New posifrickentivity thread for pregnancy after miscarriage.

[squizita]

Hand holding and fish slapping...

nerdy how exciting!! Good luck!! Not long now till you will be having newborn snuggles :-)

squitz I'm in 3rd trimester too, a few days apart if I recall, and I've defiantly noticed an upswing in the discharge recently, to the point I've had to change liner during the day. Midwife said to me it's not waters or anything, but one one the joys of pregnancy. How glamorous it all is haha x

I'm 25 weeks and had loads of discharge too. Sometimes it's a bit gushy and has me in a state but when go to the loo it's obviously just cm. Sorry if tmi!

Ps. Pleased to hear good news from tiger and cake!!

Anyone know when nerdy was actually due? Nerdy? You chickened out of adding yourself to the stats!!

Good luck nerdy! Maybe you should name your dc after the electrician?!

Thanks for the good wishes all x

squitza I had soooo much discharge when pregnant with dd, I've never got through so many panty liners oh the joys eh

nerdy I think is booked in at same hospital as me.... Now wondering if she's in the brand new MW led unit.... Testing it out!

Best of luck Nerdy!
Cake, I'm feeling really reassured by your post. I've been bleeding for a week now (rainbow of colours!) and have a private scan booked for this day next week. I'll be 7+5 then.
Tiger, congrats on your scan!

Hi gang! I feel so reassured to be part of this first trimester freakout club! I thi k it's so sad that onde we've been through the experience of mc we are then so scarred and have the constant worry of anything going wrong rather than celebrating being pg...

seasalt and g&t so nice we are having scans on the same day. Let's hope it is all more reassuring. blank I know what you mean about the symptoms. I was worried my boobs weren't swelling up until a couple of days ago, forgetting it's still very early days. Also feeling ridiculously exhausted.

london thanks for the reassurance about the stabby pains. They are only occasional and the reason I've not gone to a&e yet is because surely for ectopic they'd be more constant. Glad to hear your pg is progressing nicely. I remember you from the threat when I was last here.

badgers glad to hear your doctor was so nice and you have mw booked already. Hope your scan will be soon enough too. I saw the same nurse today that I saw with my last early mc. She was also nice, asking how dh and I are, and sent for mw referal. Fx will be before we go away on 11th.

Ellis hope your 12 week scan goes well next tue too. It will come quickly enough! cake great

cake Great news about the scan to

Apologies, don't know it keeps posting too early. Where are you based? Where do they do these £50 private scans?

Good luck nerdy!

Quick update, baby girl born at 20.47 weighing 6lb 5. No name yet. We seem to be ok. I am paranoidly checking her breathing every other minute while she sleeps. Still in hospital for now x

Ellis, glad the ale has worked, I may need to partake as well, although I'm trying not to be obvious in work as with my mmc in sept I was a wreck had two weeks off and every time I entered the office I was in floods of tears, only time my emotionally switched off boss actually showed some sympathy and compassion.

It's moved on so much this thread I need to keep up with you all!

Badgers how are you?

Squiz, as the others said we are not medical. Trust what your team is telling you, sometimes doctor Google is a curse, my very helpful dr receptionist told me I had dor, naturally I googled and well I had myself written off as a lost cause and never having another one, so I say trust doctors not even their receptionists, if there's not at least a seven year degree certificate on their wall, don't listen to them.

Hi silver I'm approx 6+ weeks! Seems like I've known forever as found out about three weeks ago! early tester! Welcome

Gail, ahem I'm behind you and already my trousers are tight, not good not good at all!

