The posifrickintivity continues... another shiny and new posifrickintivity thread for pregnancy after miscarriage

[charlieis30]

Here is to us all having uneventful and smooth pregnancies, with healthy and happy babies!

Happy new year to all! Wishing you all a healthy, happy and sticky 2015! x Thought would start the year with a stats update.

CallingAllEngels 2MC, 1DS, EDD 28th December 2014
aMuminwaiting: 5MC, 2MMC, EDD 31st December 2014
TeaRex: 1MMC, 1DD, EDD 7th January 2015
DitzyDonkey: 1MMC, 1DS, EDD 9th January 2015
GailLondon: 1 DD, 1 MC at 12 weeks, EDD 30th Jan 2015
AddictedToRadley: 1 DS (5.7yrs), 13 MCs inc DS's twin, EDD 8th Feb 2015
Blankfornames; 1 MC at 6 weeks. EDD of DC1 19th February 2015
BadgersInTheSlurryLagoon; 1MMC, 2MC, EDD 24 Feb 2015
Davidtenantsmistress; 4MC, 2MMC, 2DS, EDD 27th February 2015
Silverine: no DCs, 1 MMC at 10 weeks, 1 MC at 8 weeks, 1 CP/early MC; EDD 1 March 2015
HollyBen: MC (10 weeks), DD, MC (9 weeks), EDD 2nd March 2015
Tannyloo; 2 DS (14 & 2.5), 4MC (1BO), 1 MMC, EDD 3rd March 2015
Babytinks11; 4MC, 1MMC, 1DS, EDD 4th March 2015
Missmakesstuff: 1 mc, edd 23 March 2015
Ilovechops, 1MC,1MMC,1DD, EDD 24 March 2015
Littlemissy12345: 1DD, 2mc, EDD 25 March 2015
FloreneceandZebede: 1 ds (2y9mths) 1 mmc Feb 14, EDD 25 March 2015
Suzybean: 38, 1 DS age 5, mmc Feb 13, mc March 14. EDD 12th April 2015
Psmith: 1 MP, 1 MC, EDD April 23rd 2015
OneDayLikeThis2013: 27, no DCs, MMC June 2014, EDD 26 April 2015
Haily111: dc3, mc May, EDD 5 May 2015
ToriB34: 34, no DC, mmc in July, EDD 29th May 2015
Longesrlurkerever: 1dd, 2mc, 1mmc, EDD 30 May 2015
SunbathingCat: 35, no DCs, mmc in May, EDD 7 June 2015
WrappedInABlankie: 1 DS, ectopic 3/14, EDD 22 June 2015
Phryn : Age 32, no DC, mc in Aug 14, EDD 6th June 2015
Thesmallbear: 1 MMC, EDD 2nd July 2015
sarahlou20: 35, no DC, 1 MMC, EDD 9th July 2015
Ibelieveinpink: 31, mc, mc, dd1, edd 12 July 2015
Ignominious: DD, MMC in August, EDD 12th July 2015
Broodylicious: 36, 1 dd, 1 mc at 12 weeks on feb 27, EDD 23 July 2015
Charlieis30: ttc #1 MC Feb 14 7.5w, MC Aug 14 9w (trisomy), EDD 26 Jul 15
Littlelady33: ttc #1, mmc March 13 and 14, EDD late July 2015
Dainsysunshine: 23, no dc, TTC 14 months, 1mc sept '14, EDD 10th August 2015
enviousllama: 1DS (2y 5m), 1MMC (Nov '14), EDD 7th Sept 2015

Need updates:

MabelMay: 2DS, 1MC, 1MMC EDD 6th November
Omama 1 DS, 1 MMC, EDD 5th December 2014
RunByFruiting (prev. BobaFetaCheese): 4 MC, 2DS, EDD 14 December 2014
Amicablemoomin; 2MC, 0DS, EDD 19 December 2014

Thread Babies:

Jessw25 Baby Oliver born 9 July 2013, 5lb 11oz
BobaFetaCheese Baby Alexander born 30 July 2013, 7lb 4oz
Andadietcoke twin girls born 29 August 2013, Charlotte 5lb 5oz & Sophie 7lb 13oz
Pentagon baby Elsie born 23 October 2013, 7lb 5oz
Bodicea baby James born 3 November 2013, 8lb
Ibelieveinpink baby Imogen born 14 November 2013, 7lb 4oz
BumpKitty baby Matilda born 18 Nov 2013, 8lb 2oz
Luckysocks13 baby Charlotte born 24 Nov 2013, 8lb
Jmf294 baby Alexander James born 25 Nov 2013, 7lb 4oz
Shellsocks baby Noah Stephen born 27 Nov 2013, 9lb 3.5oz
Gardenworm baby Wolfie born 1 December 2013
Janielovesluckysocks baby Leo Thomas born 4 Dec 2013, 7lb 5oz
Bootyluscious baby Sofia born 17 December 2013, 6lb 2oz
ChocolateTeabag: baby Joss born 18 December 2013, 7lb 7oz
Blackholes: Baby girl born 23 December 2013
WhatwillSantabring: Baby boy born 6 January 2014, 8lbs 7oz
pumpkinsweetie: Baby girl born 7 January 2014, 6lb 4 oz
Christinedaae - Baby girl Sawyer born 6th Feb 2014, 9lb11.5oz
MissMedusa: Baby Rhydian Thursday 27 Feb 2014, 1080g
TotalShock - Baby James born 25 February 2014, 8lb 1oz
Swangirl: Baby boy, 4 March 2014
SaggyOldClothPussCat: Lucy Elanor born 7 March 2014, 7lb
Pixielady83: Baby girl, 9 March 2014
GuffSmuggler: Baby boy, 3 March 2014
Fod: Baby Girl, 7 April 2014, 10lb 3
TeaAndANatter: Baby Henry born 18 April 2014, 7lb 15oz
Kjh5: Baby Logan born 19 April 2014, 3.3kg
CbeebiesIsMyLife: Baby boy born 2 May 2014
StarsInTheNightSky: baby Jasper, born early May 2014, 8lbs3
Tomkat: Baby Lolly born 16 May 2014
Bakingtins: Baby Faith born 23 May 2014, 5lb 3oz
Penguinita: Baby Elanor born 27th May 2014, 6lb 1oz
Emki: Baby Michael born 29th May 2014, 9lb 10oz
Pgchimp: Baby boy born 16th June 2014
Fishcake77: Baby boy Jack born 26th June 2014, 7lbs 14oz
Nerdy bird: baby girl born 1st July 2014
Keepingthefaith: baby girl born 2nd August 2014 10 weeks early 2.5lbs
MrsGiraffe12: baby girl born 1 Sept 2014
OneLittleToddleTerror (now TwoLittleTerrors ): baby girl born 14th September 2014
Alb1: baby boy born 14 September 2014
fedupofrainydays: baby boy born 16 September 2014
Squizita: baby girl born 21 September 2014
HopefulHamster: baby Serena Lorelai, born 1 October 2014, 7lb3
Londonjen: Baby Eleanor born 6th October 2014
CorporeSarnie: baby boy born 26 October 2014
Cakebaker35: Baby William born prematurely at 27 weeks, 21st October - 29th October 2014, may he rest in peace
cheesecurry86: Baby Lewis James, born 6 am, 9lb 2, 16th November 2014
Gwlondon: baby Alexandra, born 2.40 kilos, 20th November 2014
Cuppachaplz: baby Percy born 6 December 2014, 5lb 4oz
Liesal: baby Alexander William, born 14 December 2014, 7lb 3oz
QuietTiger: baby girl born 18 December 2014
Seasides: baby Freya born 20 December 2014

Happy new year everyone

Happy new year to everyone.
I think it is about time that I start to think positively and join this thread.
Stats, 1DS, complete molar pregnancy in 2013/14 and 4 cycles of chemotherapy, early miscarriage in sept 2014.
3 tests have shown a clear rise in hcg but can't actually say the "p" word.
I know that I need to email my doctor and I will be seen straight away for a scan and blood tests,but I'm terrified that the only thing I will be growing again are abnormal cells ??
I think I am around 5 weeks but I am still in denial. Just need to pluck up the courage to go for a scan, but I know once they start I will be getting them weekly and I'm not sure i can cope with that.

