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SamanthaB123 · 16/11/2010 04:23

Our new thread to take us through the Chrisnas season. Pull up a chair, grab a mince pie and join us for support in pregnancy post miscarriage. All welcome!

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clareanna · 15/12/2010 23:00

Fab news moo think I guessed boy Grin !!!!
so chuffed for you- will be thinking of viv tomorrow too x

WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 16/12/2010 06:41

moo thats just incredible news.... Xmas Grin i have been grinning like an idiot for you too since hearing your news...just wonderful. x

appleblossoms · 16/12/2010 09:17

oooh moo a boy! How exciting. Glad everything went well. Xmas Grin

youremindmeofthebaubles · 16/12/2010 09:22

Yey moo Xmas SmileXmas Smile

And regarding making baby shift position, try this: whenever you sit down you should try to lean forwards, basically so your boobs are over your knees, using a chair for support. Sounds kind of uncomfortable. (my mum's a midwife) Good luck ladies!

Gi1da · 16/12/2010 09:49

Thursday's list:

Zayja - baby#1 40+5 wks EDD 11th December
Goodluckbear - baby#1 39+5 wks EDD 18th December
Malteser1981 - baby#1 39+5 wks EDD 18th December
Gilda - baby#1 38+5 wks EDD 25th December
BunnyBaby - baby#3 38+5 wks EDD 25th December
sparklyrainbow - baby#1 38 wks EDD 30th December
AlbaDeTamble - baby#2 (1DS, 3yrs) 37+3 wks EDD 3rd January
toomuchteaching - baby#1 37+1 wks EDD 5th January
Redheadgal - baby#1 37 wks EDD 6th January
WestYorkshireGirl - baby#1 35+3 wks EDD 18th January
Dorcas111 - baby#1 33+6 wks EDD 28th January
Ba8y1 - baby#1 32+6 wks EDD 4th February
Clareanna - baby#2 (1DS) 31+6 wks ADD 3rd Feb
Lotta123 - baby#? 31+6 wks EDD 10th Feb
Muser - baby#1 29+4 wks EDD 27th Feb
Northerngoldilocks - baby#1 26+6 wks EDD 18 March
Magic8ballhastheanswers - babies#3&4 26+2 wks next scan 21st Dec
Lia - baby#6 26+1 wks EDD 23rd March
Hopefully - baby#2 24+6 wks EDD 2nd April
stuffedmk - baby#2 24+4 wks EDD 4th April
Osch - Baby#3 23+4 wks EDD 10th April
Ivysedai - baby#2 22 wks EDD 21st April
PenguinsMummy - baby#3 22 wks EDD 21st April
VivClicquot - baby#1 20+1 wks EDD 4th May
Loopymumsy - baby#4 20 wks EDD 5th May
Tigerbear - baby#1 18+3 wks EDD 14th May
Caribou - baby #2 (DD, 3yrs) 18+1 wks EDD 18th May. Next scan 5th Jan
appleblossoms - baby#2 14+5 wks EDD 11th June
crochetcircle - baby#1 14+5 wks EDD 11th June
LittleMiss - baby#1 12+5 wks EDD 24th June
Wobblewatcher - baby#2 12+2 wks EDD 27th June
Inbetweener - baby#3 9+4 wks EDD 17th July

emmywoo- about 8 weeks
Purplehibiscus - nearly 7 weeks
Nicksters mum (in Chrissy cossy)

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:
Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May, 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August, 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son Charlie born on 30th September, 6lbs 8oz
SamB with daughter Ruby Mae born 19th October, 7lbs 10oz
Effilump with son Arlen born 16th October, 8lbs
Sarahlou8 with daughter Emily Isabella born 21st October, 7lb8oz
Unbuffy with son James Anthony born 3rd December, 6lb8oz
HappyGirl - with daughter Ciara born 10th December, 8lb2oz

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October

We share the pain and mourn the loss with:
Jollster, Cheepz, Freezing, BarrenBrook, MsJL, LadyBee, Banana87, BatteryHen, HairyTriangle and Waterplate.

AlbaDeTamble · 16/12/2010 10:35

Lovely news moo

thinking of you today Viv

and very excited for the 9 of us in the 37 wks plus bracket at the top of the list! I keep checking in for news.... not anytime soon for me I don't think, though a few symptoms of impending action, sickness and mild contractions yesterday evening, but also loads of big movements, hopefully my little acrobat just getting himself into a better position (told DH I thought it was tummy bug and didn't mention all the contractions, he has a big meeting this morning so figured best I didn't distract him...). Scan this afternoon so we shall see. Also completely exhausted! Can I postpone Xmas?? Maybe pretend I ordered everyone's presents online and that the snow we're about to get delayed them all??? DH has had loads of work deadlines, I'm hoping today's was the last and then I can just send him to the shops with lists.....

