The Elderberry helicopter, for nub debates, holey tights and boxing pirate scans

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Open to all elderberry grads and anyone who fits the berry criteria: over 30, 1st to early 2nd trimester(ish) with #1 after trying for a loooong time, and nervous as hell. Come on in for handholding and nub theory!

So very sorry to hear this feather, hugs x x x

oh feather, I'm so sorry.
sending you huge hugs here. That's horrible to hear. take it easy and don't beat yourself up.

Really sorry to hear this Feather.

Feather I am so very sorry to hear this, how gutting. Sending my thoughts, make sure you look after yourself.

Feather what devastating news. I am so so so sorry. What happens now/next? Is there any way they can save the tube?

Gutted to hear this feather. xxxxxx
(((( hugs ))))

Thank you all, I don't know what to do or say. Just back from hospital and they have given two scenarios:

The operate to remove it, and try to
Save my tube although no guarantee

Or

They give me a drug called methotrexate - it's a cancer/chemo drug that stops the cells growing. Takes three months to work (if it works) and would therefore be showing preg symptoms as my body would think it's still pregnant.

Now just waiting on blood test results and don't know what to do. I want it to be over with a quick as possible so leaning towards surgery. I can't believe this is happening. I'm in hell right now.

feather I truley am so sorry to hear you're news. Praying they'll be able to save your tube. So lost for words, please know that we're all here and thinking of you xxxxxx

Feather I'm so sorry to hear your very sad news. We are all here for you as and when you need us and you are very much in all of our thoughts. Take care xx

feather what a difficult decision. Am I right in thinking you were due shortly to start IVF? If so, would that play a part in your decision?

I was due to start IUI, but looks like it's going to be ivf. Thank you all for your words of support. Will check in again when I can xxxx

So sorry feather, thinking of you x

just caught up. really sorry to hear this news feather

Just catching up too, feather I'm so sorry. What absolutely awful news. Sending love and thoughts to you and DH. Keep us all updated, we are thinking of you x

Horrible times feather, and a v difficult decision: will be thinking of you xxx

feather I can't believe you're facing such a decision. This is so wrong that you're in this position . I'm sure you'll make the right one x

feather it's so awful i don't really know what to say. please don't hesitate to come and talk to us (i know that talking to mn hugely helped me as it allowed me to say things i couldn't or didn't feel i could in RL).

feather just seen this, I'm so so sorry. Utterly unfair and so difficult for you. Sending you loads of love, we're here for you if you need us. Hope you have lots of support in RL and that whichever option you choose works well. Take care of yourself xxx

My IVF pregnancy is over, it was a chemical.

lady so sorry for you, take care of yourself.

Lady how utterly shitty. So very sorry, be good to yourself hon x x

lady I'm so so sorry this is terrible news. The berries aren't doing too well this week at all

Oh shit lady how awful. Not a good time in the copter. for you.