We're posifrickintive! Another posifrickintivity thread for pregnancy after miscarriage #2

[Treaclepie19]

For all the lovely ladies who are pregnancy after miscarriage! :)

How'd you get on Macerick?

Maverick sorry - silly phone!

Thanks guys - phoned the EPU and they have booked me in to see the consultant and have a scan on Friday. Of course now I'm starting to worry as apart from feeling very tired last week, sore boobs etc symptoms seem to haveeased off a bit....which is what happened before my last mc. Trying to be positive but it's not easy!

Thanks Sunbathing

Today.....I am pregnant!

Hi everyone, I am really struggling with the wait between 13-16 weeks.... I am so scared of something going wrong, up to 12 weeks I didn't really 'connect' with the pregnancy but now I have seen the little bean I feel so much more invested. The cervix issue is also worrying me, I see a consultant at 17 weeks but what if that is too late? Will this apprehension ever end!?

I like that sunbathing, the odds are in our favour :)

I wish I had some advice for you happy but I don't know much about it so will send you a hug instead x

Anyone got any cures for wind pain?

Thanks treacle I have some advice for you though re: trapped wind (an evil curse. Peppermint tea helps, as does moving around a bit, bouncing on an exercise ball helps. Getting on your hands and knees and putting your head on the floor and bum in the air. Getting your oh to gently rub your tummy. Basically you need to move the air to somewhere it can escape so basically jiggling about a bit. I feel your pain, I find it terrifying sometimes how much it hurts! Sometimes a warm bath helps too

Thank you :)
I've been drinking peppermint tea, I'll have a go at moving around and rubbing my tummy. It's getting so painful :(

baby she is beautiful!

A warm bath helps too - it really blooming hurts doesn't it?!

It does :(
I have ibs anyway so used to it now and then but it's getting to be everyday.

Hi boozle, i have an appointment on wed for a scan, unfortunately the brown stuff has become blood now so its not looking too good, just have to get through today, if it is a m/c I wonder if anyone has any suggestions as to what I should be asking in prep for a future pregnancy? Eg hormone levels etc

Maverick thats really hard. Especially having to wait another day to find out what's going on. I didn't have any hormone tests etc but after number three I was put on progesterone, prednisolone (an anti-immunity steroid) and heparin. All precauctionry as I got a BFP before they could do any tests. One of them seems to have worked though as I'm currently 20 weeks. Bless you, fingers crossed it's nothing. I had bledding all through the first 12 weeks of this one and it was horrendous. Absoloutely horrendous, I had a small blood pool in the bottom of my uterus which was leaking out. Completely harmless but terrifying for anyone with a history. Hopefully it's somrhing like that. If it is they may give you progrsterone to help support the pregnancy. Sending you hugs xx

Maverick I'm so sorry to hear that but as Boozle says there can be lots of causes of bleeding so I hope you get answers tomorrow.

Hi all, sorry for the long absence.
baby that's a super-cute photo! So sweet and a lovely name! Enjoy! x
llama congrats on the great scan. I love your scan pic too, really cute and... regular iykwim.
Welcome allthefours and congrats boozle on a great scan too! Here comes your stats update. (I think it took me until 16-20 weeks to add myself too)

