The posifrickintivity continues... another shiny and new posifrickintivity thread for pregnancy after miscarriage

[charlieis30]

Here is to us all having uneventful and smooth pregnancies, with healthy and happy babies!

Tiger!!! Great news! Thanks for popping in to share it and for the good wishes! She must be your little pre-Christmas miracle indeed! What a journey you've had indeed - so happy for you! Will you to the stats list later.
newera welcome and congrats!

quiettiger omg, so happy for you. Made me cry.
Have the happiest christmas ever! (I know you will)
What a lovely post! Congratulations! I can't even imagine how you must feel.

Thank you for the reassurance charlie and calling

newera I'm so pleased for you! I've just come over from the soy thread. This was my month off soy and I'm only 10dpo. Worrying so much. Hope you are well.

Can I have some advice ladies? I have had an upset tummy feeling this afternoon. I have been to the loo (sorry if TMI) it was normal but did make me feel more comfortable. Still feel really achy but I've have been lazy today, mainly because I feel completely shattered. I haven't moved much so I wonder if that hasn't helped? My clothes are also feeling tight and uncomfortable, so maybe I'm bloated? I'm just panicking that it's the start of a miscarriage! I don't want to make an appointment at the drs for no reason!

Congratulations Tiger

Congratulations and good luck NewEra.

Huge congratulations tiger ! Lovely news.

calling, I'm also really tempted by the mw-led birthing centre - it looks lovely, with your own room, pool, one-to-one midwife etc (My local is the Barkantine on the Isle of Dogs in London - anyone else near me?). But the downside is that it's not in the same building as the hospital, so in case of any complications, they need to transfer you by ambulance.
I do want to have as natural as possible a labour but I'm really scared of anything going wrong (not going to list all my fears but I'm sure we've all heard lots of stories...). The MW do assess you regularly and make a plan to transfer you in good time, if needed, but they are all "zen" and rely on moving and positions to get around issues that I may prefer an intervention (a drip if labour too long, caesarian if baby too big/pelvis too small, etc.)
By teh way, posting stats update tonight. any of the newbies want to be added to the list?

Do0dles Don't forget everything is shifting about inside! I've had guts going funny on and off. Your digestive system slows down and can be prone to constipation- even if the pooh is normal it can feel like you've shifted a galaxy!!
Bloating is normal too, especially as the day wears on..

Oh Christ. I just wiped and getting pink cm. Dull cramping too. I have never bled in.pregnancy without it having gone wrong. DH has gone out to do the food shop and I don't know what to do.
I don't want to MC over Christmas. It's not fair

Welcome newera, lovely to see you on the other side

tiger, what a wonderfully positive story. You've had such sadness and sorrow but now your gorgeous little lady is here to ease your pain. Just fabulous

Thank you, it has eased off now. I just don't remember being uncomfortable with DD but I was younger and hadn't experienced a MC then!
Oh Catbus I'm sorry to hear that I have my fingers crossed for you xx

I've texted mw again but the chances of getting scanned before Christmas are probably very slim I would've thought. I'm petrified.

Catbus I'm so sorry to hear that but there are so many quite innocuous reasons for some bleeding in pregnancy so everything crossed for you. Where are you based? Any early pregnancy unit should still be able to see you surely? I know that the London hospitals will

It always takes at least a few days or more to get one- even when gp has requested as cannot self refer. Nearest big city is Plymouth. Thing is I have cramping too..

catbus pff, so sorry to hear this.
I really hope it will turn out to be one of those unexplained/innocent bleeds that many mention in early pregnancy.
Can you not try the A&E?

catbus i would give it till the morning to see if its just a one off. If not, you should go to A&E and they'll send you to epu for scan (if they have the facilities in the same hospital)

I have other numbers on.my notes. I.will call those if mw doesn't get back to me- think her phone is off as text not delivered. Will try and hold tight overnight and then push to be seen ASAP.
I'm terrified of mc at home

Congratulations tiger

catbus I personally would head to A&E when your hubby gets home try not to worry bleeding doesn't always mean the worst I've bled a few times in this pregnancy the last time was at 26 weeks. Try and stay calm hun got everything crossed for you.

