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SOooooooooo nervous, please cross your fingers for me at 11.30

391 replies

PeckaRolloverAgain · 20/12/2006 10:38

Im having a scan to see if we can see a heartbeat or if there has been no growth

I have about a 50/50 chance I SO hope that its good news.

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popsycal · 21/12/2006 22:47

pecka - just to repeat
you know where i am
dh is off work all weekend so can be around to help etc if you need me
xxxx

paulaplumpbottom · 21/12/2006 22:53
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PeckaRolloverAgain · 21/12/2006 23:23

ok, im starting to mildly panic here

i have a pain but not even that painful to be honest but it is alarming me slightly

its a bit like a stitch but feels a bit high for it to be pregnancy related

im just panicking a little as dh is on nights so im home alone with 2 kids

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Harry2007 · 21/12/2006 23:27

Pecka,

Although I haven't posted on your thread before, I have been keeping up to date with your story. I'm not much help as I've never been in your situation, but I m thinking of you and hope everything's going to be ok.

As for the pain, perhaps lulumama or one of the other MN experts will be able to help.

Sorry I can't give you any advice - would dh be able to come home if the pain gets any worse?

paulaplumpbottom · 21/12/2006 23:30

Try to stay calm. Can your Mom or a neighbor come over and sit with you? It might make you feel better

PeckaRolloverAgain · 21/12/2006 23:34

i think ill go to bed, i think im probably just over analysing out of fear.

i will take the phone with me just in case

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Harry2007 · 21/12/2006 23:39

Try and get some sleep - if you can't, just log back on if you want some company - I'll be here for a while (Pregnancy Insomnia!)

tutu100 · 22/12/2006 00:21

Pecka, I don't want to sound too alarming, but if you are getting any pain anywhere please phone the hospital. If it is an ectopic pregnancy you can get referred pain in places where you wouldn't expect it. Please get it checked. Still thinking of you. Good Luck.

ItalianJob · 22/12/2006 00:27

hope you are OK pecka, if you still feel rough probably a good idea to give the hospital a call as tutu said.

mummy23 · 22/12/2006 01:26

Pecka, i have be following your thread but never posted (i dont think anyway), maybe try and get in touch with dh and let him know you have had a pain, and let him know you will contact him if you need to!

Hopefully you will have a good night rest and feel ok in the morning

(((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))to you

missnatalie · 22/12/2006 03:01

hi pecker i have just come across your thread and just wanted to send you a hug as if your pregnancy is ectopic (which i hope it isnt)i know exactly what you are going through.

i lost my pregnancy on 28/11 as it was ectopic. my hcg levels were rising slowly but not doubling and i also had a brown, stringy discharge. i went to a&e and they did a blood test. at this point i was roughly 5 weeks pregnant and the hcg level was 141. the dr in a&e arranged for me to go to the epu just over 2 days later (56 hours) for another blood test. the 2nd blood test came back at a level of 226 and the nurse in the epu said that everything was fine and sometimes in some pregnancies the levels dont double. she sent me away with a scheduled scan for 20/12.

a few days later i started with a slight pain on my right side. i didnt really think anything of it as it wasnt severe, just felt felt like cramp but over the next 2 days the pain got worse. by the 3rd day the pain was unbearable. i went to a&e who did a scan. at 1st they couldnt see anything and i demanded a vaginal scan. this time they did see something but wasnt 100% sure that it was my baby.

as i was in so much pain they admitted me into hospital for further tests.

i had been on the ward for no more than 20mins and i was screamng in agony. drs didnt waste any timr and rushed me to theatre. they then found that my tube had ruptured and they removed it. i had to have a blood transfusion as id lost between 5 and 6 pints.

once i came back round from the op they told me that it was touch and go for a while.

the whole experience has terrified me and reading your thread brought back how it all started for me.

if your cramping gets any worse please go to a&e straight away and if they cant find anything on a scan demand a vaginal one. that was the advise given to me from a lady on mn called aitchwooh she was fantastic and gave me loads of advise. she probably even saved my life. its better to be safe.

i so hope and pray that your pregnancy will be fine and that im just talking a load of rubbish. and i am very sorry if i have scared you. i just wanted to share my story with you.

as merrypiffmas said have a look on www.ectopic.org website. theres trained people there who will be able to give you more advise.

once again i am sorry if i have scared you.

ive got everything crossed for you. xxx

BrandyTutter · 22/12/2006 07:36

good luck this morning

i very much hope it isn't ectopic, but if it is then at least you're being closely monitored and i hope they manage it before a rupture

echo others' words about looking at www.ectopic.org - the ladies and nurse advisors on the message boards there were life savers for me when i had my ectopic back in 2003

good luck x

lulumama · 22/12/2006 07:57

thinking of you pecka....

merrylissiemas · 22/12/2006 10:03

hi pecka, worried about you hope everything goes ok. big hug

LetitShnowLetitShnowLetitShnow · 22/12/2006 10:33

Another one thinking of you this morning pecka...

merrylissiemas · 22/12/2006 10:49

bumping for pecka

Harry2007 · 22/12/2006 11:16

How are you this morning pecka?

merrylissiemas · 22/12/2006 11:36

bump

mumofmonstersNotActuallyHere · 22/12/2006 11:38

another one who hasn;t posted as nothing useful to say but wondering how u were doing

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merrylissiemas · 22/12/2006 11:57

bit worried, anyone heard from pecka?

popsycal · 22/12/2006 11:57

i have her number

think i will ring her

merrylissiemas · 22/12/2006 11:58

everythings prob ok....

LetitShnowLetitShnowLetitShnow · 22/12/2006 11:59

I really hope she's alright and just has more important things on her mind than a bunch of women on the Interent worrying about her...

merrylissiemas · 22/12/2006 12:15

me too