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SamanthaB123 · 16/11/2010 04:23

Our new thread to take us through the Chrisnas season. Pull up a chair, grab a mince pie and join us for support in pregnancy post miscarriage. All welcome!

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lia66 · 13/12/2010 18:14

Hi all,

Congrats Happy, lovely name, welcome little Ciara. :)

Just a quickie, magic8 is it just bump and stretch itching or hands and feet? Just asking as OC, serious liver cond is more condition is more common with multiples. Wouldn't want to worry you but worth noting.

Hope everyone else well. x

Magic8ballhastheanswers · 13/12/2010 18:21

Hi Liah OC did cross my mind but I am itchy all over, I have mega sensitive skin (had it with dd1 too) hands and feet are fine and spoke to twins midwife about it and she didn't seem to worried. Might ask for them to test just to rule it out. Thanks anyway xxx

Unbuffy · 13/12/2010 18:53

Just want to send big ((((hugs)))) to GLB. I too am having Christmas issues, my family are nagging me to go and stay with them - they say i'll get to sit down and relax and not have to do anything. This is ridiculous - every time i go there i end up coming home totally exhausted having done about 8 times as much as usual, and Christmas is much worse since my siblings turn into teenagers all over again, shirk washing up / other chores and don't get up until midday. so will end up doing load, plus it's a 3 hour drive 3 weeks post-op. Why don't families realise that sometimes we jsut need our own space, and that lovely as it is to see them sometimes it's just NOT and we have other things on our minds. Last time i managed to not go there for Christmas i was 39weeks preg with dd and it was only because we had loads of hospital appointments that i managed that. I really hope you manage to get it sorted out GLB, perhaps have a friend lined up to take them over should it all kick off? Or there is still time to put it all off - perhaps offer to do Easter or next year instead ('that way they'll get to see the baby and not have two trips very close together')
Late pg is hard enough work without all the stress that masses of visitors can bring. You need to feel safe and comfortable in your own space, give yourself time and rest as much as possible (while you can!)
rant over. (grrrrr...)

Muser · 13/12/2010 19:02

Remember Unbuffy, NO is a complete sentence. Stay strong and stay put. Besides, babies aren't meant to be in car seats for that long a drive, are they?

Muser · 13/12/2010 19:05

Monday's List Big congrats to Alba, 37 weeks = full term! Woot!

Zayja - baby#1 40+2 wks EDD 11th December
Goodluckbear - baby#1 39+2 wks EDD 18th December
Malteser1981 - baby#1 39+2 wks EDD 18th December
Gilda - baby#1 38+2 wks EDD 25th December
BunnyBaby - baby#3 38+2 wks EDD 25th December
sparklyrainbow - baby#1 37+4 wks EDD 30th December
AlbaDeTamble - baby#2 (1DS, 3yrs) 37 wks EDD 3rd January
toomuchteaching - baby#1 36+5 wks EDD 5th January
Redheadgal - baby#1 36+2 wks EDD 6th January
WestYorkshireGirl - baby#1 35 wks EDD 18th January
Dorcas111 - baby#1 33+3 wks EDD 28th January
Ba8y1 - baby#1 32+3 wks EDD 4th February
Clareanna - baby#2 (1DS) 31+3 wks ADD 3rd Feb
Lotta123 - baby#? 31+3 wks EDD 10th Feb
Muser - baby#1 29+1 wks EDD 27th Feb
Northerngoldilocks - baby#1 26+3 wks EDD 18 March
Magic8ballhastheanswers - babies#3&4 25+6 wks next scan 21st Dec
Lia - baby#6 25+5 wks EDD 23rd March
Hopefully - baby#2 24+3 wks EDD 2nd April
stuffedmk - baby#2 24+1 wks EDD 4th April
Osch - Baby#3 23+1 wks EDD 10th April
Ivysedai - baby#2 21+4 wks EDD 21st April
PenguinsMummy - baby#3 21+4 wks EDD 21st April
VivClicquot - baby#1 19+5 wks EDD 4th May
Loopymumsy - baby#4 19+4 wks EDD 5th May
Tigerbear - baby#1 18 wks EDD 14th May
Caribou - baby #2 (DD, 3yrs) 17+5 wks EDD 18th May. Next scan 5th Jan
appleblossoms - baby#2 14+2 wks EDD 11th June
crochetcircle - baby#? 14+1 wks EDD 11th June
LittleMiss - baby#1 12+2wks EDD 24th June
Wobblewatcher - baby#2 11+6 wks EDD 27th June
Inbetweener - baby#3 9+1 wks EDD 17th July

