Do scans have the fathers name on?

[shellmont]

Hi, hope someone can help, my sons x girlfriend has turned up with a scan of 9 week twins and printed on the scan in the left hand corner just under sex unknown it says fathers name and has his name on.
I do not think its real and wondered if there is anyone out there who has had a scan at The University Hospital north staffs and if they can tell me if the hospital put the fathers name on scans.

My son has been to the police station and spoken to a lovely lady police officer who deals with stalkers she has looked at his phone and could not believe the amount of times she had contacted him, she could see that it was escalating and listened to some of the messages she had sent.
She also kept the copies of the fake scan and e mail.
She said that she was going straight to her house when they finished talking to give her a warning, my lad has a crime number and has been told if she contacts him again or follows him he is to get back in touch and she will be arrested, she is also going to contact the hospital.
Her words were 'its the worst case of stalking I have seen this year'
The police officer is going to phone my son later or when she has been in touch with the crazy girl.
So maybe after a month this could finally be over
I do hope so, if this is the last time l post on here then that's great it means she has got the message, thanks for all the support,
Oh she did say she could be sacked for sending e mails with the hospital address on but we just don't care, she also wrote 'sick' at the top of the notes she was writing.
I will keep posting if there are any new developments.
Thanks all. Shellmont

Well done, glad he's been able to speak to someone who's experienced in stalking and harassment.

Thank goodness something is happening! Best wishes.

Shellmont - thanks for the update however please don't disappear off this thread. Keep us posted, even if it's just to say that there's been no more incidents.

I wish you and your son well.

That's great news. I hope this brings everything to an end for you and your son, and his new gf.

Really good to hear action is being taken.

Oh good OP, I'm glad he's being taken seriously at last. Please don't disappear though. Keep us posted as to how things are going, and well done to your son.

Thats really good to hear OP! I hope this is a new beginning for your son and his new girlfriend now

The police have seen her and she made a few false claims about my son, but we did expect that, he has not phoned her or sent any texts since the day he finished with her. She has been told to stay away from my son and his girlfriend.
The police lady says she will contact the hospital tomorrow so that's good.
I have a feeling she is not going to go away, and have told my son and his girl to be careful.

Thanks for updating OP. Good that the police took it seriously and have been to see her to warn her off. As you say, she is not likely to go away even after a police warning. Again, no surprise that she made false allegations. Also good that they are contacting the hospital.

Your son did well not to contact her since they split up. It will be clear to the police that all the traffic has been one way so they should believe him despite her allegations. I hope he mentioned that her mother said she had done the same thing with a previous boyfriend.

Dear God, what a horrible chain of events this is becoming.

Please make sure that your DS logs everything that happens (especially making lists of people who may have witnessed the behaviour so he has witnesses to her "visits").

I suspect that your son isn't the first person that she has targeted. Indeed when you rang her mother she didn't sound unduely surprised at events.

Stay strong.

Hi storytopper, yes he told them I had spoken to her mother on the phone and she was not surprised about the fake pregnancy and she told me she had told a previous boyfriend she was pregnant when she was not.
We don't know if she stalked the other boyfriend but I wouldn't be surprised if she had.

That's good Shellmont. Sounds like you and your son have done everything you can for the moment. I hope everything quietens down now. Fingers crossed.

Your poor son, what a worry!

I'm glad he has gone to the police and has it all logged, he sounds like a nice lad - let us know how it all goes.

Hi Shellmont. I have been lurking on this thread for a while, but didn't feeling I had anything helpful to post! I'm glad things are finally getting sorted now though. Best of luck to your son!

been thinking of you

Well it looks like I was right and she has not stopped, son had one call last night from her he never answers so it goes to missed call.
This morning when he left for work 7am there was a t shirt of his on the step with a note that said 't shirt washed but not ironed sorry for everything'
She has been to his work with the excuse that she found some paper work he had left at hers, she said ' you went to the police' he had the paper work off her and said yes I did and walked away.
He had 9 missed calls at work.
I have told him he will have to get back in touch with the police he has the policewomen's number, he said the policewomen is off work tomorrow and he will call her on Sunday.
He didn't get in from work until 8 o'clock and I understand he is tired and just wants to relax with a beer and his girlfriend.
I think his stalker might be off work on the sick because she was doing 12 hour shifts and for the last week or so she has been stalking him all hours of the day and night.
And so it continues.....

I'm sorry to hear this is still happening, although I suppose it wasn't a huge shock?

As long as he carries on informing the police of every further incident there is nothing more he can do.

Sending hugs

Wow, just wow!

Is your son taking photos of everything she has done, to keep as evidence for the police?

If this woman knows where the new girlfriend lives could she be a danger to her?

Goodness me

It really makes you think about this girls state of mind doesn't it

He needs to get a restraining order.

Bloody hell

Hmmm - I hoped but didn't really expect that she would give up after the police warning. I wondered how she had time for the high level of harassment she is dishing out - makes sense to hear she is signed off sick at the moment.

As others have said, your son should record and report every little incident to the police and try to get some kind of legal order in place. There is no predicting what she might do next. Also, his employers may get tired or her turning up at his place of work and his new girlfriend might be out off by all of hassle - which is exactly what his ex wants.

PUT off by all of the hassle