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A thread for early first timers...

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MrsB19 · 07/11/2018 07:20

Hi all,

Starting this thread in case anyone else whose early on with their first baby wanted to chat, and share experiences so far...

I’m having my first baby, and I’m 5wks +1, so early days! I’m having some symptoms (extreme tiredness, sore boobs, new hatred for prawn crackers 😂, headaches and terrible bloating). I’m an absolute nervous wreck about losing the baby, to which my husband tells me I have to try and think positive (and he’s right) but it’s such a worry! I take a test every 4-5 days to check (even though I know that’s not going to help)! We’ve booked in for a private early scan at 7+1 to check if everything’s okay.

Has anyone else booked in for an early scan? It feels like the wait to 12 weeks is totally unbearable!

How are all your symptoms & how are you all feeling?

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Spargle · 07/11/2018 08:05

I’m 7+3, and have woken up feeling kind of human, which is a bit worrying. This morning (ha!) sickness has been kicking my arse, but whenever it’s not there in the morning I worry. (Whenever it goes away later in that day it’s such a relief that worry is the furthest thing from my mind!)

Other than that, I don’t really have that many symptoms. I feel so ill a lot of the time that I hardly do anything at all, and I’m getting enough sleep so I’m not really that tired (I often wake up at 5.20 and need to eat breakfast, but I’m normally back asleep by 8, and my current self-employed status has had me off work the last two weeks, and on holiday this week - first one all year! So I’ve got the opportunity for lie-ins, but no money!). My boobs are sometimes uncomfortable and now actually fill my bra, and I am Very Specific about what I can and can’t eat. Also, when I’ve eaten a thing I always feel ill not long afterwards, so my body thinks it’s that thing which made me feel ill, and I lose another thing I can eat. I’m not pushing it because I don’t want any permanent food aversions! But I’m bored with what I’m eating! And I’m sometimes ravenous, but my stomach has shrunk so much because it keeps refusing food that I become over-full very quickly and have to lie down with my arms above my head to relieve the pressure on my stomach, sometimes while still feeling hungry?!

I was worried about a possible ectopic pregnancy a couple of weeks ago, and had a scan on that NHS at 6+1. It provided a certain amount of reassurance - I’m much happier about the random uncomfortable bits in my lower abdomen now that I’ve seen it’s in the right place. It was also flickering, which I assume meant it had a heartbeat, although she didn’t say so specifically. It’s sad that there was only one, because I want more than one child, but I can’t imagine having the resources to go through this again, especially while looking after a child.

Anyway, you’ll be pleased to hear that the morning sickness is returning (I’m kicking myself for being so ungrateful for the reprieve), so I must go and fail to eat much breakfast - this hunger needs to be satisfied right now! Dammitt.

I hope that you don’t go mad waiting for the scan. You do have a very high probability of everything being fine - when you get pregnant, a healthy baby is the most likely outcome.

Onwards! To cornflakes!

gimmeadoughnut123 · 07/11/2018 08:27

Hi! I'm 7+4 at the mo. Congrats on your pregnancy!
Aah my symptoms. A week ago I dared to say 'I don't feel too unwell so maybe I'll be lucky and not get that'. I jinxed it. I am EXHAUSTED, nauseous all day, my boobs are killing me.
The only food I can stomach is junk food that is sweet. Hooray for being fat.

I had an early scan. We didn't know my dates as I have a very long cycle. They dated me at 6+1. By doing an internal scan, we saw baby, the gestational yolk and a heartbeat. It was very emotional and lovely to see. I couldn't cope waiting until 12w!

RMarieClaire · 07/11/2018 08:31

Can I join? I'm 6+2 according to GP (although based one when I ovulated I'm 5 weeks). I have slightly sore boobs but otherwise zilch symptoms. I've taken 9 tests (I know!) because I keep worrying I'm mistaken and not actually pregnant 🤦‍♀️

We've got an appointment with the midwife on Monday and I'm going to ask advice on paying for a private scan - just to be sure there's something in there :)

Odd thing is I've had very strong results - I got a positive on a CB test at 8dpo which I hear is rare. So if the hormones aren't strong, not sure why I fee normal.

I know if sickness does kick in I will regret resenting this time!