emmywoo- about 8 weeks
Purplehibiscus - nearly 7 weeks
Nicksters mum (in Chrissy cossy)

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:
Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May, 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August, 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son Charlie born on 30th September, 6lbs 8oz
SamB with daughter Ruby Mae born 19th October, 7lbs 10oz
Effilump with son Arlen born 16th October, 8lbs
Sarahlou8 with daughter Emily Isabella born 21st October, 7lb8oz
Unbuffy with son James Anthony born 3rd December, 6lb8oz
HappyGirl - with daughter Ciara born 10th December, 8lb2oz

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October

We share the pain and mourn the loss with:
Jollster, Cheepz, Freezing, BarrenBrook, MsJL, LadyBee, Banana87, BatteryHen, HairyTriangle and Waterplate.

CaribouMoo · 13/12/2010 19:24

Happy!! Congratulations on the arrival of Ciara, that's fab news. Sounds like you didn't have an easy time of it but so happy for you that all is well with you and your wee one. Love the name as well. You're Irish aren't you? We chose an old Irish name for DD, DH is Irish and I love loads of the old names.

Good luck to all at the top of the list, this is getting really exciting! Great news about the scan Littliemiss, hope you are starting to relax just a little. Apples I felt the same and didn't tell people until I was over 15 weeks - whereas with DD I was bursting to tell everyone just after 12 weeks.

GLB and Buffs hope you sort your Christmas woes out - I agree with Muser, now is the time to be a little selfish and think of yourselves and the little ones. Can't even begin to imagine hosting Christmas with a new born!

8s that sounds miserable with the itching, hope you get something to help with that. I see your bump is measuring 38 weeks already!!!

I've booked a private scan on Wednesday. Partly because we got one with DD and have a DVD of it and would like the same for this baby. Partly because it appeases my obssession of wanting to constantly check everything is ok. I think I'm a bit of a masochist though because scans still freak me out and I get into a state for days before them. I still can't feel anything either so no idea what's going on in there - will keep you all posted.

Hope everyone else is good

Redheadgal · 14/12/2010 07:03

Gah. Can't sleep so might as well catch up on MN. At least waking up at 5.30am today is better than the 4am wake up on Monday. I can't see that having a baby is going to make a great deal of difference to my already crappy sleep patterns.

Happy - congratulations on the arrival of baby Ciara! What a lovely name!

LittleMiss - congratulations to you too - I don't think I've said it yet, but great news on your scan.

apples - I still haven't told a lot of people. I realised last weekend that there are loads of folk who still don't know that I'm pregnant or that we've moved. Perhaps I'm being silly and superstitious but I'd already told several people when we mmc at 12 weeks so this time I just kept the news to the bare minimum. My solution was to post a terrific photo of me with bump at 35 weeks on facebook and wait for the penny to drop.

GLB and Buffy - you poor things! Agree with Muser and in the immortal lines from Grange Hill - 'Just say no!'. Really. Be selfish. It's important.

Woo woo to teaching - just four days to go right? Me too. Giving my last paper of the term on Friday evening and then collapsing in a heap. Have been nursing a horrible cold for which I thank my FIL and moved house yet again on Sunday so am ready for some time off!

MagicSpiderBabies - I'm struggling getting around with my bump (measuring 37 weeks) - I can't imagine how you're doing it! Hats off to you lady and really hope the oatmeal does the trick.

