I used when I wanted answers, for my clarity. Anxious and scared!

It’s lovely to see so many of you in the second trimester! Congratulations and good luck to everyone on the list. Xx

Just realised I tagged the wrong person, sorry @Scout20, it was @SammiLou2312 talking about food 🤦‍♀️ brain fog already...

Can’t believe I’m writing this but we had a really terrible day. The scan was going fine but then they weren’t happy with the heart. Several scans later and saw 3 specialists and basically the baby has a pretty much inoperable heart condition. There is also a kidney problem which means it probably has Edwards Syndrome. Had a CVS but the dr basically already told us that the heart condition itself will be fatal. Just feel gutted and in shock. Sorry for the bad news when everyone is nervous.

@Seahawk80 I'm so sorry, I don't know what else to say. I'll admit I was getting concerned when we hadn't heard from you. I can't imagine what you're going through. Sending you lots of love and hugs to you and your family xxx

@Seahawk80 I’m so so sorry to read this. Absolutely heartbroken for you. Sending you so much love and hugs xxx 💛

@Seahawk80 I'm so so sorry to hear that. How heart breaking for you all. Share as much as you want

@Seahawk80 I am so so sorry to hear that, you're absolutely in our thoughts and sending you so much love. Look after yourself.

I'm so very sorry @Seahawk80.
If you need anyone to talk to who has been in a similar situation, I've been there (and lots of us on here)
I'll be thinking of you xxx

@Seahawk80 I'm so sorry to hear this. Heartbroken for you. My thoughts are with you and your partner

So sorry to hear that @Seahawk80. Hope you have some good support around you right now. Xx

Thinking of you and your partner @Seahawk80 look after each other x

@Seahawk80 so so very sorry to hear your news Hun. Sending you all the love and virtual hugs I have x

I’m so sorry @Seahawk80 no words can help but I’m thinking of you xx

Sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you both xx

@Seahawk80 I'm so sorry, it is so unfair 😢 you deserved a happy 12 week scan more than anything. We're here for you just to talk if you need ❤️ sending love and thoughts to you and your DH ❤️

@Seahawk80 so, so sorry to hear about your sad scan outcome. There are no appropriate words but am thinking of you and hope that you are looking after yourself and have lots of support around you xx

@Seahawk80 so sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you and sending lots of love

@Seahawk80 I’m so sorry, thinking of you xxx