Well touch wood I have managed more than a whole week out of hospital now and I feel reasonable still got pain in my kidney but I am getting used to it now. Experiencing the joys of being 30 weeks as well as the terror that I'm going to end up back in . Baby is still where she needs to be though and no one thought she would be :). Got an appointment the 9th for a growth scan and to see the consultant about induction at 38 weeks if we get that far as the urologist is worried about the effect on my kidney of keeping going much beyond 37 weeks.

Thank you girls! And congrats to all the new bfps! And massive congratulations to tiger :) decided with hubby to go ahead and book a early private scan for 9weeks...however as we're only 4w4d we're going to book it closer to the time. Excited! :) xxx

I can't really as there's nobody to stay with the kids. Did you also have mild cramping, baby?
Thinking of you and glad bubs is staying put! Hoping you manage to reach a mutually good point for delivery for baby and kidney

And the stats list

Amicablemoomin; 2MC, 0DS, EDD 19 December 2014
CallingAllEngels 2MC, 1DS, EDD 28th December 2014
aMuminwaiting: 5MC, 2MMC, EDD 31st December 2014
TeaRex: 1MMC, 1DD, EDD 7th January 2015
DitzyDonkey: 1MMC, 1DS, EDD 9th January 2015
GailLondon: 1 DD, 1 MC at 12 weeks, EDD 30th Jan 2015
AddictedToRadley: 1 DS (5.7yrs), 13 MCs inc DS's twin, EDD 8th Feb 2015
Blankfornames; 1 MC at 6 weeks. EDD of DC1 19th February 2015.
BadgersInTheSlurryLagoon; 1MMC, 2MC, EDD 24 Feb 2015
Davidtenantsmistress; 4MC, 2MMC, 2DS, EDD 27th February 2015
Silverine: no DCs, 1 MMC at 10 weeks, 1 MC at 8 weeks, 1 CP/early MC; EDD 1 March 2015
HollyBen: MC (10 weeks), DD, MC (9 weeks), EDD 2nd March 2015
Tannyloo; 2 DS (14 & 2.5), 4MC (1BO), 1 MMC, EDD 3rd March 2015
Babytinks11; 4MC, 1MMC, 1DS, EDD 4th March 2015
Missmakesstuff: 1 mc, edd 23 March 2015
Ilovechops, 1MC,1MMC,1DD, EDD 24 March 2015
Littlemissy12345: 1DD, 2mc, EDD 25 March 2015
FloreneceandZebede: 1 ds (2y9mths) 1 mmc Feb 14, EDD 25 March 2015
Suzybean: 38, 1 DS age 5, mmc Feb 13, mc March 14. EDD 12th April 2015
Psmith: 1 MP, 1 MC, EDD April 23rd 2015
OneDayLikeThis2013: 27, no DCs, MMC June 2014, EDD 26 April 2015
Haily111: dc3, mc May, EDD 5 May 2015
ToriB34: 34, no DC, mmc in July, EDD 29th May 2015
Longesrlurkerever: 1dd, 2mc, 1mmc, EDD 30 May 2015
SunbathingCat: 35, no DCs, mmc in May, EDD 7 June 2015
WrappedInABlankie: 1 DS, ectopic 3/14, EDD 22 June 2015
Phryn : Age 32, no DC, mc in Aug 14, EDD 6th June 2015
Thesmallbear: 1 MMC, EDD 7th July 2015
sarahlou20: 35, no DC, 1 MMC, EDD 9th July 2015
Catbus: 40, DD1, DD2, MC, DS1, MMC, DS2, MMC. EDD 10 July 2015
Ibelieveinpink: 31, mc, mc, dd1, edd 12 July 2015
Ignominious: DD, MMC in August, EDD 12th July 2015
Littlelady33: ttc #1, mmc March 13 and 14, EDD late July 2015