Righty Tuesday's list:

Zayja - baby#1 40+3 wks EDD 11th December
Goodluckbear - baby#1 39+3 wks EDD 18th December
Malteser1981 - baby#1 39+3 wks EDD 18th December
Gilda - baby#1 38+3 wks EDD 25th December
BunnyBaby - baby#3 38+3 wks EDD 25th December
sparklyrainbow - baby#1 37+5 wks EDD 30th December
AlbaDeTamble - baby#2 (1DS, 3yrs) 37+1 wks EDD 3rd January
toomuchteaching - baby#1 36+6 wks EDD 5th January
Redheadgal - baby#1 36+5 wks EDD 6th January
WestYorkshireGirl - baby#1 35+1 wks EDD 18th January
Dorcas111 - baby#1 33+4 wks EDD 28th January
Ba8y1 - baby#1 32+4 wks EDD 4th February
Clareanna - baby#2 (1DS) 31+4 wks ADD 3rd Feb
Lotta123 - baby#? 31+4 wks EDD 10th Feb
Muser - baby#1 29+2 wks EDD 27th Feb
Northerngoldilocks - baby#1 26+4 wks EDD 18 March
Magic8ballhastheanswers - babies#3&4 27 wks next scan 21st Dec
Lia - baby#6 25+6 wks EDD 23rd March
Hopefully - baby#2 24+4 wks EDD 2nd April
stuffedmk - baby#2 24+2 wks EDD 4th April
Osch - Baby#3 23+2 wks EDD 10th April
Ivysedai - baby#2 21+5 wks EDD 21st April
PenguinsMummy - baby#3 21+5 wks EDD 21st April
VivClicquot - baby#1 19+6 wks EDD 4th May
Loopymumsy - baby#4 19+5 wks EDD 5th May
Tigerbear - baby#1 18+1 wks EDD 14th May
Caribou - baby #2 (DD, 3yrs) 17+6 wks EDD 18th May. Next scan 5th Jan
appleblossoms - baby#2 14+3 wks EDD 11th June
crochetcircle - baby#? 14+2 wks EDD 11th June
LittleMiss - baby#1 12+3 wks EDD 24th June
Wobblewatcher - baby#2 12 wks EDD 27th June
Inbetweener - baby#3 9+2 wks EDD 17th July

emmywoo- about 8 weeks
Purplehibiscus - nearly 7 weeks
Nicksters mum (in Chrissy cossy)

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:
Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May, 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August, 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son Charlie born on 30th September, 6lbs 8oz
SamB with daughter Ruby Mae born 19th October, 7lbs 10oz
Effilump with son Arlen born 16th October, 8lbs
Sarahlou8 with daughter Emily Isabella born 21st October, 7lb8oz
Unbuffy with son James Anthony born 3rd December, 6lb8oz
HappyGirl - with daughter Ciara born 10th December, 8lb2oz

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October

We share the pain and mourn the loss with:
Jollster, Cheepz, Freezing, BarrenBrook, MsJL, LadyBee, Banana87, BatteryHen, HairyTriangle and Waterplate.

Magic8ballhastheanswers · 14/12/2010 09:48

Just making a slight adjustment to me as have gained a week (I wish!) Hope you are all well today! Naff nights sleep with itchiness......oatmeal Aveeno stuff RUBBISH!

Tuesday's list:

Zayja - baby#1 40+3 wks EDD 11th December
Goodluckbear - baby#1 39+3 wks EDD 18th December
Malteser1981 - baby#1 39+3 wks EDD 18th December
Gilda - baby#1 38+3 wks EDD 25th December
BunnyBaby - baby#3 38+3 wks EDD 25th December
sparklyrainbow - baby#1 37+5 wks EDD 30th December
AlbaDeTamble - baby#2 (1DS, 3yrs) 37+1 wks EDD 3rd January
toomuchteaching - baby#1 36+6 wks EDD 5th January
Redheadgal - baby#1 36+5 wks EDD 6th January
WestYorkshireGirl - baby#1 35+1 wks EDD 18th January
Dorcas111 - baby#1 33+4 wks EDD 28th January
Ba8y1 - baby#1 32+4 wks EDD 4th February
Clareanna - baby#2 (1DS) 31+4 wks ADD 3rd Feb
Lotta123 - baby#? 31+4 wks EDD 10th Feb
Muser - baby#1 29+2 wks EDD 27th Feb
Northerngoldilocks - baby#1 26+4 wks EDD 18 March
Magic8ballhastheanswers - babies#3&4 26 wks next scan 21st Dec
Lia - baby#6 25+6 wks EDD 23rd March
Hopefully - baby#2 24+4 wks EDD 2nd April
stuffedmk - baby#2 24+2 wks EDD 4th April
Osch - Baby#3 23+2 wks EDD 10th April
Ivysedai - baby#2 21+5 wks EDD 21st April
PenguinsMummy - baby#3 21+5 wks EDD 21st April
VivClicquot - baby#1 19+6 wks EDD 4th May
Loopymumsy - baby#4 19+5 wks EDD 5th May
Tigerbear - baby#1 18+1 wks EDD 14th May
Caribou - baby #2 (DD, 3yrs) 17+6 wks EDD 18th May. Next scan 5th Jan
appleblossoms - baby#2 14+3 wks EDD 11th June
crochetcircle - baby#? 14+2 wks EDD 11th June
LittleMiss - baby#1 12+3 wks EDD 24th June
Wobblewatcher - baby#2 12 wks EDD 27th June
Inbetweener - baby#3 9+2 wks EDD 17th July

emmywoo- about 8 weeks
Purplehibiscus - nearly 7 weeks
Nicksters mum (in Chrissy cossy)

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:
Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May, 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August, 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son Charlie born on 30th September, 6lbs 8oz
SamB with daughter Ruby Mae born 19th October, 7lbs 10oz
Effilump with son Arlen born 16th October, 8lbs
Sarahlou8 with daughter Emily Isabella born 21st October, 7lb8oz
Unbuffy with son James Anthony born 3rd December, 6lb8oz
HappyGirl - with daughter Ciara born 10th December, 8lb2oz

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October

We share the pain and mourn the loss with:
Jollster, Cheepz, Freezing, BarrenBrook, MsJL, LadyBee, Banana87, BatteryHen, HairyTriangle and Waterplate.

Redheadgal · 14/12/2010 09:59

Sorry magic - was more half asleep than I thought :-) Apologies to anyone else whose dates are similarly mixed up.

Goodluckbear · 14/12/2010 10:35

Ah, I see my family aren't the only ones with odd expectations!!

I feel lots better today, I had a word with my brothers and they will just come over for a bit on Christmas Day (no staying over). My parents are going to do all the cooking and cleaning, so I won't be doing anything. I've also got lined up somewhere for me to send them all if I go into labour....so hopefully have covered all my bases. Would've been a lot easier if no-one was coming....

Sorry you are having the same probs Unbuffy, it is so hard to manage family, I'm sure they mean well but don't quite understand what they are asking!! In fact, I find it easier to manage my friends than my family.

I made pancakes for breakfast and that cheered me up no end Smile

Good luck for that scan Cariboo - is that tomorrow or a week tomorrow?

Thanks everyone xxx

Unbuffy · 14/12/2010 10:48

Glad it's a bit more sorted for you, GLB. As they used to say, it's good to talk! And mmmmm pancakes... Am very Envy - am currently unable to stand up for long enough to cook such niceness - combination of permanently feeding baby and agonised cs site /tummy muscles. incidently i should be able to avoid my mother coming down for a while - she came down to look after dd while i was in labour and picked up a speeding ticket - this has put her off driving around here for a while i think. Unorthodox but effective!! Unfortunately this puts the pressure back on me to go there... win some, lose some. How many brothers have you got btw? i have 2 younger plus a younger sister. (Sisters are worse imo!)[nosy emoticon]

Gi1da · 14/12/2010 11:47

Morning ladies! GLB and Buffy really glad to hear you have your Christmasses a bit more sorted, I had a quick read last night and had an outraged rant at DH over it on your behalves (he still thinks I timed this baby just to get out of Xmas at the inlaws). It's definitely a time for us all to ringfence and have NO stress whatsoEVER! Smile

No news from Gilda Towers. Had my first 'any twinges yet' text today. Nada, but have been feeling a bit nauseous the last couple of days. Also starting to worry HOW the HELL is this going to work? It's NEVER coming out of THERE Shock.
No news on the homebirth kit yet - Alba, Malteser - do you have yours? It is just the gas & air? Have mw appt tomorrow so will ask where the heck it is.