MrsB19 · 07/11/2018 17:17

Spargle - blimey, that ‘morning’ sickness sounds pretty awful! I’m dreading that. Especially as I’m not sure how easily I can get away with throwing up in the loo at work (paper thin walls!) so I’m hoping it won’t be too bad (wishful thinking!). What could you see on your scan?

gimmeadoughnut123- congrats to you too!! I’m a carbaholic at the moment! I know how you feel about junk food! Exhaustion is awful isn’t it? I’m literally spending my day through work yawning, it’s almost bordering on rude- especially during meetings- but I could literally sleep all day. Your scan sounds a lovely experience - are you waiting til 12wks for your next one now?

RMarieClaire- of course! Congrats! That’s interesting, I use the Flo app and it predicted my ovulation day. I’m hoping im not out too much as I’ve booked a scan for 7 weeks and don’t want to risk not seeing what I want to (or more specifically hearing it!) did your doctor say why the dates didn’t match up? Enjoy feeling normal ☺️ Hopefully it will last! I’m a really ‘sicky’ person so I’m dreading the 6 week mark....😂

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Kayleigh121 · 07/11/2018 19:11

Hi al.

Firstly Congratulations on your pregnancies!

I am currently 9+6 according to the midwife and the Ovia app. This is my second pregnancy as first one ended in mmc found out at 10+2 but baby measured 8+6. I too have been testing every 5-7 days in case they turn negative. I have had sickness, tiredness, headaches, sore boobs etc but the sickness has gone now feel sick every now and again but nothing like it was (hopefully this is a good thing for me and nothing bad happening) I have a scan on Monday making me 10+4 and I’m hoping everything is going to be OK! My other half also tells me to be positive as this pregnancy is completely different to the first so I have my fingers and toes crossed!

Good luck all 😊

RMarieClaire · 07/11/2018 19:37

@MrsB19 I didn't ovulate till day 23 of a 32 day cycle, but they take it from day one of last period. It's all very confusing! I'm hoping the midwife doesn't change it because on the doctors timings we will hopefully be able to have a scan pre Christmas. Would love to give a pic to my in-laws as a surprise on Christmas morning :)

@gimmeadoughnut123 - gosh that sounds awful! Try to enjoy the days you feel good!

RMarieClaire · 07/11/2018 19:38

@Kayleigh121 - so sorry to hear about your MC. Fx the scan is clear and everything is perfect for you

ForTheLoveOfDoughnuts · 07/11/2018 19:59

Hi

Is it okay if I join? I'm roughly 5 weeks pregnant with my first. Had cramps a few times over the last couple of days. No bleeding thought, so I'm hoping thats okay. I've had really painful nipples.

No sickness or nausea. Really wouldn't believe I was pregnant if I hadn't had 3 positive tests.

I've got my booking in appointment a week today. Really nervous!

Spargle · 07/11/2018 22:05

I’m not really a sicky person, and I’ve not actually been sick yet. I did have a bit of time on the bathroom floor on Saturday morning, but that passed without incident, thankfully.

Actually, I’ve been feeling a lot better today. This evening I didn’t even have to take off half of my clothes to be vaguely comfortable! And I’ve eaten three (half) meals! I’m assuming this is just a fluctuation in symptoms, hopefully because I’m on holiday. It’s so amazing to be a full step away from feeling sick!

The scan just showed a very blurry flicker in the right place. I think maybe baby is made of pixels? I said I was 6+1, and the lady doing the scan didn’t say otherwise. DH couldn’t be there so I was going to buy a copy of the scan, but it wasn’t clear enough to make out an actual baby. The scanning lady said “you’re just going to have to trust me that that little flickering bit is a baby” (or words to that effect).

mrsed1987 · 07/11/2018 22:36

Hi ladies. Im 28 + 2. Sp far had limited issues which is fab! Had sore boobs at the begining then a few days of heart burn on and off. I get a bit of leg cramping at night but thats about it!

Very exciting

mrsed1987 · 07/11/2018 22:37

My bad! Didnt see it was for early first timers haha. Ignore me

MrsB19 · 08/11/2018 09:07

Hi @ForTheLoveOfDoughnuts - congratulations! Wow, that’s an early booking appt, my midwife wouldn’t see me until after 8 weeks! Hope it goes well!

@Spargle glad you’re feeling okay! Great that the scan was all as should be, they are so small at the moment so it must be difficult to see.

@RMarieClaire I see what you mean about the dates. I’ve tracked my cycle for 18months so I’m really hoping I’m not too out on my dates, but I know bodies will do whatever they want. I’m worried I won’t see anything if I was later than I thought but I can’t stomach any more waiting! I saw your other thread about private scans- if you do have one, let us know how it goes!