Blankfornames: 1 MC at 6 weeks. EDD of DC1 19th February 2015
BadgersInTheSlurryLagoon: 1MMC, 2MC, EDD 24 Feb 2015
Davidtenantsmistress: 4MC, 2MMC, 2DS, EDD 27th February 2015
Silverine: 31, no DCs, 1 MMC at 10 weeks, 1 MC at 8 weeks, 1 CP/early MC; EDD 1 March 2015
HollyBen: MC (10 weeks), DD, MC (9 weeks), EDD 2nd March 2015
Tannyloo: 2 DS (14 & 2.5), 4MC (1BO), 1 MMC, EDD 3rd March 2015
Missmakesstuff: 1 mc, edd 23 March 2015
Ilovechops, 1MC,1MMC,1DD, EDD 24 March 2015
Littlemissy12345: 1DD, 2mc, EDD 25 March 2015
FloreneceandZebede: 1 ds (2y9mths) 1 mmc Feb 14, EDD 25 March 2015
Suzybean: 38, 1 DS age 5, mmc Feb 13, mc March 14. EDD 12th April 2015
Psmith: 1 MP, 1 MC, EDD April 23rd 2015
OneDayLikeThis2013: 27, no DCs, MMC June 2014, EDD 26 April 2015
Haily111: dc3, mc May, EDD 5 May 2015
Mslad: 33, no dc, mmc June 2014, edd 18 May 2015
ToriB34: 34, no DC, mmc in July, EDD 29th May 2015
Longestlurkerever: 1dd, 2mc, 1mmc, EDD 30 May 2015
SunbathingCat: 35, no DCs, mmc in May, EDD 13 June 2015
WrappedInABlankie: 1 DS, ectopic 3/14, EDD 22 June 2015
Phryn: Age 32, no DC, mc in Aug 14, EDD 6th June 2015
Thesmallbear: 33, 1 MMC in June 2014, EDD 2nd July 2015
Boozle: 1NMC, 2MMC, 1DD, EDD: 4th July 2015
sarahlou20: 35, no DC, 1 MMC, EDD 9th July 2015
ThePurplegiraffe: 36, 1dd, 1 mc in Sep, EDD 11th July
Ibelieveinpink: 31, mc, mc, dd1, edd 12 July 2015
Ignominious: DD, MMC in August, EDD 12th July 2015
Broodylicious: 36, 1 dd, 1 mc at 12 weeks on feb 27, EDD 20 July 2015
Thegirlwiththebrokensmile: 28, 1 dd age 2, 2 mc, 1mmc, EDD 23rd July 2015
Charlieis30: ttc #1 MC Feb 14 7.5w, MC Aug 14 9w (trisomy), EDD 26 Jul 15
Littlelady33: ttc #1, mmc March 13 and 14, EDD 25th July 2015
Happygojo: 28, no DC, MMC September 2014 (blighted ovum), EDD 10th August 2015
Daisysunshine: 23, no dc, TTC 14 months, 1mc sept '14, EDD 10th August 2015
enviousllama: 33, 1DS (2y 5m), 1MMC (Nov '14), EDD 7th Sept 2015
CommanderShepard: 32, 1 DD via EMCS, 1 MC December 2014 (5 wks), EDD 20th September 2014
Treaclepie19: 24, 1 mc in May 2014 at 8+4, EDD 20th September 2015
worriedmum100: 39, 1 DS (nearly 4). 2 MCs around 6 w (June 2010 and Feb 2014), 1 MMC (July 2014 at 9 w). Also have endometriosis & Ashermans Syndrome. EDD 24 September
Maverick79: 35, MC July 2014 (6wks), EDD 27th Sep 2015

Need updates:
AddictedToRadley: 1 DS (5.7yrs), 13 MCs inc DS's twin, EDD 8th Feb 2015

Thread Babies:

Jessw25 Baby Oliver born 9 July 2013, 5lb 11oz
BobaFetaCheese Baby Alexander born 30 July 2013, 7lb 4oz
Andadietcoke twin girls born 29 August 2013, Charlotte 5lb 5oz & Sophie 7lb 13oz
Pentagon baby Elsie born 23 October 2013, 7lb 5oz
Bodicea baby James born 3 November 2013, 8lb
Ibelieveinpink baby Imogen born 14 November 2013, 7lb 4oz
BumpKitty baby Matilda born 18 Nov 2013, 8lb 2oz
Luckysocks13 baby Charlotte born 24 Nov 2013, 8lb
Jmf294 baby Alexander James born 25 Nov 2013, 7lb 4oz
Shellsocks baby Noah Stephen born 27 Nov 2013, 9lb 3.5oz
Gardenworm baby Wolfie born 1 December 2013
Janielovesluckysocks baby Leo Thomas born 4 Dec 2013, 7lb 5oz
Bootyluscious baby Sofia born 17 December 2013, 6lb 2oz
ChocolateTeabag: baby Joss born 18 December 2013, 7lb 7oz
Blackholes: Baby girl born 23 December 2013
WhatwillSantabring: Baby boy born 6 January 2014, 8lbs 7oz
pumpkinsweetie: Baby girl born 7 January 2014, 6lb 4 oz
Christinedaae - Baby girl Sawyer born 6th Feb 2014, 9lb11.5oz
MissMedusa: Baby Rhydian Thursday 27 Feb 2014, 1080g
TotalShock - Baby James born 25 February 2014, 8lb 1oz
Swangirl: Baby boy, 4 March 2014
SaggyOldClothPussCat: Lucy Elanor born 7 March 2014, 7lb
Pixielady83: Baby girl, 9 March 2014
GuffSmuggler: Baby boy, 3 March 2014
Fod: Baby Girl, 7 April 2014, 10lb 3
TeaAndANatter: Baby Henry born 18 April 2014, 7lb 15oz
Kjh5: Baby Logan born 19 April 2014, 3.3kg
CbeebiesIsMyLife: Baby boy born 2 May 2014
StarsInTheNightSky: baby Jasper, born early May 2014, 8lbs3
Tomkat: Baby Lolly born 16 May 2014
Bakingtins: Baby Faith born 23 May 2014, 5lb 3oz
Penguinita: Baby Elanor born 27th May 2014, 6lb 1oz
Emki: Baby Michael born 29th May 2014, 9lb 10oz
Pgchimp: Baby boy born 16th June 2014
Fishcake77: Baby boy Jack born 26th June 2014, 7lbs 14oz
Nerdy bird: baby girl born 1st July 2014
Keepingthefaith: baby girl born 2nd August 2014 10 weeks early 2.5lbs
MrsGiraffe12: baby girl born 1 Sept 2014
OneLittleToddleTerror (now TwoLittleTerrors ): baby girl born 14th September 2014
Alb1: baby boy born 14 September 2014
fedupofrainydays: baby boy born 16 September 2014
Squizita: baby girl born 21 September 2014
HopefulHamster: baby Serena Lorelai, born 1 October 2014, 7lb3
Londonjen: Baby Eleanor born 6th October 2014
CorporeSarnie: baby boy born 26 October 2014
Cakebaker35: Baby William born prematurely at 27 weeks, 21st October - 29th October 2014, may he rest in peace
cheesecurry86: Baby Lewis James, born 6 am, 9lb 2, 16th November 2014
Gwlondon: baby Alexandra, born 2.40 kilos, 20th November 2014
Cuppachaplz: baby Percy born 6 December 2014, 5lb 4oz
Liesal: baby Alexander William, born 14 December 2014, 7lb 3oz
QuietTiger: baby girl born 18 December 2014
Seasides: baby Freya born 20 December 2014
TeaRex: baby boy born 20 December 2014, 7 lb 6 oz
Amicablemoomin: baby girl just before Christmas 2014
CallingAllEngels: baby boy born 9 January 2015, 7lb 15 oz
GailLondon: baby Oscar born 2 February 2015, 9lb 7 oz
Babytinks11: Baby Lacey-Rae born 13 February 2015, 7lb 15 oz

P.S. maverick keeping my FX for you.

Hugs to you, maverick

Total scanxiety here. Got a research study one tomorrow (9+3) but I just wiped and pale brown jelly was on the paper... just when I thought I'd stopped spotting. Some backache too but I've had that for a while. Waaah :(

Ladies, I bled at 6 weeks and then had pale pink/brown spotting for a further 4 weeks. Im now due in 2 days so try and stay positive.

Thinking of you

I hope things work out for you maverick

Thanks ladies x

Hugs maverick got everything crossed for you xx

commander, hope your scan tomorrow reveals a happy bubba. You're not having an easy time of things, are you hun? Sending positive vibes and hugs your way xx

Not much to report here, 18+1. Getting bored with wiffle waffle from the AN group (not including the gorgeous ladies who are also members of this group). And tbh it's making me feel quite insecure and paranoid about my own pregnancy. Grrr. I hate that mc has probably done this to me!