Redhead love the ahem very subtle fb outing of bump!

Magic am in awe of you for double bumpness. I feel huge and can't imagine what it must be like to get to this size as quickly as you have, and to have more to grow! No wonder your poor skin is getting narked!

Caribou good luck distracting yourself today Smile.

Hope you had a fab holiday Clareanna did you get lots of lovely sunshine? Aaaah what a wonderful thought! Hope the journey home wasn't too painful.

Happy hope you are doing well and settling in with gorgeous Ciara.

Buffs how are the BiscuitBiscuits? Less Pammy or still putting a smile on the postman's face?

Woot woot woot for all at the top of teh list, and rah rah rahs to those climbing up from the bottom. It really is amazing how quickly the time actually goes once you stop counting the hours...

AlbaDeTamble · 14/12/2010 14:26

Gosh, I've not posted for a couple of days and once again lots of catching up in order...

Happy, congratulations! I hope you're both doing ok now, I don't suppose any of us really wants to end up with an EMCS, but very good to hear that all is well with you both after everything you've been through.

Zayja, pom poms at the ready for you, no news means we all assume you're in labour of course! Hope all was well with the NST and Ultrasound?

Muser thanks for the special 37 weeks full term cheer! Good to hear your sickness is finally gone... my goodness, it should be at nearly 30 weeks though! Before you know it you're going to be full term too -- time seems to be flying for everyone now

Buffy I just read Gilda's comment about your postman... what is it with postmen and assumptions of obstetric knowledge? Mine said I didn't look like I only had 3 weeks to go today... as did the lady on the till at M&S, why does everyone feel they have the right to comment on the size of my bump now?? Though I'm happy to report my non-maternity swing coat still fits, just! (albeit rather stretched, but saved a fortune on maternity coat!). I'm digressing hugely... but still chuckling about your mother's speeding ticket Grin

Gilda, my homebirth kit arrived an hour ago, big plastic crate with lots of stuff in sterile packs, but also including loads of inco pads, and even a towel for baby and a pack of sanitary towels... I'd already stocked up on all of those! And I have drugs to keep in the fridge, but only vitK for baby and syntometrine for me should it be needed (hope not, was fine without last time) but she says it's not possible to get pethidine for homebirth - I've read that it is, but maybe it's the good old area by area differences as usual Confused. She did make sense when she said I couldn't have that anyway if I'm using a pool, which is fair enough, but would be nice to have the option of getting out and having it... oh well. Must keep on listening to my cheesy hypnosis and assume that will do the trick! No entonox, they bring that with them. I didn't use it last time though so have no idea if it's any help. Oddly I was never offered any. Hope yours turns up soon!

As for those twinges, I've had loads, but I know from experience it doesn't mean a thing! BHs that stop me in my tracks (had those at 37 wks last time, baby born 5 weeks later by forcible eviction) and period type pains off and on. But now I have the homebirth kit, the half packed hospital bag is going to be reduced to a bare essentials overnight bag for me and baby just in case we have to transfer. Oh I do hope he does arrive promptly this time -- the week after xmas would suit me just fine.

Unbuffy how did you explain to your DD about when the baby was going to arrive? I get quite frustrated trying to explain to DS that the baby might come today, or maybe after christmas, or maybe even when everyone's back at school again...

Clareanna what a shame your holiday ended in waiting for breakdown truck, hope you didn't wait around too long and that you had a fabulous time whilst away

GLB glad you got christmas sorted. We have lots of family coming, however, they come every year and muck in and get on with the cooking and even the clearing up too, so to be honest, it means it'll be way easier for me with them here... and I think if I go into labour they'll probably all disappear to SILs house which is only a mile away anyway. I am quite lucky with family. I know how you feel with blue days though, some days I feel great, others the blues hit for absolutely no reason at all. Hormones have a lot to answer for! I keep trying to remind myself that it'll pass, probably sooner rather than later, and it does make it more bearable.