I’m struggling at work at the moment, I’m trying to work from home a bit more to avoid travelling (I have long commutes), as it just makes me so exhausted!

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RMarieClaire · 08/11/2018 21:45

@ForTheLoveOfDoughnuts - we sound about the same in terms of days. I haven't had any sickness either, nor nausea. Although I have been craving ginger beer - think that's just because I can't have wine though!

Let me know if/when you get any symptoms!

Delilah7 · 08/11/2018 22:10

Congratulations to everyone on this thread! Hope I can join. Pregnant again (5weeks and 2 days) after MC in August. Absolutely shitting a brick. Early scan next Thursday so will be 6 weeks and a few days. Bloods the next two Fridays. However more symptoms than I had last one. SORE as shit boobs, nausea, bloating! X x

Sparkles1992 · 08/11/2018 22:40

Congrats Smile I'm 14 weeks now with my first and had an early scan at 6+5, it was really reassuring and worth the money as I couldn't wait until my 12 week scan. I've had that now and find out what I'm having next week! It seems to be going quick now but the morning sickness hasn't gone away Confused I was so nervous at first too, but mainly for the labour but as times going on I'm getting more excited than anything! Good luck Smile

cowchickenduckdog · 09/11/2018 11:41

Hello all! I'm 11 +2 this will be my first and I'm 38 (39 when baby is here) so geriatric lol I feel really rough. Nausea all day every day, tiredness, extreme bloating to name but a few symptoms lol I don't think my body can think of any more!! I had IVF so know exactly when I should be due - 29th May! I really can't wait but still bricking it as I have no idea what I'm doing lol!!!

Delilah7 · 09/11/2018 12:19

@Sparkles1992 did you see the heartbeat??thank you. Good luck! Xx

purplestar9 · 09/11/2018 13:19

@Delilah7 yay congratulations!!

I hope I'm not too late to join, as I'm 15 weeks today, but this is my first :)
I waited for the 12 week mark to have my first scan (felt like forever to wait!) but I found out all is going well and we got a lovely photo. Next midwife appt booked but she wants me to bring it forward so my next task is to phone the surgery (and wait on hold for ages!) to move the appt!
My next scan is booked for 17th December!

Delilah7 · 09/11/2018 13:22

@purplestar9 hi lovely!!! That's fine fast. I'm 5 weeks and 3 days.. scan next Thursday as I'm obviously shitting a brick!!! Xx

purplestar9 · 09/11/2018 13:37

@Delilah7 I can imagine. I'm sure everything will be just fine this time :)
Midwife appointment has been moved so it's now on Wednesday. I know, at first it felt like it was dragging but at the same time I can't quite believe I'm 15 weeks! Haha.

ForTheLoveOfDoughnuts · 09/11/2018 13:39

@RMarieClaire I felt sick this morning.. I'm going to sound stupid now, but I think I did. I'm not sure if my mind is playing tricks on me or not?

I definitely can't wait till 12 weeks for a scan. Does everyone get a dating scan? Or just straight in at when they think you'll be 12 weeks? Thinking of going for a private scan in a couple of weeks. I feel like I need more proof than the 3 tests I've done

Itsallwhite · 09/11/2018 16:35

Hi all we just found out this morning! I'm in Shock and DH is so excited. I think we are 5 +6. I've had some pains low, below the hips on both sides. I hope this is normal. We are booked in at the doctors next Friday but I dont think they do anything, don't they just refer you to see the midwife? Im more emotional but that's it really. I hope your your morning sickness passes soon that sounds horrible

CLSMammy · 09/11/2018 17:48

I'm very very early stages (4+2) of my first pregnancy. This was our third month trying. I had totally written off this month but when my period didn't come 2 days later I tested positive. I was very excited that first day but now I'm just in disbelief. I keep waiting to see blood when I go to the toilet. I'm so sure things are going to go wrong. I feel like a fraud and that I can't even talk about it yet even to my husband because it's so early it's barely even real. I want to be excited but also know nothing is certain at the moment. How did you cope with this?

RMarieClaire · 09/11/2018 21:04

@ForTheLoveOfDoughnuts - oh me too! Queasy when I woke up. And a bit short of breath all morning. But I'm almost definitely overanalysing! 🤦‍♀️

RMarieClaire · 09/11/2018 21:05

Oh and I just booked a scan for 7+4 - I've done 10 tests (I know!) and it's still not enough

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