More cake for more babies... BFP after MC

[Cakelaur]

Here we go ladies...

This is what it is so we heat it ourselves with wood but I think that's best I'll dangle my legs in :) x

@Wiggle4 Oh man you poor thing! It's so hard not to keep worrying without people's inappropriate comments to contend with as well. Really feel for you. Hope you're ok x

@Alicejj8x that’s what I did on a spa day when pregnant. I think baths over 34 degrees aren’t recommended and jacuzzi/steam rooms not as they stay at a constant hot temp

Thanks @Cakelaur @Athers666 @Primrose16 and @Patienceofatoddler I wouldn't ever comment on the size of someone's bump but I guess that's unfortunately due to having gone through it. I look like I've just put on a spare tyre round my middle haha.

Scan in a few days, hopefully it will put my mind at rest again!

@Alicejj8x yeah I think the guidance says over 34 is a no no. We went to a friend's with a hot tub at the weekend that was 37 degrees, I literally dipped myself in and then sat with my legs dangled in haha

Thanks ladies :) i dipped my legs in for about 5 mins then watched from
The side :)

Luckily we can control the temp of the water but still didn't want to take the risk

I have a hen do
In July and we're meant to be off to bath spa ... is s swimming pool ok
To
Get into or. ??

Hi Wiggle4 just wanted to check in with you, how are you feeling now?

You've got to ignore people, they just don't know what they're on about. I'm following the gest diabetes diet and people at work with the best of intentions keep telling me what I should be eating, they're so wrong!!!

Is anyone else still napping? I'm almost 15 weeks. Vomming has stopped.

@peachesarenom Totally still napping! Certainly haven't had a second trimester surge of energy yet, lol. I guess I am actually a bit less bone crushingly exhausted but still spend most of my time when not at work dozing!

Hi @peachesarenom, I am feeling a little better thank you. Had a completely hormone fuelled, tearful and depressed day yesterday following the stupid comment but have been better today. Just can't wait for the scan on Wednesday now.
Wow-almost 15 weeks-that exciting x

I am tired but I'm also sleeping really badly so I think that's why! I feel like I'm up most the night peeing or worrying haha.

I'm glad I'm not the only one Athers666!

I know what you mean about hormones Wiggle4 they fuelled some preggo rage towards DH earlier this week but it was also his fault. When it comes to worry, I just told myself that me worrying doesn't help things not go wrong, it really helped me take one day at a time x

Swimming pools are fine @Alicejj8x

Still need naps here, when I can get them. Not as bad as first trimester though. Almost 16 weeks.

Morning ladies! Sorry I haven't posted recently. We are telling family this weekend. I don't like lying to them or not telling them when we see them so we decided to do it this weekend. Today we are telling my sister and her DH and then tomorrow my parents, my brother and his DW.

I'm really nervous about it actually. It's been 3 months since the MMC so I expect they will know we might be trying again. I just feel guilty that I'm not excited and I don't want them to be excited either just in case the same thing happens again. I also don't really have any reassuring symptoms.

Last time we told them we gave them a CB test in a pen box and made them open it. We were all so excited. This time it's just going to be a... "Don't get excited yet but we're pregnant again" announcement. Part of me just feels sad that we aren't excited but how can we be?

Did anyone else feel like this? How did family react when you told them? I'm worried they will be excited anyway and I won't know how to react. We want them to know in case the same thing happens again and I need the support.

@SpongeBobGrannyPants thank you :)

@RedRobin7 don't feel guilty about not being excited it's completely understandable.

If it feels right tell them and don't worry it's your news to say in the way which feels right for you.

At what point have others told their family?

We havnt told anyone yet I think after 12 week scan il tell my closest family

@RedRobin7 we told my family last week, much sooner than we told them the last 2 times. Partly because my whole family were together which is rare and partly because I’m so worried something will go wrong and I really didn’t want to tell them bad news without them ever having the good new first (iyswim). Last 2 times we did a whole exciting reveal but this time it was just ‘oh before you all leave, we’re pregnant,’ very low key. It was actually lovely to see them all excited even though I’m just a ball of nervousness.
I also don’t have any symptoms except slightly sore boobs sometimes and feeling a bit ‘wobbly’ first thing in the morning so I’m totally convinced that it’ll be bad news at my early scan next Friday (7+2).
Fingers crossed we both have healthy pregnancies and can start to enjoy them at some point 🤞

OMG! Pink when I wipe at 15 weeks. I hope ot's not the worst happening.

@peachesarenom I've had this a few times.
Generally around the time that my period would be due. Just take it easy babe. But at 15 weeks we're pretty safe now. So you may have just over done it. Keep us posted! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Patienceofatoddler You're right, thank you.

@rdm10 I know what you mean, it's much harder to share bad news if the good news was never given. I see it the same way. My sister and her DH reacted well (by not being overly excited) as they had a MC before their DD so they know what it's like.

It's hard not to be paranoid but hopefully we'll be reassured by those first scans. Fingers crossed for us both 🤞

@peachesarenom Hope you're ok, thinking of you xx

@peaches when I wore a party liner yesterday my discharge looked pink although I'm not 100% , it was that light in colour hope your ok x

Thanks everyone, had a scan about 3am. All good. No idea what the bleed was due to.

@peachesarenom Glad the scan showed everything is okay!

@peachesarenom glad baby's ok xx

@peachesarenom glad you and baby are ok! Everything is such a worry! X

I'm still bleeding though. cake how long did yours last? Was it more than spotting?

How's everyone doing in this heat?..

My nausea has been bad today on and off not been sick but feeling sick and then feeling
Ok etc etc

Has anyone else's boobs feel very tender and almost bruised? And feeling abit bruised around the hip area?