Redhead and Toomuch are you both teachers? We're almost due date buddies and I'm completely in awe of you both still working this week! Bet you can't wait for Friday evening.

Magic sorry to hear about the itchiness, good it's not OC though. I get very dry skin which gets terribly itchy, shins the worst, but pretty much anywhere else too, and have found palmers cocoa butter is the best thing ever. Smells a bit chocolately (which actually I like but you may not) and works a treat. I have used their stretch mark cream too and so far, with fingers tightly crossed that nothing changes in the next few weeks, I have none. so either it's great stuff, or I'm just lucky.

Caribou hope you're enjoying lovely pictures of a very healthy little bean today -- looking forward to updates

Malteser how on earth are you managing to be out dancing all night???! Oh to be young again.... I'm very jealous Envy

Sparkly no more sign of queue jumping?

Viv all the very best for your scan tomorrow, halfway and hopefully all well, you'll be so wonderfully relaxed tomorrow evening, but I hope you have something lovely planned for this evening to keep those worries at bay

LittleMiss good luck with the christmas parties! Surely your lack of drinking will be a big hint to all? I must admit I told at 12 weeks, it made it all more real for me for other people to know, and curiously it increased my confidence that it was all going to be just fine.

Apples have you decided when you're going to spill the beans? I'm amazed Redhead left it till now!! Talk about letting everyone know on the last minute.

I suppose I also told at 12 weeks because none of my work clothes fitted and I preferred people knew I was pregnant not porky (the things vanity drives you to! Grin)

Apples I hope you get past your last due date ok, I know I felt really wobbly around mine, it was about the same time as 20 week scan and I knew all was going well this time, but it still really threw me. I found it helped to find the space for a good cry. A colleague at work's baby arrived on the day, which actually lightened it slightly for me. I was close to being due date buddy with Unbuffy too, but I hadn't really got my hopes up quite so much so the date wasn't stuck in my mind and I found that one a lot easier, but did find myself feeling a bit unsettled all week till I realised why.

Onwards and upwards now though for these babies we're carrying right now, here's to all of them being fit and well and healthy and bringing us all loads of joy (oh dear, the hypnosis cheesiness rubbing off on me I think...)

Big waves to Jolls and TFLS, lovely to see you here, and of course to Lia

And to whoever I forgot to namecheck, but I think I've waffled on enough for now!

AlbaDeTamble · 14/12/2010 14:33

And very good luck for your interview Ivy

Lotta123 · 14/12/2010 19:37

Happy - congratulations!

Ivy - good luck!

Anybody done a hypnobirthing course and found it useful?

Xxx

clareanna · 14/12/2010 20:51

Hello! I'm back from hols and despite the minor blip getting home had a wonderful time. It wasn't too hot and DH was amazing with DS so I got lots of quality sun lounger / book time as well as lots of time with my two (soon to be 3) favourite boys!

viv I think you're planning a trip in Jan? My top tips for travelling long haul after 28 weeks would be... make sure you get a medical certificate from your GP before you go (the airlines often have a pdf you can print off and get them to fill in) I was asked on my return flight for it.
Flight socks and lots of water, then just make sure you move around loads on the plane. a travel neck pillow was also good as reclining the seat wasn't comfortable.
Hope all goes well with the scan tomorrow - will be thinking of you.

I looks like I've got LOTS to catch up on, I've been lurking while I was away, but here goes...

unbuffy lovely to hear from you and glad baby J is piling on the pounds already...