Are the rest of you at the top chilled out and waiting patiently or madly symptom spotting like me? I must stop it, I'm well aware it could go on like this for weeks.... But am getting very impatient...

Gi1da · 16/12/2010 10:47

Wow Clarea I just googled realised where you were staying and OMG that must have been fabulous! Is the hotel as amazing on the inside as it looks from the outside? An excellent use of HMRC's money I would say, or at least how kind of them to act as a bonus holiday piggy bank for you! Smile

Redhead and Toomt I hope your last days at work are going well and that everyone's in a cheery festive mood to make the end of it jolly and fun. Two days to go WOO HOO!

Luckybear you've inspired me to have pancakes for a late breakfast - I know the lemon juice will kick off my heartburn - but I don't care! Nom nom nom!!

AppleB sympathise with the 'having to be excited' thang. Sometimes you just have to grit your teeth a force out a smile. But then you can come here and let it all out - hoorah!

Moo still delighted for ya!

Malteser hmm feeling a bit meh with my cmw - they have suggested that I pick up the homebirth kit myself at an appointment next week (is at a place a bit further away than usual so have to drive there) - I will be 39+3! Hmm I assume they think bobbins ain't going anywhere just yet! PS - Good luck on your timings for portering service to be on call!

Alba you sound really organised and ready for anything! Note to self to get bag and bits ready just in case. Any more twinges? Not long left for any of us in the Christmassy baby season!

Zayja thinking of you and hoping you're either ahem busy, or managing the Seemingly Interminable Wait for Baby with good grace! x

Happy waves to all at the top of the tree, and all those nestling in the branches!

Gi1da · 16/12/2010 10:50

LOL cross posted with Alba - and there was me thinking you were all sorted for Christmas! Big sympathetic hug!

I would symptom spot like mad - but I don't have any!! Boo hoo!! Wonder if this is gonna be a stealth baby... nothing, nothing, then ooooo!!! Grin

AlbaDeTamble · 16/12/2010 10:56

Gilda, I'm Shock at you having to pick up homebirth kit yourself... It's a big crateful of stuff... Midwife left mine in the hall and I'm leaving it for DH to move upstairs, I hope someone's going to carry it to your car for you!! Though I suppose if labour starts you just have to tell them you don't have the kit and they'll have to bring one with them on the night Hmm?

I may be ready for baby, but definitely not ready for Xmas... Can you tell which I'm looking forward to more??

Right, must switch to shopping sites and tick off a few more pressies from the list...

zayja · 16/12/2010 11:04

Hi Ladies,
Just checking in to say hi no news yet :( Just waiting for a sign that something's started. I get pains down low in the evening and BH contractions, but still nothing major or regular. MW is talking about induction middle of next week. I so want this girl to come naturally, but don't know how long I can or should wait. Also nst and scan went fine on Mon., she's snug as a bug in there, have another nst tomorrow but hoping something starts before then. Sorry for me post - feeling totally consumed with baby thoughts! Hope everyone is getting on fine and prepping for lovely holidays. Will check in again soon to see if anyone near the top jumps past me :) Take care all!

AlbaDeTamble · 16/12/2010 11:10

Zayja, I really feel for you, I went 2 weeks over with DS and it felt like an eternity. But try not to worry about induction. I was induced, it took one prostin gel pessary and everything started, and after that it was just like a normal, natural delivery. You'll find lots of stories of cascades of interventions etc but it really isn't always the case.

I wish I'd known it was going to be so fine, then I may have slept the night before!

sparklyrainbow · 16/12/2010 12:50

Yay for Moo and a boy too. So pleased for you! Hope everything's ok today Viv.

Clare can I just be an echo for a minute and say WOW!
Muse glad GTT is ok, cake is a necessary I feel Xmas Grin
Toomuch hope the kids are relatively calm for your last couple of days. I am going to my school's carol concert tonight, I'm usually in it (choir and orchestra) so it's going to be a bit different this year!

Alba I will join you in madly symptom spotting! Saw the mw this morning (a cover one- why is it the two cover/'out of area' midwives I have seen have been SO much more helpful and nicer than my actual cmw?), and she couldn't really feel his head at all- 1/5- and he's in a good position. So he's all ready to go- as long as he stays in position! Have had a few random painful contractions and some more show type gunk (TMI sorry!) so we'll see... mw reckoned it could be soon (ha!). Feel more energetic than I have done for weeks, wonder if that's a sign...

