Do scans have the fathers name on?

[shellmont]

Hi, hope someone can help, my sons x girlfriend has turned up with a scan of 9 week twins and printed on the scan in the left hand corner just under sex unknown it says fathers name and has his name on.
I do not think its real and wondered if there is anyone out there who has had a scan at The University Hospital north staffs and if they can tell me if the hospital put the fathers name on scans.

She's bloody crackers. How you haven't had it out with her yet I don't know, I wouldn't be able to bite my tongue.

I really think that the police should be contacted. Even if it's just to log these events because there really is no way of knowing how far this girl would go.

As for her profession, I really wouldn't be happy if she was caring for myself or any of my relatives. Her employers need to be made aware.

He really should contact police- she seems to be escalating.

I also knew a young woman who did this :(

OP - Your son needs to contact the police (via 101) to make a record of events so far. Make sure that he is logging everything chronologically, including your contact with her mum.

I'm worried the ex might try to make some false allegation against your DS - by logging events now your son would be protecting himself.

I'm not trying to scare you but, initially, who would the police believe if the ex tried to approach your DS tonight, he rebuffs her so she makes a false and malicious allegation of some kind to the police.

Events seem to be escalating - DS needs to "cover his back" by speaking to the authorities.

I agree with Fairy. The police need to know.

The case I knew like this ended with her accusing him of sexual abuse. Luckily, the police had a record of things going on before and her case was proven to be lies.

Your son needs to open his eyes here - she is really not thinking normally and will stop at nothing.

Hi all update.
Friday morning she was parked across the road at 7am I saw her when I walked the dog before work, son saw her when he left for work.
she got his work phone number we don't know how but he had 25 missed calls from her on Saturday and 20 on Sunday she also left a message saying her next appointment at maternity is on 16 th august (crazy girl)).
This morning she was outside at 7 am again he has had 32 missed calls from her today and at some point today hair gel was smeared on the door handles of his car.
Finally he said he has had enough he is going to report the stalking to the police tonight and he is going to contact the Director of nursing with the fake baby scan and fake e mail appointment.
Both the scan and the email have our local hospital on them she even used a real secretary's name on the e mail and put the correct phone number on it, he has checked the email out with the early maternity department and they never send e mails.
So maybe soon it will all stop and she will get the help she needs, I just hope it does not make her worse.
Thanks for all the advice.
I will keep you posted.

I have been following this thread. This girl sounds really scary and I'm glad your son has decided to go to the police. I would advise him to take screenshots of everything he can Znd to take his phone record in. Good luck to him, and to you as you must also be worried sick. I hope this girl gets some serious help and leaves him alone.

Thanks Auntie Brenda,
To be honest I have only put a fraction of what's been going on in this thread, she is a nasty piece of work.
My son told me the reason he has not been to the police before now is he did not want his name in the local paper hopefully it will not come to that.

Just had a look at fake a baby..almost cried, horrible website. Hope you and your son are ok x

So glad to hear your son has decided to report this. Any news of how it went? I hope it stops now.

hi, my son got up Tuesday morning and there was mc Donald all over his car with a note from her saying ' l hope you enjoyed your mc Donalds last night here is a bit more for you' he had called there the night before and she must have been following him again, he also had 65 missed calls from her yesterday. So he phoned the police and reported her, the police are coming to our house on Friday to see him.

He also phoned the local hospital where she works and put a complaint in about the fake scan and fake e mail, they both had the hospitals name on them the e mail had a real medical secretary's name and contact number, the hospital have said they will be back in touch with him in 3 days ((that's there policy for complaints))
She was parked in the side street across from our house this morning at 7 o'clock, l don't know what kind of day he has had at work yet and we don't know how she will react when she knows she has been reported.

Time will tell, I will keep you updated.

I'm sorry to hear this is still going on, I hope you get some RL support now that the police are aware

Gosh this is all so terrible. Im sorry you are both going through this. I really hope things will only get better from now

Oh OP this is awful, am so glad your son has now told the police. This will only escalate so she needs stopped now.

My lad has just come in from work, she followed him there this morning
He is a site manager on a construction site she hung around the entrance phoning him leaving voice messages 'l'm watching you' that kind of thing.At 12 o'clock he had had enough he got in the car when he drove past her she threw a bottle of pop at the car.
He drove to the police station and told them he can not wait until Friday and needs help now he told them he's worried about what she will do next, the best they could do is he can go back to the police station at 3.30 tomorrow.
I am so mad about this if it was a woman they would have done something.
I am so tempted to go out and find her, she will be somewhere close now he is home but she is obviously mentally ill and I don't want to make matters worse.
He has not heard back from the hospital so will phone them back in the morning to make sure they are taking the matter seriously.
I feel better writing this down its all very stressful.
Keep you posted

I cannot believe this! You're right, I'm sure the police would have done something sooner had he been female!

It's fantastic that he's gone to the police, it sounds as if it will pay that he did. Who knows what she's capable of!

Have you spoken to her mum since the first time?

I don't have any advice to offer because thankfully i've never been in this situation. I'm absolutely gobsmacked at what your going through.

I wonder if your son could phone the police if she turns up at his work again? Could he not phone them and say he is scared to leave as she is getting more and more unpredictable. Maybe then they could turn up and remove her from his place of work?
If my ex was stalking me at my place of work i think i would phone the police. It shouldn't be any different just because its a female stalker rather than a male stalker.

Like i said i'm no expert, its just a thought.

My son did phone the police about a week ago from work saying she would not leave and they told him to give her the phone so they could have a word! He passed her the phone and she ended the call, that's one of the reasons he had been put off going to the police, but she has gone to far now.All the men on my sons site call her 'that crazy lady '
She was going on site and one of the bricklayers told her she had to leave as it was again health and safety, she said tell him to come and talk to me then!
He has gone to pick up his new girlfriend (this one seams quite normal) and she has followed him there before 15 miles she even put a letter through the new girlfriends house saying he loves her and is still sleeping with her,he said if he sees her tonight he will call the police.
So at the moment I am worried for his and his new girls safety.

This is so wrong. The police would react completely differently if your son was the stalker!

I hope they take him seriously tomorrow.

Your poor son. I'm surprised the police are putting him off like this too.
Hope it gets sorted tomorrow.

Good that your son has reported her to both the police and the hospital. Horrible to say but it is good in a way that she has forged the hospital documents as well as carrying out all of the personal harassment. Without that evidence it might be just a case of his word against hers - might be seen as just a few phones calls and texts etc. and not be taken very seriously.

I wish him good luck with the police tomorrow - must be very scary for him and his new girlfriend - and you.

Fucking hell.

I hope the police start taking him seriously.

Hi op I've been following this thread, but not posted as I've had nothing useful or helpful to add. Just want to say I'm so pleased your son has reported this woman to the police and also reported her to the hospital. I would not want a woman this unstable bein responsible for my loved ones, or anyone else for that matter. Your son needs to keep calling the police until he gets the response he requires x

I've read through this and the escalation really concerns me. Surely at this point there is enough evidence of harrassment for a restraining order. Of benefit to your son and also her, she seems to have put all of her life to oneside for this.