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162 replies

MumNWLondon · 15/08/2010 09:23

I was reading the times yesterday (annoying can't post link because now have to pay for their website) was article about women having her first baby at 30 and how all her friends were still waiting. Midwife said all first time mums generally under 20 or over 34 unless it was unplanned.

So - who here is on their first pregnancy, how old are you (and if you don't mind saying was it planned?) if its your second pregnant how old were you first time?

Just nosey really couldn't really believe that 30 was young for a first pregnancy...

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oggybags · 16/08/2010 21:01

preg with first at 29, planned... fingers crossed all goes well

spilttheteaagain · 16/08/2010 21:20

I'm 25 this month, expecting 1st baby in February (DH is 25). Planned.

We are by far the first of our age group/uni batch to start a family.

ByThePowerOfGreyskull · 16/08/2010 21:25

ds1 30
ds2 32

girlsyearapart · 16/08/2010 21:27

all planned
1st at 28
2nd at 29
3rd at 31- she is 3 wks.

would like a 4th before I'm 35

Lazylion · 16/08/2010 21:32

33, 35 and 38 - all planned.
Have been with my dh since I was 20, but having babies in my 30s worked out perfectly career-wise.

PixieOnaLeaf · 16/08/2010 21:40

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chickbean · 16/08/2010 21:42

37, 39 and 41 (first 2 planned, third a very happy "accident")

PipPipPip · 16/08/2010 21:45

Currently pregnant with my first child at 28 - planned. Most of my (middle class, professional) friends are barely thinking about it. I will be one of the first in my group.

pinkmagic1 · 16/08/2010 21:45

1st-25 and 2nd 27. Both planned.

TheThingUpstairs · 16/08/2010 21:55

24 mc
26 dd planned
28 ds1 planned
30 ds2 happy accident!
Was one of the first out of my group to have children.

Shhhdonttell · 16/08/2010 23:01

26 and planned, been trying since 25 though (took just under a year!)

ohnororo · 16/08/2010 23:18

27 when conceived and it wasn't exactly planned but we weren't exactly being careful either!

lee69 · 17/08/2010 00:36

1st at 25
2nd at 28
3rd at 32
and no 4 due 26th dec and I will be 41!!!!
and all a wonderful surprise Wink

lilmamma · 17/08/2010 09:51

no1 planned at 18,and no4 planned at 35..

legallyblond · 17/08/2010 10:36

I am pregnant with my first and I am 28. It was semi-planned, by which I mean that DH and I consciously thought that this was the first time it could possibly work having a baby (before that we were training for professions etc) and we were therefore "negligent" with contraception because we figured it would be ok if I got pregant. I got pregnant 2 weeks after the conversation where we said "it actually would be ok if we had a baby in the next year or two, maybe the odd slip up won't matter...."!!!

legallyblond · 17/08/2010 10:38

Oh, and no-one in my group of friends (pretty much all lawyers etc) is remotely planning having babies. Thankfully I have one friend who is pregannt with a happy suprise!

Dalrymps · 17/08/2010 10:41

1st baby at 26, was in the process if planning to ttc in the next 6 months so he came a little early but I wouldn't say unplanned.

2nd baby at 28, planned.

Jazmyn · 17/08/2010 10:43

I am 31 and just had my first, planned. Planning on a second one in 2 to 3 years time.

domeafavour · 17/08/2010 10:45

37 for first baby, planned

Kathyjelly · 17/08/2010 10:49

DS at 45, unplanned

Kathyjelly · 17/08/2010 11:08

Oh God, I've just checked every single post and I really was ridiculously old. I think I shall change my name to fossilmum.

sunfunandmum · 17/08/2010 11:29

ooh, no, Kathyjelly, not ridiculously old ! Don't say that!

dawntigga · 17/08/2010 14:01

Kahtyjelly, come join us on the over 40's threadWink

You'reOnlyAsOldAsTheManYouFeelI'm35WinkTiggaxx

petisa · 17/08/2010 14:10

1st at age 31, unplanned.
2nd at age 33, planned.

petisa · 17/08/2010 14:11

Oh, and I'm one of the first of my friends.

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