London, I fully sympathise with you completely, to have ones thunder stolen isn't nice, how far are you/sil, have you shared your news yet? This is something I've never admitted but, my sil was much the same as yours, full of I'm amazing I can have children we catch so easy etc etc etc and all the while I was having mc after mc and struggling, anyhow, I had a 5 wk cm last April time, she caught in the May, I was devastated thankfully mum was fantastic and acted as negotiator, anyhow we caught again, and I found out on the day sil was rushed into hospital with a mmc at 10 weeks. Like you I'd never wish it on anyone and hubs said the same but likewise and this sounds awful as least after she appreciated where I was at with it all. For well until about a month ago we reached an easy truce especially as she's had two chem pgs since, although now of course no ones had it as bad as she has etc etc, what I'm trying to say is you're very normal and justified if it is how you are feeling. Take good care of yourself and it will work out in the wash, maybe your hubs needs to mention how insensitive it is to go on. Although I know for is sil is very jealous of the relationship I have with my mum, so as much as she tried mum gets torn at times.

Nerdy, how lovely congratulations. Xxx

I'm going to give it until Friday and if I've heard nothing ring epu/my doctor ref my referral as it will have been two weeks since she arranged my going there apparently. If not we will be looking for a private scan next week.

Congrats Nerdy! Such lovely news! Hope you are both doing well!

Congratulations nerdy how wonderful for you :-) enjoy all the snuggles :-)

I have took the liberty of updating the stats:

MeDoingMyThing: 2 DS, 1MC, EDD 14th June 2014
AliceBear: 1 DD 1MMC 1MC EDD 23 June 2014
Fishcake77: 0DC, 2MMC EDD 26 June 2014
Getagoldtoof: 1DC, 1MMC, 1MC EDD 2 July 2014
Louzul: 1MC, EDD 17 July 2014
Alb1 1mmc EDD 30th august
MrsGiraffe12: 1DC, 1MMC, EDD 7th September 2014
Squizita: 3MC, EDD 12 September 2014
OneLittleToddleTerror: 1DD, 1MC, 1 MMC, EDD 18th September 2014
HopefulHamster: 1DS, 1MC, EDD 5th October 2014
Londonjen: 1MMC, EDD 8 October 2014
Wigwam33: 1MC, 1DS, 1MMC & 2MCs, EDD 9th October (or 29th Sep according to NHS)
Fedupofrainydays, 1ds, 2mc, EDD 10 Oct
CorporeSarnie: 1DD, 1MC, EDD 1st Nov
MabelMay: 2DS, 1MC, 1MMC EDD 6th November
Omama 1 DS, 1 MMC, EDD 5th December 2014
Gwlondon 1mc DS 1mmc EDD 5th Dec
BobaFetaCheese; 4 MC, 2DS, EDD 14 December 2014
Seasides: 1 EP, 0DC, EDD 15 Dec 2014
Amicablemoomin; 2MC, 0DS, EDD 19 December 2014
QuietTiger; 0DC, 1DD (Stillborn), 1MMC, 3MC, EDD 25th December 2014
CallingAllEngels 2MC, 1DS, EDD 28th December 2014
aMuminwaiting: 5MC, 2MMC, EDD 31st December 2014
Cuppachaplz: 1 DS (twin MC'd), 8MC, 1 EP, 5 MMC, EDD 2nd January 2015
TeaRex: 1MMC, 1DD, EDD 7th January 2015
DitzyDonkey: 1MMC, 1DS, EDD 9th January 2015
Cakebaker35: 1DD, 1mmc twins, EDD 20th January 2015
GailLondon: 1 DD, 1 MC at 12 weeks, EDD 30th Jan 2015

Thread Babies:

Jessw25 Baby Oliver born 9 July 2013 5lb 11oz
BobaFetaCheese Baby Alexander born 30 July 2013 7lb 4oz
Andadietcoke twin girls born 29 August Charlotte 5lb 5oz & Sophie 7lb 13oz
Pentagon baby Elsie born 23 October 7lb 5oz
Bodicea baby James born 3 November 8lb
Ibelieveinpink baby Imogen born 14 November 7lb 4oz
BumpKitty baby Matilda born 18 Nov 8lb 2oz
Luckysocks13 baby Charlotte born 24 Nov 8lb
Jmf294 baby Alexander James born 25 Nov 7lb 4oz
Shellsocks baby Noah Stephen born 27 Nov 9lb 3.5oz
Gardenworm baby Wolfie born 1 December
Janielovesluckysocks baby Leo Thomas born 4 Dec 7lb 5oz
Bootyluscious baby Sofia born 17 December 6lb 2oz
ChocolateTeabag: baby Joss born 18 December 7lb 7oz
Blackholes: Baby girl born 23 December
WhatwillSantabring: Baby boy born 6 January 8lbs 7oz
pumpkinsweetie: Baby girl born 7 January 6lb 4 oz
Christinedaae - Baby girl Sawyer born 6th Feb 9lb11.5oz
MissMedusa: Baby Rhydian Thursday 27 Feb 1080g
TotalShock - Baby James born 25 February 8lb 1oz
Swangirl: Baby boy, 4 March
SaggyOldClothPussCat: Lucy Elanor 7 March 7lb
Pixielady83: Baby girl, 9 March
GuffSmuggler: Baby boy, 3 March
Fod: Baby Girl, 7 April, 10lb 3
TeaAndANatter: Baby Henry born 18 April 7lb 15oz
Kjh5: Baby Logan born 19 April 3.3kg
CbeebiesIsMyLife: Baby boy born 2 May
Tomkat: Baby Lolly born 16 May
Bakingtins: Baby Faith born 23 May 5lb 3oz
Penguinita: Baby Elanor born 27th May 6lb 1oz
Emki: Baby Michael born 29th May 9lb 10oz
Pgchimp: Baby boy born 16th June
Nerdy bird: baby girl born 1st July

Hi MrsG, can I please be added to that wonderful list.
Blankfornames; 1 MC at 6 weeks. EDD of DC1 19th February 2015.
Thanks!

Whoooo Nerdy :) :) :) Congratulations.

Huge congratulations nerdy

silverline I'm in Oxfordshire. First scan was £120 then each one after is £50 (for the same preg obviously). It is a fantastic place with a brilliant Dr who does all the scans herself and is an expert in fetal medicine. If you're anywhere near then pm me for details - and anyone else for that matter, I can't recommend her highly enough.

Hi david I found out last mon and only 4+5 today. It really drags...
Where are you based? The homerton in London accept self-referral with prev mcs.
Congrats nerdy! X

Great news nerdy :) hope you're enjoying lovely cuddles with your brand new daughter and you're back home soon :) x

Thanks for the details cake! Will try that self referral place first and see how things go.

I leave the thread for a few hours and it all gets exciting! Nerdy - woo-hoo, congratulations Thread babies give us all hope - I'm feeling really happy now after that.

Cake - Dr Who does the scans?! Can you then time travel 9 months ahead and cut out all this bloody waiting? Now THAT would be a service worth paying for.... Shame I'm in Cornwall.

MrsG can you add me: BadgersInTheSlurryLagoon, 1MMC, 2MC, EDD 24 Feb. Thanks!

Update stats again for the 2 lovely ladies who requested it :-)