Waves to everyone at the top and all those below- it'll be you before you know it! xx

Muser · 16/12/2010 17:16

b zayja
you might want to read this article about being overdue. When you're considered 'overdue' varies in different countries. If you don't want to be induced you could ask for monitoring instead. The Guardian

My mum was apparently induced with all 3 of us and had fine, straight forward births with just gas and air. So it doesn't have to be scary.

Magic8ballhastheanswers · 16/12/2010 17:47

Hi ladies just a quickie, am going in for bloods tomorrow as the itching is becoming unbearable, I literally can't sit still and I am shattered from lack of sleep!

Thinking of all you 37+ weekers at the top of the list about to pop!!!!

Yay for team blue Moo chuffed for you xxxxx

Clare Envy at your blingtatsic holiday!

Promise to catch up properly over the weekend (will probably be snowed in again) I need to go and have ANOTHER shower.......

xxxxxxxxxx

clareanna · 16/12/2010 19:23

Evening all- am Blush at wagtastic holiday. Dh is an arch haggler so we got a v good deal!!! Will be saving up for next 10 yrs to go again!
How is everyone one today?

magic glad you're getting the itchy checked- hoping it's stretching itch and nothing else.

viv hope all ok?

SamanthaB123 · 16/12/2010 20:21

Hi Everyone,

It?s ages since I posted, partly because I have conquered feeding lying down, so Ruby feeds and I doze. Much more civilised but less time for mumsnetting! There has been loads of really good news recently I see!

Congratulations Happy I am delighted for you and Ciara is a lovely name. I hope that you are getting on ok and having lots of lovely cuddles with your baby.

I?m looking back over the last few pages of posts and see that things are defiantly moving in the right direction for Sparkly - I hope that you have a quick and stress free labour! I only had a show with DD1, I went into labour about three hours after it. With the other two it must have come out with the babies as it was unnoticed.

Muser I?m really glad that your sickness has finally subsided. Lousy that it has lasted so long too.

Viv I hope that your scan today was good and has reassured you.

Louise I have been popping in to see if you had posted any news. I hope that you are ok, I am thinking of you, particularly with Christmas coming. I hope that you are still having some good days.

Apples I was really unsure about telling people too although I was so massive so early that everyone knew already really. It was only after the 20 week scan that I finally believed that I was actually going to have a baby. I couldn?t bring myself to buy anything before that either and even then when I did I kept thinking that if I lost the baby I would look silly for having bought things. I still thought that on odd occasions right up to the end Blush.

Magic Hun I hope you are ok, you sound rather large. The itching must be awful too. You do sound like you are doing really well. Are you having an section? I can?t remember now.

Goodluck You are very brave ?doing? Christmas. If you don?t want to, you don?t have to have people over. I felt very sad that you didn?t have anyone to talk to, talk to us if you need to. After last year (don?t ask) we are having a ?quiet? Christmas... I see you are also having problems Buffy, it?s such a shame isn?t it?

Toomuch You must be so nearly there. Snowing well here tonight, will you get a snow day tomorrow? You have done brilliantly to keep going and you?re going to be able to rest now ? you won?t know yourself!

Moo Congatulations of your scan, a boy baby, how lovely!

Hello to everyone else especially those at the top of the list - Zayja, Goodluck, Malteser, Gilda, Bunny, Alba, Redhead - I keep looking to see if there is any news and can?t wait to welcome all your babies. It?s strange you know, I remember you all arriving on the thread and have read through all the ups and downs that there have been. The last few weeks can be really difficult to navigate, the symptom spotting is rather akin to waiting for an elusive BFP.

I hope that the snow won?t hinder anyone. As I mentioned earlier we have settling snow here and we weren?t in the area where it was particularly expected today. I did do an emergency shop this morning so that if we did get snowed in again over the weekend we could eat. I guess it was lucky that I did!

Ruby and I are doing very nicely, she is eight weeks now. I feel like she has been with us forever and not a mere few weeks. She had her check-up(6-8 week check with gp) and first round of jabs on Tuesday and was brilliant. Although you can give calpol if it?s needed (some babies are unwell afterwards) she was absolutely fine and we didn?t bother. She barely even cried. She now weighs 10lbs 11oz and for the first time weighs more than DH did when he was born Grin! Her sleeps are generally falling into a pattern although she still sleeps a lot of the time. She tends to wake up, feed and then have an active period of about 30 minutes to an hour. Having been awake she then sleeps again and the cycle starts all over. In the night though I feed in the dark and do not encourage playing after the feed. Often, once the feed is finished I can see her grinning in the dark and she makes giggling sounds and coos to woo me. It?s hard to ignore it, I just want to laugh with her!