GLB good news that you've got Xmas more sorted - something that I try to remember is that you are not solely responsible for other people's happiness... My MIL is refusing to come up and spend xmas with us and wanted us to go to them (a 3.5 hr journey) I didn't want to take all DS's pressies etc all that way, so we've decided to go down on the 27th for a few days instead as a compromise. There is no reason for them not to come to us, other than the fact that she doesn't like "being a guest" at Xmas, and likes to cook her own turkey! well, this way she can...

moo hope all went well?

louise was thinking of you on thursday x

apples I told hardly anyone until I was 20 weeks, including work. I just couldn't face all the questions and having to be "excited" when I was still very much grieving my MMC - it somehow felt disloyal. It got easier after the due date and once I had a real bump and started to feel movement I've started to bond far more with this baby and am truly excited now, but it did take some time.

Hurray to everyone at the top of the list! Zayja GLB Malteaser Gi1da Bunny and Sparkly good luck to all of you!

magic pants that the aveeno isn't helping - E45 do an Itch relief cream that you can find in your friendly local Boots... otherwise Eucerin do a 10% Urea cream that is good for dry itchy skin too?
Often when I look at my bump I think of you with two of them in there - I CANNOT for the LIFE of me imagine what that must feel like - big respect!

RHG and teaching hurrah to mat leave! my last day is Xmas eve - can't wait now! Only slight arse is that my mat cover replacement has changed her mind, so I've got no one to hand over to, this also means my handover notes need to be pretty good...

Big waves to everyone else.. Ooh and one more thing - baby is currently head down but back to back. Not a problem with a C-section, but I would like to minimise the back ache and encourage bubs to move around - what lovely positions can you recommend?!

Goodluckbear · 15/12/2010 10:09

Hey Clareanna, where did you go on hols? Glad you had a good time, I guess you missed the worst of the weather here?

Unbuffy - I have 3 younger brothers - sometimes I think being the eldest puts the pressure on in the festive season, I think my brothers look to me to "be the grown up" so I end up hosting stuff, even though we all live within 10miles of each other and we are all close in age. What's the age gap with you and your siblings?

Alba - it sounds exciting with the kit arriving!!

Do you get any warning that labour is going to start soon? I don't feel any different to usual, I was wondering if I would suddenly wake up in the night feeling contractions or if the fact I'm not feeling any different means it's still a long way off....

Unbuffy · 15/12/2010 11:14

Fab you had a nice relaxing WARM holiday Clareanna, save up the heat it's freeeeeezing here atm! mmmmm, sun and loungers...

GLB I am also the eldest, my next is a brother who gets away with anything because he's so wonderful and also has an 'awkward' (ie sensible) wife (so he's cunningly avoiding Christmas), then my (useless) sister and another brother - there are only 7 1/2 years bewteen me at the top and him at the bottom, but mentally it's more like 15...

malteser1981 · 15/12/2010 11:34

Gilda - get on the case with your cmw, your homebirth kit should arrive as soon as you are eligible to deliver at home ie 37 weeks. As Alba said it contains all the goodies needed to deliver the baby and entonox. In my area they do not bring the oxytocics until your are in labour. My soft touch GP has given me a script for pethidine as my back up.

I'm really annoyed that I may have to use it as if I run out of entonox (and the little cyclinders only last 30-45 min each and I only have 5) overnight or on a sunday there are no porters to deliver any! Unfortunately the transportation of gases rules has stopped the midwives carrying it in their car boots (understandable really, can you imagine in an accident? BOOOMMMMM!!!)
But you would think there would be something in place wouldn't you? So I'm hoping for a really speedy (ha ha)delivery or to be in labour during the week and during the day!! Not much to ask?!

GLB- some women have a long warm up to labour and a latent phase and some luckier others just go into labour, that said it's rarely the dramatic Eastenders sort of labour onset crying in the street etc!! I don't feel in the slightest bit different either, so no signs of any action yet. Hope it soon for everyone near the top of the list. Christmas is drawing ever closer........!!!

VivClicquot · 15/12/2010 11:45

Morning all x

clareanna - Your holiday sounds fab. Glad you had a lovely time and that your DH also feels better for getting some rest. (I'm sure I remember you mentioning he was feeling run down before?)