MeDoingMyThing: 2 DS, 1MC, EDD 14th June 2014
AliceBear: 1 DD 1MMC 1MC EDD 23 June 2014
Fishcake77: 0DC, 2MMC EDD 26 June 2014
Getagoldtoof: 1DC, 1MMC, 1MC EDD 2 July 2014
Louzul: 1MC, EDD 17 July 2014
Alb1 1mmc EDD 30th august
MrsGiraffe12: 1DC, 1MMC, EDD 7th September 2014
Squizita: 3MC, EDD 12 September 2014
OneLittleToddleTerror: 1DD, 1MC, 1 MMC, EDD 18th September 2014
HopefulHamster: 1DS, 1MC, EDD 5th October 2014
Londonjen: 1MMC, EDD 8 October 2014
Wigwam33: 1MC, 1DS, 1MMC & 2MCs, EDD 9th October (or 29th Sep according to NHS)
Fedupofrainydays, 1ds, 2mc, EDD 10 Oct
CorporeSarnie: 1DD, 1MC, EDD 1st Nov
MabelMay: 2DS, 1MC, 1MMC EDD 6th November
Omama 1 DS, 1 MMC, EDD 5th December 2014
Gwlondon 1mc DS 1mmc EDD 5th Dec
BobaFetaCheese; 4 MC, 2DS, EDD 14 December 2014
Seasides: 1 EP, 0DC, EDD 15 Dec 2014
Amicablemoomin; 2MC, 0DS, EDD 19 December 2014
QuietTiger; 0DC, 1DD (Stillborn), 1MMC, 3MC, EDD 25th December 2014
CallingAllEngels 2MC, 1DS, EDD 28th December 2014
aMuminwaiting: 5MC, 2MMC, EDD 31st December 2014
Cuppachaplz: 1 DS (twin MC'd), 8MC, 1 EP, 5 MMC, EDD 2nd January 2015
TeaRex: 1MMC, 1DD, EDD 7th January 2015
DitzyDonkey: 1MMC, 1DS, EDD 9th January 2015
Cakebaker35: 1DD, 1mmc twins, EDD 20th January 2015
GailLondon: 1 DD, 1 MC at 12 weeks, EDD 30th Jan 2015
Blankfornames; 1 MC at 6 weeks. EDD of DC1 19th February 2015.
BadgersInTheSlurryLagoon, 1MMC, 2MC, EDD 24 Feb.

Thread Babies:

Jessw25 Baby Oliver born 9 July 2013 5lb 11oz
BobaFetaCheese Baby Alexander born 30 July 2013 7lb 4oz
Andadietcoke twin girls born 29 August Charlotte 5lb 5oz & Sophie 7lb 13oz
Pentagon baby Elsie born 23 October 7lb 5oz
Bodicea baby James born 3 November 8lb
Ibelieveinpink baby Imogen born 14 November 7lb 4oz
BumpKitty baby Matilda born 18 Nov 8lb 2oz
Luckysocks13 baby Charlotte born 24 Nov 8lb
Jmf294 baby Alexander James born 25 Nov 7lb 4oz
Shellsocks baby Noah Stephen born 27 Nov 9lb 3.5oz
Gardenworm baby Wolfie born 1 December
Janielovesluckysocks baby Leo Thomas born 4 Dec 7lb 5oz
Bootyluscious baby Sofia born 17 December 6lb 2oz
ChocolateTeabag: baby Joss born 18 December 7lb 7oz
Blackholes: Baby girl born 23 December
WhatwillSantabring: Baby boy born 6 January 8lbs 7oz
pumpkinsweetie: Baby girl born 7 January 6lb 4 oz
Christinedaae - Baby girl Sawyer born 6th Feb 9lb11.5oz
MissMedusa: Baby Rhydian Thursday 27 Feb 1080g
TotalShock - Baby James born 25 February 8lb 1oz
Swangirl: Baby boy, 4 March
SaggyOldClothPussCat: Lucy Elanor 7 March 7lb
Pixielady83: Baby girl, 9 March
GuffSmuggler: Baby boy, 3 March
Fod: Baby Girl, 7 April, 10lb 3
TeaAndANatter: Baby Henry born 18 April 7lb 15oz
Kjh5: Baby Logan born 19 April 3.3kg
CbeebiesIsMyLife: Baby boy born 2 May
Tomkat: Baby Lolly born 16 May
Bakingtins: Baby Faith born 23 May 5lb 3oz
Penguinita: Baby Elanor born 27th May 6lb 1oz
Emki: Baby Michael born 29th May 9lb 10oz
Pgchimp: Baby boy born 16th June
Nerdy bird: baby girl born 1st July

badgers ha ha yes I've booked in for time travel to end of jan

blank glad to be of some reassurance. I'll be keeping everything crossed for your scan next week, time really drags doesn't it but by then you should have a nice clear view of your little bean