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SOooooooooo nervous, please cross your fingers for me at 11.30

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 20/12/2006 10:38

Im having a scan to see if we can see a heartbeat or if there has been no growth

I have about a 50/50 chance I SO hope that its good news.

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popsycal · 31/12/2006 19:06

pecka
what are yuo doing on tues?
ir wed? i will only have ds2 for paer of wed (not sure which part yet)and woykd love to see you xx

ShowOfHands · 31/12/2006 19:14

Pecka m'love if I were you I would be throwing tins of food at your DH. In fact I'm sure plenty of us will line up to throw them at him for you.

I'm joking obviously (well half joking really). I agree with what others have said, he needs to realise exactly what is going on with you. This 'bury head in sand, get on with it, pretend it's not happening' mentality never works and you've been let down enough by the medical profession without him doing the same. I'm glad you've written it down on the ectopic site, it will help enormously with the healing process.

Keep talking on here and know that lots of people are thinking about you and your much wanted pregnancy. I wish you a very peaceful new year and lots of love for some happier times ahead.

merrylissiemas · 01/01/2007 13:17

pecka, i hope that 2007 is a better year for you. thinking of you

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 01/01/2007 15:29

can anyone reassure me that its ok to still feel so weak, dizzy and lightheaded.

feel really rotten

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popsycal · 01/01/2007 18:36

i ho[e thqt yousee youe gp in the morning
xxx

mummytosteven · 01/01/2007 21:37

pecka - I agree with popsy. you could feel like that because of afer effects of the general anaesthetic or because you are bit anaemic, but I am sure there are plenty of other reasons, so get the Gp to check you out tomorrow.

mummytosteven · 01/01/2007 21:37

pecka - I agree with popsy. you could feel like that because of afer effects of the general anaesthetic or because you are bit anaemic, but I am sure there are plenty of other reasons, so get the Gp to check you out tomorrow.

popsycal · 01/01/2007 21:39

o have nto heard from pecka via text toay but she often has no credit so i am trying not to worry

she did some 'illegal texting' from hospital last tome so i am sure if she was in hospital with credit that she would text

xxx

lulumama · 01/01/2007 21:40

spoke to her on MSN around teatime, advised her to call NSH direct, or go to the gynae ward and be checked out urgently..esp to ensure she is not anaemic...as she has been feeling so rotten..

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 01/01/2007 21:41

im still here feeling dreadful but really trying to avoid going back in

hospital said i had open access to ward and to ring if i didnt feel right but if i ring i know they will want me to go in and i just cant face it

im hoping its just after affects of the general.

just feel so weak and shaky

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lulumama · 01/01/2007 21:42

there you go !

popsycal · 01/01/2007 21:49

bloody hell pecka
please ring them
i know you dont want to go back in
can you not go to rake lane instead?
will they insist you go back to rvi?

really urge you to get checked

mummytosteven · 01/01/2007 22:05

if you feel dreadful, then you do need to get checked out, use that number!

lulumama · 01/01/2007 22:23

agree..can;t take chances with your health x

Frostythesurfmum · 01/01/2007 22:45

Pecka, you've had invasive surgery. Don't even think about going back to work yet. And I agree, if you aren't feeling right, give them a ring. I had the same op as you - laparoscopy and D&C and didn't feel weak and shaky after. Just a bit sore where they'd gone in my tummy. Sorry, I don't want to worry you.

Take care x

Oh and a kick in the shins for your dh too .

Rosylily · 02/01/2007 09:39

Pecka, look after yourself. Eat plenty of good food, lots of fluid, rest. Accept all help and support. You will be strong again soon. Its good to let people help you, it makes them feel good so you are doing them a favour really

popsycal · 02/01/2007 12:57

pecka how are things todasy

merrylissiemas · 02/01/2007 13:48

how are you feeling today pecka?

popsycal · 02/01/2007 19:00

bimp

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 02/01/2007 19:05

Hi

Feel much the same as yesterday, only maybe slightly better. Feel a bit less wiped out. Just need to give in to the need to recover and stop trying to be normal again.

Cant wait for friday now just so I know its all resolved.

Had quite a few pulling pains down low on the left but presuming thats where they have been looking.

Thanks for all of your concern.

Popsy, im just staying in tomorrow - if you wanted to your welcome to come round xxx

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StrawberrySnowflakes · 02/01/2007 19:11

hiya Pecka, i know im no help and am just one in a long line, but i am thinking of you.hope youre taking more time off to recover.best wishes from me honey.x

popsycal · 03/01/2007 14:31

how are youtoday

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PeckaRolloverAgain · 03/01/2007 15:04

i think i have turned a corner today, feeling much less dazed and more like myself. still feel a bit shaky and sore but hopefully this is the beginning of the end

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lissielou · 03/01/2007 15:27

oh pecka im so sorry that youve had to go thru this. whats your appt on fri?

popsycal · 03/01/2007 17:14

gld you are feeling a bot better pecka