Thanks for your advice re. travelling. We fly to Thailand at the end of Jan when all being well, I'll be 25+5. Have modified our original plans to do two legs in Thailand and instead are doing 10 nights in one place, but are then breaking up our journey home and are having 3 nights in Abu Dhabi. I just figured a 12 hour flight at 27+5 might be a little ambitious so at least this way, I can break it up a bit. Really can't wait now - once Christmas is out of the way, I'll be on proper countdown!

Thanks all for your lovely wishes re. my 20 week scan. It's tomorrow, not today, so one more night of frantic worrying ahead. Got quite emotional about it on Monday night actually, not least triggered by the fact that my sis had her 20 wk scan on Monday and all was well. Obviously I'm so pleased and thrilled, but in a weird way, I now feel under family pressure to make sure mine is okay too. Blush

moo - I think yours is today so hope it goes well, my lovely.

Lots of love to everyone else. xx

clareanna · 15/12/2010 13:40

glb we went to Dubai and stayed at jumeriah beach hotel courtesy of the hrmc tax rebate!! It was a v irresponsible use of cash just before mat leave, but as d is getting over pneumonia and all in all it's been a pretty shite year we decided what the hell!

Muser · 15/12/2010 15:40

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow Viv.

Had another midwife appointment today, everything still fine. My GTT results came back ok, so I don't need to give up the cake. Thank god.

Have to go back again in 3 weeks, then it's every 2 weeks until the baby arrives. Aaargh. It's really getting close!

appleblossoms · 15/12/2010 19:32

Hi everyone, hope the northern contingent have stocked up ready for the snow...you're very welcome to send some to me in the west if you get too much, we haven't really had any yet Sad

GLB with DS I was convinced nothing was going to happen anytime soon (on his due date) so begged DH to take me out to dinner...he refused and half an hour later waters broke, so good thing too! It was another 5 hours or so before contractions started properly, another 5 before I went into hospital and then 6 before DS was born....so no signs doesn't mean it won't start soon, but it won't be a mad panic when it does - if that makes sense!

Poor magic with itching! That must be really annoying....and with two little spidermonkeys kicking around for space bet you can't wait to reach term!

Thanks for all your kind words and advice, I think clareanna you summed it up exactly, it's the 'having to be excited' that I find so hard...I'm still firmly in the scared and anxious camp! Have decided, however, that if all goes well with the mw next week and I get to hear a heartbeat then I'll go ahead and let people know...eek! So far, I've only told people as I've spoken to them...so really very few of my friends know.

Good luck tomorrow viv...looking forward to a lovely update tomorrow.

moo was it your 20 week scan this week? How did you get on lovely? Have been thinking of you.

When the list next gets updated I think crochet's dates are a day out, we're due date buddies, so should both be the same. Mine is correct.

Right, I'm going to go and enjoy my new-found energy (hurray for 2nd trimester - have you found that too crochet?) and start wrapping DS's presents. Grin

CaribouMoo · 15/12/2010 19:32

Welcome home Clare, glad to hear you had a fab time. You missed some bloody awful weather too!

Alba I have no idea about how to get baby to move, I tried unsuccesfully with DD for weeks. From what I heard when you feel the baby mvoing about you get down on all fours and try to contract and expand your tum. A pleasant sight, I sloped off to our boardroom a few times to try but no one saw! As I said, it didn't work in any case.

Viv my love, very best of luck tomorrow. After spending the last few days fretting I know how you are feeling but please believe that all can and will be well x

Thanks for the good wishes, we did indeed have a fab scan. The doc spent half an hour checking out every part of baby's anatomy and declared all is exactly as it should be. We have our DVD and also found out we're having a BOY!! Which is odd because I really expected another girl, as did DH. So I can relax, for a wee while anyway!

I'm absolutely over the moon, grinning like an idiot. I've also been emotional this week though because tomorrow its exactly one year since we found out about the first MMC and I still feel very sad about that. Although tonight I feel very lucky and blessed to be where I am, despite what has happened in the past.

Gi1da · 15/12/2010 21:15

Quick post to say Moo I am SO pleased for you I just had a little happy tear or two. Beautiful news and congrats on having a lovely boy!

Will be thinking of you tomorrow too Viv.

Night all xx