I've become a bit distracted at the end of the post...it's busy here! I hope I haven't made any horrible errors or missed out anyone with wonderful news. I'm really sorry if I have...

I hope everyone is very well and warm this evening, come on little babies...SB x

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CaribouMoo · 16/12/2010 20:48

Thanks everyone - and Gi1da you hormonal loon!! That's the kind of thing I do too, sit and weep at folk's happy news! Still grinning away over here. Feels really bizarre at the thought of having a boy, I always imagined I would have another girl. Totally delighted. Clare!! You did indeed predict this, I remember your FB message saying you thought I would have a boy.

Apples we crossed last night, good luck at the MW next week. I am determined now to move away from the scared and anxious camp and start to enjoy this a little. Hope to see you in the excited camp soon. I'm 18 weeks but I paid for a private scan yesterday as was driving myself nuts and 20 week scan in Jan after the hols, when I think I'll be 21 weeks.

I'm also excited to see who will be next at the top of the list, so many to chose from. Can't join in with the symptom spotting having had an elective section but excited nonetheless to see what happens!

8s how you getting on with the itching? What else could be causing it, other than stretching? Glad you hear you are taking action.

SamB good to hear from you again. Ruby has been very brave and its great to see you both settling so well, she sounds like a wee darling.

I am shattered tonight. DD is ill, has a fever and coming down with a cold. Today is the only time I have seen her willingly lie on the couch under a blanket all day. However, I now feel achey and my eyes are desperate to close! Must get to bed soon....

Looking forward to hearing from Viv if she doesn't get home too late from her Christmas night out xx

malteser1981 · 17/12/2010 08:57

Gilda - if I were you I would ring the community manager and get a kit delivered asap. It's unreasonable to wait until 39+ weeks before you collect it. Stamp your feet!!

Magic - hope your bloods are ok

Moo - fabulous news

I was up in the night with cramp, I confess to being quite excited and hopeful. I took my own advice, 2 cocodamol, a hot drink and try to get back to sleep. And unfortunately I have just woken up again!! Not take off just yet then!!

Sending labour vibes to Zayja
And GLB I will be so jealous if you deliver first!! Xmas Wink

Have a good day all xx

VivClicquot · 17/12/2010 11:33

Morning everyone xx

Just a quickie from me - today's my last day in the office before the Christmas break (two weeks off - yay!) so I'm frantically trying to get everything wrapped up before I go.

Yesterday went really well - everything is as it should be, although the good behaviour and compliance that we had at the nuchal scan and the 16 week mw appointment was not in evidence! We had one very wriggly baby, who was intent on putting his or her legs behind their head for most of it, and wouldn't pose for any decent pictures. :)

Anyway, everything was absolutely fine - we didn't find out the sex, although I do wonder whether I did see a teeny tiny penis in there - so after being Team Pink after the 12 week scan, I'm now erring towards Team Blue. Oh - and he or she appears to have a MASSIVE nose on them. I knew it must be significant when the sonographer blurted out, "Crikey! Whose nose is THAT?" Grin God help the poor little soul.

Lots of tears of relief afterwards, but like moo, I'm now actually starting to believe that I may end up with a baby and plan to try and enjoy the next few months weeks days, at the very least.

Love to all. Will check in properly later or over the weekend once work is behind me...

xxxx

SamanthaB123 · 17/12/2010 11:45

Viv I had been checking in to see if you had posted - congratulations - you are having a baby!!! Now comes the fun bit...you can go shopping Grin

Any news at the top of the list???

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Muser · 17/12/2010 11:53

Lovely news Viv. I'm sure your baby will grow into his/her nose!

clareanna · 17/12/2010 14:08

Viv wonderful news!! you were measuring ahead at 12 week scan as well weren't you? This is my theory for boys...
If it's any help - at 16 wk scan I guessed it was a boy and sonographer agreed - it looked like one of those victoria light switches in profile - a semi circular mound with a little "switch" at the top.. if that makes ANY SENSE AT ALL...

hang in there Zayja - it really can't be
long now....!

magic when will you get your blood tests back?