Envious who is doing the blood tests for you? When I spoke to epu they said they will scan me a week on Monday but no mention of bloods. I have a gp appt tomorrow about something that's not pregnancy related , do you think.I.could.ask fir bloods then as it might put my.mind at rest a bit x I am.so afraid of mc again :(

Happy new year positivity ladies!

Brummie I'm really heartbroken for you. I can't think of anything helpful to say, but you & your dp are in my thoughts. Take care of yourself xx

If I could get added to the stats it would be much appreciated- Mslad, 33, no dc, mmc June 2014, edd 18 May 2015

Is there anyone on this thread who by 20+3 hasn't felt any real movement? It feels like everyone online has felt full kicks by this point, while I'm still trying to tell if I'm feeling flutterings or not. Plus I have a posterior placenta so thought I'd have felt something definite. I heard the heart beat last week so I'm not toooo panicked (yet). I have my scan next week, and my fear is going into overdrive....I'm convinced my low Papp-a test results will mean there's something wrong.

Hi all, thought I would officially add my stats:
28, no DC, MMC September 2014 (blighted ovum), EDD 17th August 2015

Not done anything today I feel so rubbish, I am dreading work on Monday, although work were super supportive during the MC I want to wait until 12 weeks before telling them but I am struggling with nausea and fatigue (and fear). I didn't feel this bad last time so taking that as a plus. I just have no idea how I am going to go to work AND be productive! Coming up to 8 weeks. I dont think I will go for a private scan, there is only one place local to me that does them and that was where I went last time and I cant face it. Anyway happy new year one and all, sorry to those that have left, I hope to see you back here soon xxxx

Hi 50 degrees, good to see you, remember you from the ttc after mc threat (or was it earlier on this one). FX all is good for you this time, new year - new luck!

Mslad, happy and llama, have added your stats to the list, will repost in due course. Anyone else? Hope calling is ok and we have more thread baby updates coming.

Hi 50degrees I also recognise you, congratulations.

I've been lurking a bit on the pg after MC Dec thread, and Engles was still waiting last time I checked. I might have another peek...

Thoughts are with brummie hope you get really well taken care of medically and emotionally. Sending you hope and love

Could I be added to stats too please?
Thegirl, 28, 1 dd age 2, 2 mc, 1mmc, EDD 23rd July 2015

Thank you silverine

50degrees great to see you here I remember you from the TTC after MC threads earlier last year. Here's to an uneventful and happy pregnancy! My sickness has almost gone today but I'm in week 12 now so that's perhaps not unusual. Can't help but worry a little though.

Just had a phone call from the midwife to say I am at high risk of downs. Got to go into the hospital on Monday to discuss further options. I know that I can have the amniocentesis to find out for sure - but that carries a miscarriage risk. I don't think I could live with myself if I decided to have the amniocentesis and then lost him/her. Feeling devastated right now

smallbear is that because of bloods or nt measurement? I had high nt and chose to do the harmony blood test at the fetal medicine centre in London. Not sure where you're based but worth looking that up or equivalent. Best £500 I spent (althou the results take 2 weeks to arrive) and they came back clear. What's your risk? Remember that even 1:20 risk means 95% chance all will be clear. Hugs! Message me if you need to.

Thanks silverline. It was the NHS combined test, so fluid around the back of the babies neck and bloods. They didn't give me the exact number over the phone just said 'high risk', so I'm assuming they'll give me the exact number when I go into the hospital on Monday. Just been reading about the harmony test and it's says the result is 99% accurate without any miscarriage risk. That sounds like it's worth the £500 to me. I'm in Birmingham.

Thanks Sunbathing, I have calmed down a bit now. I was in hysterics when I first came off the phone to the midwife!

Big hugs smallbear that must have been such a hard phone call to take. Just to say 'mums' clinic in Solihull do the harmony tests and they're very good, professional but very empathetic. Hope you're getting lots of love and support in RL. As others have said the odds are still hugely in your and your baby's favour xxx