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Do scans have the fathers name on?

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shellmont · 11/07/2014 22:22

Hi, hope someone can help, my sons x girlfriend has turned up with a scan of 9 week twins and printed on the scan in the left hand corner just under sex unknown it says fathers name and has his name on.
I do not think its real and wondered if there is anyone out there who has had a scan at The University Hospital north staffs and if they can tell me if the hospital put the fathers name on scans.

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TurquoiseDress · 12/07/2014 05:54

Never ever heard of this.

All my scans just had my name on it.

The father's name on a scan would be kind of irrelevant, with respect to ongoing treatment and care for mother & baby.

Sounds very odd indeed.

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shellmont · 12/07/2014 06:45

The exact same scan is on that web site fake baby.com she is a staff nurse at our local hospital so I am beginning to think she has mental health problems my son has her mums number and I might advise him to phone her and tell her what's been going on, the poor girl needs help.

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Mumof3xox · 12/07/2014 06:54

I knew it!

Your poor son

lunar1 · 12/07/2014 07:03

I hope this all gets sorted, it really sounds like she has problems.

GingerRodgers · 12/07/2014 07:12

I can't believe that fake a baby website! ShockHmm
Awful op, hope she comes clean soon.

MrsGrumpyPants · 12/07/2014 07:20

Thank you for updating us Shellmont. For your son and you, I am very relieved. He has a canny mother in his corner! I hope his ex accepts help.

SoonToBeSix- well done!

I'm still amazed that a formal site exists to do this, and that clearly there's a market for it.

Ihavemyownname · 12/07/2014 07:25

Your son needs to contact the police as it's harassment and maybe he could get a non molostation order ?
Just because she is a female doesn't mean she's any different to a male doing this and if it had been the other way found you would have been told to go to the police but because it's a female and she saying she pregnant Hmm it must be a mental illness …

frankiebuns · 12/07/2014 07:28

I had a scan at 6 weeks 8 weeks and 12 so highly possible, but name puts me off I think I smell a rat! I doubt the hospital will tell u if she was or not due to confidentiality might just have to wait and see,

RitaConnors · 12/07/2014 07:31

How awful. For everybody. You, your son and this desperate girl.

MrsGrumpyPants · 12/07/2014 07:33

frankiebuns OP has found out it's definitely a fake, it's from a website, and all the measurements and details are wrong.

BeyoncesCat · 12/07/2014 07:39

Is his name the same font as the rest of the writing?

giraffescantboogie · 12/07/2014 07:41

She is totally trying to bully him :(

She needs help!

Poor son.

Iquitelikeapples · 12/07/2014 07:43

I work in healthcare, I wouldn't want this nurse on my ward. OP, obviously how you handle this is up to you. I would be contacting the hospital to inform them.

DannyShouldHaveChosenRizzo · 12/07/2014 07:48

Phone The Police!!
You need to have this documented and I am sure they would have a quiet word with her before it goes any further.
Hope you manage to get this sorted quickly Op.

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 12/07/2014 08:17

In these circumstances I'd hope that if you reported it to the police they would give her a harassment warning. If she continues to misbehave after that then they're able to prosecute her. I don't think the warning would be career ending in the same way that a conviction might. Not really your son's problem though.

I also think it's worth telling her mum.

I am concerned that the next escalation when she finally gets the message that it's over will be false allegations against your son. A report to the police now, will help him explain if she does this later.

giraffescantboogie · 12/07/2014 08:19

Yes that is true - she has for for manipulation and lies - your ds shouldn't be alone with her now.

giraffescantboogie · 12/07/2014 08:19

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shellmont · 12/07/2014 08:26

I have just taken the dog out before work and she is down the road sitting in her car again, I think I will phone her mother after work,
I have seen her watching the house lots of times in the last 10 days but never approached her but she has gone to far this time.

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Iquitelikeapples · 12/07/2014 08:30

testingtesting makes a good point. Her next escalation may well be claims of violence/abuse against your son. I would be contacting the police & keeping a detailed record of every incident (date/time/where/what she did etc signed & dated after each entry) in case you need it as evidence later. Also printing copies of all emails/texts. You need to protect yourselves.

YouAreMyRain · 12/07/2014 08:31

I cannot believe that website! Shock

Well done MN for exposing this.

Trazzletoes · 12/07/2014 08:36

Yes, please get the Police involved.

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scotchtikidoll · 12/07/2014 08:43

Wow, what it must have taken for you not to lose temper at her just now, seeing her in her car. I agree with other posters- go to the police.

FannyFifer · 12/07/2014 08:49

Speak to her parents.

Give her a chance to get some help, as a nurse she could end up being struck off if she gets charged with anything, career over.

She is obviously very troubled.

FuckYouChrisAndThatHorse · 12/07/2014 09:00

I agree, report to the police. If she has issues that have made making up a pregnancy an acceptable thing to do, them who knows how far she will go? It is very important that your ds speaks to the police before she does. He also needs her to stop harrassing him.

Please get him to call 101 today. If he won't then I think you have enough evidence in the scan photo to at least call for advice.

He needs to realise this could escalate, and he needs to protect himself from that.

That website is terrifying and very sad.