Friday's list:

Zayja - baby#1 40+6 wks EDD 11th December
Goodluckbear - baby#1 39+6 wks EDD 18th December
Malteser1981 - baby#1 39+6 wks EDD 18th December
Gilda - baby#1 38+6 wks EDD 25th December
BunnyBaby - baby#3 38+6 wks EDD 25th December
sparklyrainbow - baby#1 38+1 wks EDD 30th December
AlbaDeTamble - baby#2 (1DS, 3yrs) 37+4 wks EDD 3rd January
toomuchteaching - baby#1 37+2 wks EDD 5th January
Redheadgal - baby#1 37+1 wks EDD 6th January
WestYorkshireGirl - baby#1 35+4 wks EDD 18th January
Dorcas111 - baby#1 34 wks EDD 28th January
Ba8y1 - baby#1 33 wks EDD 4th February
Clareanna - baby#2 (1DS) 32 wks ADD 3rd Feb
Lotta123 - baby#? 32 wks EDD 10th Feb
Muser - baby#1 29+5 wks EDD 27th Feb
Northerngoldilocks - baby#1 27 wks EDD 18 March
Magic8ballhastheanswers - babies#3&4 26+3 wks next scan 21st Dec
Lia - baby#6 26+2 wks EDD 23rd March
Hopefully - baby#2 25 wks EDD 2nd April
stuffedmk - baby#2 24+5 wks EDD 4th April
Osch - Baby#3 23+5 wks EDD 10th April
Ivysedai - baby#2 22+1 wks EDD 21st April
PenguinsMummy - baby#3 22+1 wks EDD 21st April
VivClicquot - baby#1 20+2 wks EDD 4th May
Loopymumsy - baby#4 20+1 wks EDD 5th May
Tigerbear - baby#1 18+4 wks EDD 14th May
Caribou - baby #2 (DD, 3yrs) 18+2 wks EDD 18th May. Next scan 5th Jan
appleblossoms - baby#2 14+6 wks EDD 11th June
crochetcircle - baby#1 14+6 wks EDD 11th June
LittleMiss - baby#1 12+6 wks EDD 24th June
Wobblewatcher - baby#2 12+3 wks EDD 27th June
Inbetweener - baby#3 9+5 wks EDD 17th July

emmywoo- about 8 weeks
Purplehibiscus - nearly 7 weeks
Nicksters mum (in Chrissy cossy)

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:
Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May, 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August, 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son Charlie born on 30th September, 6lbs 8oz
SamB with daughter Ruby Mae born 19th October, 7lbs 10oz
Effilump with son Arlen born 16th October, 8lbs
Sarahlou8 with daughter Emily Isabella born 21st October, 7lb8oz
Unbuffy with son James Anthony born 3rd December, 6lb8oz
HappyGirl - with daughter Ciara born 10th December, 8lb2oz

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October

We share the pain and mourn the loss with:
Jollster, Cheepz, Freezing, BarrenBrook, MsJL, LadyBee, Banana87, BatteryHen, HairyTriangle and Waterplate.

Magic8ballhastheanswers · 17/12/2010 19:28

ello ello ello,

So just got back from day asses unit. Had bloods done which I really hate, find it so painful and my veins are still wrecked from having DD2. Results should be back tomorrow and they will call if a problem although I am back in on Tues (please don't snow!!!!) for 4 appointments (GTT, scan, midwife & cardio) they had a listen to spiderbabies heartbeats which is always nice to hear Grin not that they would keep still Grin They have given me piriton & aqueous cream but I am going to steer clear of the piriton if I can. I hope I just have gammy old sensitive skin and not OC as could really do without the extra stress on an already high risk pregnancy Confused

Sam Lovely to hear that Ruby is doing so well - must be the gold top Wink and I just can't get my head round that she is 8 weeks already!

Viv I am so glad your scan was all ok Grin I can't believe the sonographer said that about babycliqs nose! You can do lots of relaxing now you are on school holidays!!!!!

Sending TheTop3 labour vibes for the weekend and I really hope you don't get any snow!

Clare I love your victorian light switch description!!!!

Well it's -6 here and we've already had more than a dusting this afternoon.......who knows that the night will bring...........< magic curses for not buying more milk! >

HappyGirl1 · 17/12/2010 23:01

Hi Ladies,

Just a quick post to say a big hello to you all, to wish those ladies at the top of the list a HUGE big best of luck and really looking forward to your good news Smile. COngrats to Moo & Viv on the good scan news.

Sorry for being quiet, but we ended up back in hosp for a day or two cos of jaundice but little ciara (think someone asked how it's pronounced it's like 'keira as in keira knightly, it's an irish spelling) is doing great now. So so glad to be home again. Still BF but it hurts a LOT latching on but i'm hoping i'll get the hang of it a bit better soon. Just so happy and feel so lucky.

Best of luck to everyone and I promise to post and name check properly again shortly but just wanted to say a quick hi

xx

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