Need updates:

MabelMay: 2DS, 1MC, 1MMC EDD 6th November
Omama 1 DS, 1 MMC, EDD 5th December 2014
RunByFruiting (prev. BobaFetaCheese): 4 MC, 2DS, EDD 14 December 2014

Thread Babies:

Jessw25 Baby Oliver born 9 July 2013 5lb 11oz
BobaFetaCheese Baby Alexander born 30 July 2013 7lb 4oz
Andadietcoke twin girls born 29 August Charlotte 5lb 5oz & Sophie 7lb 13oz
Pentagon baby Elsie born 23 October 7lb 5oz
Bodicea baby James born 3 November 8lb
Ibelieveinpink baby Imogen born 14 November 7lb 4oz
BumpKitty baby Matilda born 18 Nov 8lb 2oz
Luckysocks13 baby Charlotte born 24 Nov 8lb
Jmf294 baby Alexander James born 25 Nov 7lb 4oz
Shellsocks baby Noah Stephen born 27 Nov 9lb 3.5oz
Gardenworm baby Wolfie born 1 December
Janielovesluckysocks baby Leo Thomas born 4 Dec 7lb 5oz
Bootyluscious baby Sofia born 17 December 6lb 2oz
ChocolateTeabag: baby Joss born 18 December 7lb 7oz
Blackholes: Baby girl born 23 December
WhatwillSantabring: Baby boy born 6 January 8lbs 7oz
pumpkinsweetie: Baby girl born 7 January 6lb 4 oz
Christinedaae - Baby girl Sawyer born 6th Feb 9lb11.5oz
MissMedusa: Baby Rhydian Thursday 27 Feb 1080g
TotalShock - Baby James born 25 February 8lb 1oz
Swangirl: Baby boy, 4 March
SaggyOldClothPussCat: Lucy Elanor 7 March 7lb
Pixielady83: Baby girl, 9 March
GuffSmuggler: Baby boy, 3 March
Fod: Baby Girl, 7 April, 10lb 3
TeaAndANatter: Baby Henry born 18 April 7lb 15oz
Kjh5: Baby Logan born 19 April 3.3kg
CbeebiesIsMyLife: Baby boy born 2 May
StarsInTheNightSky: baby Jasper, born early May, 8lbs3
Tomkat: Baby Lolly born 16 May
Bakingtins: Baby Faith born 23 May 5lb 3oz
Penguinita: Baby Elanor born 27th May 6lb 1oz
Emki: Baby Michael born 29th May 9lb 10oz
Pgchimp: Baby boy born 16th June
Fishcake77: Baby boy Jack born 26th June 7lbs 14oz
Nerdy bird: baby girl born 1st July
Keepingthefaith: baby girl born 2nd August 2014 10 weeks early 2.5lbs
MrsGiraffe12: baby girl born 1 Sept 2014
OneLittleToddleTerror (now TwoLittleTerrors ): baby girl born 14th September 2014
Alb1: baby boy born 14 September 2014
fedupofrainydays: baby boy born 16 September 2014
Squizita: baby girl born 21 September 2014
HopefulHamster: baby Serena Lorelai, born 1 October 2014, 7lb3
Londonjen: Baby Eleanor born 6th October 2014
CorporeSarnie: baby boy born 26 October 2014
Cakebaker35: Baby William born prematurely at 27 weeks, 21st October - 29th October 2014, may he rest in peace
cheesecurry86: Baby Lewis James, born 6 am, 9lb 2, 16th November 2014
Gwlondon: baby Alexandra, born 2.40 kilos, 20th November 2014
Cuppachaplz: baby Percy born 6 December 2014, 5lb 4oz
Liesal: baby Alexander William, born 14 December 2014, 7lb 3oz
QuietTiger: baby girl born 18 December 2014
Seasides: baby Freya born 20 December 2014