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The Elderberry Helicopter #3, in which we continue to fret and play 'guess the sex'

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Boomgoestheweasel · 05/12/2013 20:20

Open to all elderberry grads and anyone who fits the berry criteria: over 30, pregnant with #1 after trying for a loooong time, and nervous as hell. Come on in for handholding and nub theory!

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Thunderpantsarego · 12/12/2013 12:11

Hooray congrats on scan angel!
Do you have any preference/thoughts either way re boy/girl? Bit confusing as boom says she usually gets it wrong yet she and merk agree this time- what could it mean?!! Smile

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Angelina77 · 12/12/2013 12:42

I think boy but I'd be happy either way. BF already has a daughter so I think secretly he would prefer a boy. I think we will have to go for a sexing scan after Xmas.

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Boomgoestheweasel · 12/12/2013 13:14

If I'm right it'll be a first (and a fluke!!)

merk I know I can't get smp as not worked long enough, so will try for MA. I meant more stuff like child benefit, tax credits...I don't even really know what they are let alone whether I'm eligible! The benefits system and I have never had dealings before and I'm totally lost!

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CatsCantFlyFast · 12/12/2013 13:42

Boom
start here that should tell you everything you may be entitled to

Separate info on;
child tax credit
child benefit
benefits for families overview

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BlearyeyedLol · 12/12/2013 13:43

Girls do you remember winkle/ twinkle?!!
She needs to join the copter GrinGrinGrinGrin
A few of you might want to pop over to the bfp wishes came true thread and try to lure her over GrinGrinGrin

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Thunderpantsarego · 12/12/2013 14:19

I was going to ask after twinkle recently. Hooray!!!!!
Come in twinks come in!

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twinklestar2 · 12/12/2013 15:01

Xmas Grin

Hello, it's very early days and I'm crapping myself!

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BlearyeyedLol · 12/12/2013 15:12

We will hold your hand twinks every step of the wayGrin
There is a secret fb group for whenever you feel ready to join us xx

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CatsCantFlyFast · 12/12/2013 15:15

Twinkle just to repeat my prev msg, congratulations! Think I've had a name change since you were last around
Anyway we've had some recent BFPs so there's some others on here not in a dissimilar place to you. And we all remember the early scary days so feel free to worry on here, we've been there Grin

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Boomgoestheweasel · 12/12/2013 15:21

Congrats twinkle! Do come and do some mentalling with us Grin we all remember the early days and how fraught they are, you're in good company!

Well I've started filling out forms and immediately given up. I'm amazed anybody claims anything at all, I hate stupid forms! Can't even fill in the one for maternity allowance as hr dept isn't answering phone. Feel like I've wasted an afternoon that I'll never get back!

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funkymonk · 12/12/2013 20:32

Is the gender game just a guess or do you guys know what you're looking for?!

Congratulations twinkle I'm a newbie to the copter so please come and fret in here with me!

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funkymonk · 12/12/2013 20:34

But boom you had bacon sarnies this morning, meaning that today is an overall win.

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qazxc · 12/12/2013 21:40

Congrats twinkle!
Does anybody have any recommendation for dopplers? Am thinking of getting one for reassurance.

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CatsCantFlyFast · 12/12/2013 21:42

Qaz my Doppler is just a cheap one from amazon, think its called an angelcare or something similar. Has worked perfectly from early on for me. Make sure you have some speakers though rather than using the headphones

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CatsCantFlyFast · 12/12/2013 22:11

Angelsounds is actually what its called

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Thunderpantsarego · 12/12/2013 22:20

Mmmmm bacon.

I have a cheap Amazon doppler too qaz. Angel something. Think it was about £25 last autumn.

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Thunderpantsarego · 12/12/2013 22:21

Or maybe babysounds? too lazy to get up and check it's pink.

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BlearyeyedLol · 12/12/2013 22:46

If it's pink it's bound to be a good one thunder GrinGrinGrin

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Thunderpantsarego · 12/12/2013 22:51

Precisely lol.

It's just like cars eh- get a good colour and you're sorted Wink

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BlearyeyedLol · 12/12/2013 22:54

By the way according to my calculations you are second in line after quod. She is due this week which will then mean you are nextWinkWink- unless you are still in denial about having an actual baby??

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BlindKitty · 12/12/2013 23:20

Qaz mine is an angel sounds one. Have heard the heart beat every time even if its just a cheapie

twinkle Hello again and congrats! I think I've prob had a name change too since we last saw you. Can I be nosey and ask your story?

angel fab scan news. Doubt it's very accurate but I'm going to try and work out the baby's bpm tomorrow to determine the sex. Apparently boys have a faster rate than girls..we shall see!!!

thunder I didn't bother having a bath as you thought it was too early!

boom hope you've enjoyed you're day off and getting plenty more kicks!

merk hope you're feeling better

Where's foodie? Haven't seen her for a few days?!

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Boomgoestheweasel · 13/12/2013 06:31

Must not spoil kitty's fun and tell her the heartbeats don't tell you the sex..must not...oh Grin if you're going to give it a go though it's 140+ equals a girl. By this calculation both mine are team pink!

Don't think my Doppler is angel sounds, and it's not pink BOOO. But it was £20 from amazon and works perfectly well!

Squeeeee thunder's next!!

Wish I had a bacon sarnie again. Porridge in the staff room it is then...

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BlearyeyedLol · 13/12/2013 07:08

I'm going to start chanting every morning...
Thunder is next, thunder is next, thunder is next...
Hopefully you will believe it soon.
Oh and I also hope all that wedding dress modelling you've done has given you some spare cash for baby stuff Wink

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Thunderpantsarego · 13/12/2013 07:42

What is this lol, are you on a mischief rampage or sommat??

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BlindKitty · 13/12/2013 08:16

thunder is next...

boom twin girls!!! Yey!! Xmas Wink

I have left over pizza for breakfast from my Xmas meal last night Xmas Grin ooh and I've for a day off...unlike my Dh who is still in bed and feeling very sorry for himself because he's so hungover from his works party...my heart bleeds Xmas Hmm

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